Posts tagged angry
Release the mental drama going on inside the mind (using IEIT/tapping for example) and do what you want to do.
An action is taken without judgment, without any emotion or without any desire.
Action is never prevented or you are not prevented to take a decision to your will.
Keep the mind free before taking any action and after taking the action.
A decision is taken after releasing everything of the mind, so that a state of equanimity is achieved.
For example, a child may not listen to the parent. Then the parent may get angry and try to advise the child. She has to release all her anger and her desire to control or change the person and then advise.
Release the mental drama before saying anything or doing anything. In action for the mind and action for the body is the need.
One drop of love will change him:
Rhythm of Love:
Let us see an example
“My husband is not good. He is irritating too”, says the wife.
She is blaming her husband here.
If she has to handle this situation, then what resource (quality) she needs to handle it?
Does she needs to be courageous, be more loving and caring, or be bold?
When there is a problem, you need to ask yourself, “What one resource will enrich me and will help me to handle this life situation”.
This way you are healing yourself. Instead, if some person is angry and you also get angry, then you are gone.
So what do we need here?
People would say she needs patience and tolerance.
Patience is the quality or ability to withstand a situation without getting angry or upset.
If that’s the case, then the Bach Flower IMPATIENS is the remedy. Impatiens will create patience inside you.
You need tolerance also. BEECH is the remedy for it.
Beech and Impatiens go together in cultivating tolerance and patience.
Developing a Life Strategy
Quality of patience, without getting upset or angry about the other person, is waiting inside us, waiting for the right opportunity.
We all need it. If I have it, then I will be striking at the right moment. It’s a Life Strategy.
If we have this quality, we will have more consideration and caring for other people. To develop this strategy, take the flower remedy IMPATIENS.
If I cultivate patience and tolerance (Beech and Impatiens), then I will become more considerate.
Consideration means, there is more love and affection for other person. Then we will become accommodative.
To be more caring, after being considerate, HOLLY is the remedy.
Audit your thoughts:
The Universal Lover:
I want to inculcate the values of politeness and self-control in my 8-year-old daughter.
She keeps getting angry for every small thing and loses self-control. She gets very tempted with all material possessions and never really wants to share with others until forced to.
I am worried that she might land up in trouble with this kind of an attitude in future.
Don’t teach her anything.
She will come up well. Allow the child to be a child.
He is very aggressive: http://reachchildcare.wordpress.com/2013/09/04/aggressive-child/
Deep inside a hole: http://praisedivinelife.wordpress.com/2013/07/10/deep-inside-a-hole/
I am going through menopause symptoms. I am aged 46.
I feel very depressed, sometimes too much angry, want to cry loudly on some old issues of family, feel lonely and think that life is useless.
Please help me.
Take MUSTARD and SCLERANTHUS when you are depressed.
When you are angry, take HOLLY and WILLOW.
Daily take WALNUT, GENTIAN and HORNBEAM.
Mood swings: SCLERANTHUS
Too much anger: HOLLY
Anger due to resentment: WILLOW
Transition to new phase of life: WALNUT
Sudden regression due to menopause: GENTIAN
Tired due to this new situation: HORNBEAM
Prescription of Bach Flower Remedies: http://reachnaran.com/prescription-of-bach-flower-remedies/
Might be Menopause: https://divineshakthi.wordpress.com/2013/08/05/might-be-menopause/
Kindly explain that all of them are our projections means what?
The unfinished and unresolved parts of me e.g. my anger or my judgment about others are coming out in the form of other persons.
When you see them you get angry you dislike them you start criticizing them as if they were not yours.
In other words, your own anger takes the human form reminding you about the past unresolved conflicts.
Instead of repeating what we did in the past, giving Reiki is breaking the pattern.
By nature I am very candid and not diplomatic.
Also, I am very open to negative feedback too, when someone is giving me a feedback – at home or at work.
However, at home (mine is a joint family), everyone dislikes me since I am very frank. Although, I am very efficient with house work and do not compromise on my duties.
One of my boss (I have 2 bosses) was very good to me and appreciated my work etc, until a while ago when I was frank in expressing some work-related issue.
Now one boss is still ok, since he knows that I am good at work and I am very frank – that is my nature.
Another boss is all angry with me and at every meeting makes sure that he puts me down or talks negatively when it comes to my work.
Can I chant something please, especially that both my husband and my boss should start appreciating me?
If you want to maintain your candidness, you can get these only.
You do not point out the mistake only. You point out the good points also. If you want to point the mistake then do it with love.
Others will criticize me: http://studyforsuccess.wordpress.com/2013/03/13/afraid-people-will-criticize-me/
I feel small, when he criticizes me: https://healbyrule.wordpress.com/2010/01/19/i-feel-small-when-he-criticizes-me-%E2%80%93-a-case-history/
Whenever I find any overwhelming emotions in the form of anger or hurt, I find saying the switch words, “TOGETHER BOW CONCEDE ADJUST FORGIVE PRAISE THANKS” very useful.
If I simply look at the feeling and say those words, the emotions simply vanish away.
Look at the emotions and say, “I release that part of my mind that is angry. I activate that part of mind that forgives”.
Another example is, “I release that part of me that vomits. I activate that part of mind that stops vomiting”.
You can also do this with whomever you are having problems.
For example, “I release the part which is resisting being harmonious with. I activate the part that brings in harmony, peace and love with so and so”.
This way you can do for any aspect of life. The reason it works is, we have several parts operating– each part taking us in a different direction.
The moment we become aware of it, the healing happens faster.
After employing the technique for a while, one thing I notice however is a sense of fear.
When one skin (emotion) is peeled off, another skin (another emotion) appears. Affirm, “I align the fearing mind with my fearless consciousness”.
Post-Script (R Mohan)
While I was getting help from Naran (for my anger), during the same time, I provided the same suggestions to M (for her hurt): http://healbyanimalspirits.wordpress.com/2013/07/28/entwined-in-love/#comment-2057
Naran says that we come across people with the same problems as we are facing then.
So, we should not worry whether we are providing right solutions to them or not as our solutions apply to them as well.
If someone is angry against you, the FIRE element is more inside you.
To pacify it, you have to react in a different way. If you activate WATER and EARTH elements, then you will become patient and relaxed.
The PRAN MUDRA – little and ring fingers touching the tip on both the hands, will activate your earth and water elements.
When such an unusual response is given – instead of reacting with other person angrily, you treat him in a peaceful manner, then the opposite person don’t have a choice but to react in a different way.
We can also reduce our Anger.
I am chanting “OM HREEM TAHA” and also giving it to my family members. I feel good.
I am even chanting it holding my husband’s photo and my daughters too, as ours is a short-tempered family. I am feeling a difference in the way we are handling things.
When my husband is angry I am smiling and answering. Sometimes, he is ignoring my comments.
However, I see good results. How many days shall I continue doing this?
Keep the fire under control: http://healbymeditation.wordpress.com/2013/04/01/keep-the-fire-under-control/
Real Happiness: http://healbymeditation.wordpress.com/2013/04/23/real-happiness/
I’m a shy person. I think so. But after marriage I think I have improved a lot.
Sometimes I keep myself last….e.g., if my neighbour says something that I don’t like I’ll not oppose or if my neighbour called my maid without asking me I will not say anything, though I feel bad.
It is like that I keep myself always last. Even when I was younger I did the same thing. I will be the last girl standing in the queue, though I was very good student.
I don’t consider myself. I don’t express myself about what I want.
Take the flower remedies CENTAURY, WILLOW and PINE.
Put each 5 pills in a glass of water and have small sips from that water every one or two hours from morning to evening.
A CENTAURY person cannot say ‘No’. Eventually they will develop resentment – WILLOW and feel guilty for saying ‘No’ or for getting angry – PINE.
Will do anything to manipulate others: http://theflowerangels.wordpress.com/2013/09/30/a-reluctant-giver/