Forgiveness How and Why

தூய அன்பின் வெளிப்பாடு – Forgiveness in Tamil

Forgiveness exercise in tamil
 
“நானும் உன்னை பொறுத்து கொள்கிறேன்
நீயும் என்னை பொறுத்து கொள்வாய்.
இருவரும் அன்பால் இணைவோம்.”
 
விளக்கம்
பொறுத்து கொள்வது (To accept one as he/she is .)
தனியாக மன்னிப்பு என்ற வார்த்தை சொல்ல வேண்டிய அவசியம் இல்லை.
இருவரும் ஒருவரை ஒருவர் பொறுத்து கொள்ளும் போது மன்னிப்பு இருவரிடமும் இயல்பாகவே வெளிப்படும்.
உன்னை உன் குறை நிறைகளுடன் அப்படியே ஏற்றுக்கொள்கிறேன்.
இந்த மனப்பாங்கு உறவை பலப்படுத்த உதவும்.

Value of Forgiveness – Part 3

A 50 years old lady got married at the age of 16 and has a daughter of 30 years old.
From the age of 24 years, the girl’s family is in search of the right bridegroom.
Regularly they were consulting and taking religiously all remedies.
 
 Suddenly a problem popped up. They have a huge family property.
The Lady’s brother, sister-in-law wanted to take the entire property and claimed that the lady has already received enough through her father and she is no more entitled to receive any share from that property.
 
This quarrel went on for some time and suddenly they stopped talking with each other. The lady consulted Naran.
 
Naran: Who is more responsible for creating this problem?
 
Lady: My brother is okay. My sister-in-law is bad and cunning person, and she is responsible for creating all this havoc.
 
Naran : Along with Bach Flower remedies, do forgiveness exercise for your sister-in-law.
 
I XXXX forgive you (sister-in-law name), please forgive me and release me.
 
For a moment, the woman resisted and then agreed as she is regularly consulting Naran for many years.
 
Lady: Yes sir. I will do forgiveness exercise.
 
Naran : You have to do forgiveness for your sister-in-law atleast 500 times a day. You can split it and do it daily.
 
Woman did forgiveness daily to her sister-in-law for 3 months. Nothing happened. But she continued the forgiveness.
In the fourth month, a bridegroom visited their house and within the same day, marriage got fixed.
The situation with the family property dispute remained same even now. She consulted again.
 
Naran:
When you forgive your sister-in-law, do not expect her to change. But understand, your sister-in-law helped you to ascend to divine state. When you ascended to the Divine state, your daughter’s marriage got fixed.
 
When you are in the state of ego, you remain closed.
When you give up the ego, you are open to receive. Any aspect of life can be improved upon.
Divine has got so many ways to give you.
Don’t have your eye on the family property share.
Divine always gives whatever is NEEDED for you.
This forgiving exercise taught you to open to the grace of Divine.
 
“When you open up to give, you create a space to receive.”
You create a space to receive the Divine grace in whatever way Divine wants and not to your liking or want.
 
What is the benefit of forgiving your sister-in-law?
Forgiving the sister-in-law helped you to get your daughter married.
Human mind always wants to have some benefit of each and every action.
 
In a problem, if you claim the other person is wrong and bad, you imply your are good. Forgiveness keeps both of you in the same pedestal.
 
“Please forgive me and release me” in the forgiveness statement addresses the atman and not to the person.
 
Divine has got so many ways and means through which you can receive.
People who are quarrelling or antagonising with you are instruments of the Divine.
 
When you understand the deeper meaning of forgiveness, you will forgive wholeheartedly.
 
Read

Value of Forgiveness – Part 1

When you open up to give, you create a space to receive.

 People when stuck in a problem are overpowered by the problem.
 They don’t think anything else other than the problem.
 Something new might open up, they may fail to notice it.
 

WHEN YOU GIVE UP YOUR EGO AND TRY TO CLIMB UP TO THE LEVEL OF SOUL, ANY PART (ANY MATERIAL PART) MAY OPEN UP.

Forgiving a problem in one part of your life opens to attracting good things in another aspect of life.

Read this interesting success story where forgiveness has led to conception.

I cannot forgive – Part 1

What are the situations?

 1. Continuous non-stop criticism every day or for everything
 2. Stealing your efforts, hardwork, credits
 3. Cheating money which was borrowed
 4. Cheating in relationship but blaming you for that action
 5. Injustice to your legal share, property
 and many more situations where one finds it difficult to forgive the other person.
 
In these situations, you take a stand “I am right. What is happening is injustice to me. The other person is doing injustice to me.”
From this angle, your views are correct. Does this give a solution to the problem?
Or you continue to be a victim and the other person a perpetrator?
Sometime, in another situation, you will be perpetrator and the other person becomes a victim…You cannot come out of this triangle.
 
What actions you are likely to do?
You will want somebody to rescue you from this situation.
You will find a person to vent out emotions for solace.
You will try all healing modalities for solving this issue.
You are so ignorant that you will not find solution by being in this state of mind (I am a victim, other person is perpetrator.)
 

Assess your situation and ask these questions.

1. Do I want to remain in ignorance?
2. Do I want to go above these problems in life?
 
If the event is repeating again and again, it means you are storing same experience again and again in your mind.
Will you repeat if you know the consequences of your action?
What are the consequences?
We should understand this in the background of Draupadi’s forgiveness.(next blog)

GRATITUDE AND FORGIVENESS – infallible solution

Student

Want to share an experience which happened in the morning.

Renovation of our office Space is going which was bought recently.

The carpenter who had been with us for 20 years, stopped the work abruptly and went away. He’s  a person with moods but undoubtedly a nice person and highly skilled carpenter. We have always ignored his moods and appreciated his work.

 

As Naran sir always says FORGIVENESS  is the only solution to resolve any conflict, I was thanking him and also was doing forgiveness exercise ever since he stopped the work. We waited for 4-5 days.

We started to get worried as we have to pay rent to the current office space and also the EMI for the new space. This morning my husband was very much worried about the standstill position of the work.

 

I immediately searched Naran sir’s blog to find a solution. It’s not an exaggeration to say that Naran sir’s blog is a treasure trove of divine guidance for every single situation.

 

To my great happiness and surprise I found an article titled UNFINISHED CARPENTRY WORK I went through the article and did the exercise prescribed by Naran sir immediately. Also sent lots of love to the carpenter and did forgiveness exercise again.

 

Told my husband to call the carpenter. He called the carpenter and asked him if it’s fair on his part to abruptly stop the work and go .The carpenter paused for a second and said that he will come today itself for work. He also apologized for not inform

 

Naran sir , thank you so much for your divine guidance.

Time and again, I am witnessing the power of gratitude, forgiveness through your guidance .I am convinced that GRATITUDE AND FORGIVENESS are the only and infallible solutions to all the conflicts.  And LOVE alone can paralyse the anger, hatred and resentment.

Have a golden heart to forgive

Client

I just want to thank you for the wonderful guidance and share my recent experience.

Years ago, there was a misunderstanding between my son and my younger sister’s daughter due to some silly reason. They were not communicating with each other. Both are in USA.

However, we – my sister and I, do not talk about it and get along, yet it was there inside us.

Suddenly, one day my sister opened the Pandora box and talked in favor of her daughter and in turn, I did support my son.

Nevertheless, I felt after attending your classes that I should not behave like this or brood over this. Therefore, I started forgiveness exercise sincerely.

In addition, I did the silver triangle past-life healing. There, I tried to probe whether a similar thing occurred on my mother’s side.

Though, not the same but my dad had problems with my mom’s elder sister’s son. I put that, with all the emotions of theirs and mine and did the meditation.

Today, my son rang up and said that he received a phone call from my sister’s daughter. She asked for forgiveness and all is well.

Of course, the girl had a golden heart to do this at a young age.

Related Posts

You can heal anything with this technique: http://www.reachnaran.com/you-can-heal-anything-with-this-technique/

A tendency to blame others: http://www.reachnaran.com/i-love-to-take-control-of-my-life/

One drop of love will change him: http://www.reachnaran.com/one-drop-of-love-will-change-him/

One death that I can never forget

The following was a summary of a message, circulated in social media. It is used here to promote the value of FORGIVENESS.

Case History

“One death that I can never forget” is the remark of a person who looks after dying people in Kasi, India.

He works as a manager in a lodge that caters to people who are about to die anytime. A dying person from any background is freely admitted inside the lodge, but for 12 days only.

If they die within this period, they will be buried properly after doing the necessary rites. Otherwise, they had to vacate the lodge, no matter what their health condition may be.

Now, the manager narrates the remarkable story

A 70 year-old person came to stay in the lodge. On 10th day of his stay, he wanted to meet his younger brother before he dies.

On his brother visit, he apologized to him for constructing a wall between their houses. It was built ten years back and from that time onwards, he regretted the decision.

After apologizing to his brother, he held his hand and requested him to break the wall immediately. While apologizing for his wrong decision he did let out a few drops of tears too.

Then he died peacefully holding his brother’s hand.

This was witnessed by the manager of the lodge. Even though he has witnessed more than thousands of deaths in his life, he said that he will never forget this one.

Naran S Balakumar

An act of forgiveness leads to peaceful death. That is the power of forgiveness!

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No words to describe my joy: http://www.reachnaran.com/no-words-to-describe-my-joy/

Act of Forgiveness: http://www.reachnaran.com/act-of-forgiveness/

All pains are gone

Client

While doing forgiving exercise I have pain in right part of my head, right shoulder, right ear and right little finger.

What does it indicate? Pls guide me sir.

One more thing, within one week amazing results are there. Those who are angry with me have changed.

Naran S Balakumar

Chant “I RELEASE RESISTANCE” and then do the forgiving exercise.

Client

Million thanks Naran sir.

All pains are gone, except for the right little finger. I think it will take some more time to heal.

The relatives and our friends are coming to our home.

Wonderful experience by this forgiving exercise and I am continuing. Truly, Forgiving is For Giving. Thank you for the Happiness.

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No More Chest Pain: http://www.reachnaran.com/no-more-chest-pain/

Learning many things from my daughter: http://www.reachnaran.com/learning-many-things-from-my-daughter/

Why forgiving your parents is very important

Naran S Balakumar

It doesn’t matter whether you have any conflict with your parents or not, forgiving your parents is important.

Some people might think, “I have a very good relationship with my parents, why should I forgive?”

Father and Mother Energies are inside you… Father and Mother outside represent your own inner energies of male and female.

How does the father’s energy inside you is represented outside you?

Parents represent your male and female energy. What’s the male energy or father energy (in you)?

  • It is the desire to judge or desire to disassociate.
  • It is an energy that creates conflicts, by picking up fights with others. It doesn’t mean that your father is a person who fights with others.
  • The father energy or male energy always has the desire to change or control the other person. We always want everything in our favor, which shows our ‘desire to change’.
  • Male energy is always unforgiving. It wants everything in its own terms.
  • ‘Resisting to change’ comes from father’s energy – male energy, which always wants to receive something and only after receiving it will give something.
  • ‘If only I receive’ is his expression. Everything is a mathematical calculation for him.

He says, “I have a debt of 5 lakhs of rupees. Somebody else has to give me 10 lakhs. Only on getting the 5 lakhs from him, I will return my dues”

He will not think about what he has to give. Only on getting his money he will return his dues – this is his way of thinking. This is the behavior of male energy.

How does the mother’s energy inside you is represented outside you?

  • Desire of approval or appreciation is an expression of mother energy or female energy.
  • The female energy doesn’t know how to thank.
  • Female energy is a giving energy, but always expecting to receive something in return.

Because of this imbalance in our male and female energies, both of them are drawing us outside in different ways.

How to forgive your parents

Specifically do the Forgiveness Exercise for your father and mother, ten times each.

“I Siva forgive you my father (or mother), please forgive me and release me”.

If you are not comfortable saying ‘father’ or ‘mother’ then say the name of your father (or mother).

“I Siva forgive you Venkat, please forgive me and release me”.

By doing the forgiving exercise for your parents, the negative points of your father and mother will be released from your memory. Then you will not repeat their mistakes.

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Story of Rama: https://findlifeanswers.wordpress.com/2014/01/14/story-of-rama/

Resolving difference of opinions between two persons

Naran S Balakumar

Variation Method

There is another method where you can do FORGIVENESS EXERCISE.

All of us think that whatever we do is right.

When there is a conflict or quarrel, Keep yourself (your thoughts, feelings and judgment) in the right hand – it doesn’t matter whether is left or right hand. Keep the other person on the other hand.

You put your points and arguments in the right palm.

Think from his angle and put the other person’s view point in the left palm.

He is also right. You’re also right.

Keep the hands facing each other two feet away and bring them together- do this very slowly – chanting ‘I AM SORRY FORGIVE ME LOVE THANKS DIVINE LIGHT CHANGE’ as many times as possible.

After this do the forgiveness exercise for the individual(s): http://www.reachnaran.com/forgiveness-exercise-method/

Draw the infinity symbol on the palm before putting the concerned points and close it with another infinity symbol.

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Not getting my money: https://healbyswitchword.wordpress.com/2013/07/23/not-getting-my-money/

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