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Create positives out of a situation

Naran

Let us see an example

“My husband is not good. He is irritating too”, says the wife.

She is blaming her husband here.

If she has to handle this situation, then what resource (quality) she needs to handle it?

Does she needs to be courageous, be more loving and caring, or be bold?

When there is a problem, you need to ask yourself, “What one resource will enrich me and will help me to handle this life situation”.

This way you are healing yourself. Instead, if some person is angry and you also get angry, then you are gone.

So what do we need here?

People would say she needs patience and tolerance.

What’s patience?

Patience is the quality or ability to withstand a situation without getting angry or upset.

If that’s the case, then the Bach Flower IMPATIENS is the remedy. Impatiens will create patience inside you.

You need tolerance also. BEECH is the remedy for it.

Beech and Impatiens go together in cultivating tolerance and patience.

Developing a Life Strategy

Quality of patience, without getting upset or angry about the other person, is waiting inside us, waiting for the right opportunity.

We all need it. If I have it, then I will be striking at the right moment. It’s a Life Strategy.

If we have this quality, we will have more consideration and caring for other people. To develop this strategy, take the flower remedy IMPATIENS.

If I cultivate patience and tolerance (Beech and Impatiens), then I will become more considerate.

Consideration means, there is more love and affection for other person. Then we will become accommodative.

To be more caring, after being considerate, HOLLY is the remedy.

Related Posts

Audit your thoughts:

 https://healbyrule.wordpress.com/2013/09/19/audit-your-thoughts/

The Universal Lover:

 https://theflowerangels.wordpress.com/2013/09/05/the-universal-lover/

Need not be afraid to give presentations

Rama Rao

I want to share my experience and express my gratitude.

On June 20’14 our VP was arriving from Hong Kong to meet us and see how we were performing.

Our manager asked us to prepare individual presentation to show what we have been doing here since we joined and tell him about our contribution towards this business growth. 

This was the first time in my service of 12 years I was giving a presentation. I had no good ideas about presentation but I am top performer in my team. 

I was afraid I am working in this company for last 5.8 years now and if I do not present well then people might doubt about my ability, I was nervous. 

I started reading the blog and found one situation matching with mine and then I call Shobana madam and asked if I can follow the below and she suggested yes its good while attending any meetings.

What I did the before day of the meeting?

Made 2 concentric circles

  1. One with my name in the centre and WATER VIOLET, LARCH, GENTIAN and WILD ROSE in the outer circles in that order
  2. Another one with my name in the centre along with the person I was making the presentation to, date and location and ELM, GORSE and HEATHER in the outer circles in that order.

Kept these two papers in my file and started my day chanting Ambika mantra;

Tons of thanks to Naran, this amazingly worked out, sequence of what happened:

  1. As I got into the office, the VP was just come in car behind me; I was the first to meet him and wished him good morning. 
  2. I was so confident and we went to the meeting room again all the seats we occupied and only one chair next to VP was left. I had no choice but to sit. He started talking to me while other team members were quite nervous, I was not and was very casual with him
  3. I was the last to share my presentation and it was really amazing that is was not nervous at any point and was able to present well about our team work.  Our VP told it is good to see my presentation where I have used some words which no one has used. I was very happy.

The day was very smooth. We had lunch with him and our manager was very happy that we all presented well very on the day.

Once again thank you, we are blessed to have you on earth sent by god to advise how to lead life easily.

Related Posts

Winning Presentations: http://reachnaran.com/tag/winning-presentations/

Help for my children: http://reachnaran.com/help-for-my-children/

Office Remedies Part I: http://reachnaran.com/office-remedies-part-i/

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