Posts tagged Affection
Let us see an example
“My husband is not good. He is irritating too”, says the wife.
She is blaming her husband here.
If she has to handle this situation, then what resource (quality) she needs to handle it?
Does she needs to be courageous, be more loving and caring, or be bold?
When there is a problem, you need to ask yourself, “What one resource will enrich me and will help me to handle this life situation”.
This way you are healing yourself. Instead, if some person is angry and you also get angry, then you are gone.
So what do we need here?
People would say she needs patience and tolerance.
Patience is the quality or ability to withstand a situation without getting angry or upset.
If that’s the case, then the Bach Flower IMPATIENS is the remedy. Impatiens will create patience inside you.
You need tolerance also. BEECH is the remedy for it.
Beech and Impatiens go together in cultivating tolerance and patience.
Developing a Life Strategy
Quality of patience, without getting upset or angry about the other person, is waiting inside us, waiting for the right opportunity.
We all need it. If I have it, then I will be striking at the right moment. It’s a Life Strategy.
If we have this quality, we will have more consideration and caring for other people. To develop this strategy, take the flower remedy IMPATIENS.
If I cultivate patience and tolerance (Beech and Impatiens), then I will become more considerate.
Consideration means, there is more love and affection for other person. Then we will become accommodative.
To be more caring, after being considerate, HOLLY is the remedy.
Audit your thoughts:
The Universal Lover:
I am married a few months ago and have problems with my mother-in-law. She is the possessive type.
When my husband, she and I go out, she wants to sit in front in the car. Whenever my husband and I go out for a vacation, she would call him and ask him to come back.
She decides everything for us and we have no freedom as husband and wife. My husband follows her blindly without questioning.
How am I to solve this problem? I want my MIL to leave us to enjoy our marriage life.
I love my parents very much and I want my parents to stay near me and I want to take care of them forever.
At the moment my dad is jobless and he is always sad because of that. I hope he can get a job somewhere near my place so that my family will always be next to me. And, I want my parents to live long.
Write your parents name. Draw a circle around the names. Draw one more circle around the first one. Write in the gap, “SWEET CHESTNUT, WALNUT, GREEN TOURMALINE”.
Love your mother-in-law as much as you love your parents. What all you want to do for your parents, do for your mother-in-law.
Change your thinking and stop resenting. Do this for one month.
Thank her for allowing you to be with your husband. Daily thank her like this.
In the night, chant “TOGETHER CHANGE NOW” till you sleep.
Love, Affection and Harmony: http://togetherrelationship.wordpress.com/2013/09/17/love-affection-and-harmony/
Bring Cheer in Relationships: http://healbygems.wordpress.com/2013/08/15/cheer-in-relationships/
Tie your problems and throw them away: http://naranhealingproducts.wordpress.com/2011/06/06/tie-your-problems-and-throw-them-away/