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How to criticize others?
SD
By nature I am very candid and not diplomatic.
Also, I am very open to negative feedback too, when someone is giving me a feedback – at home or at work.
However, at home (mine is a joint family), everyone dislikes me since I am very frank. Although, I am very efficient with house work and do not compromise on my duties.
One of my boss (I have 2 bosses) was very good to me and appreciated my work etc, until a while ago when I was frank in expressing some work-related issue.
Now one boss is still ok, since he knows that I am good at work and I am very frank – that is my nature.
Another boss is all angry with me and at every meeting makes sure that he puts me down or talks negatively when it comes to my work.
Can I chant something please, especially that both my husband and my boss should start appreciating me?
Naran
If you want to maintain your candidness, you can get these only.
You do not point out the mistake only. You point out the good points also. If you want to point the mistake then do it with love.
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Help for my children
Usha
I called WOLF on two occasions to help my children.
Our younger son had an exam yesterday. He had a thumb injury which was operated.
I was anxious regarding the pain and spasm he has been having while writing. He called to say he had no pain and has done well.
Our doctor son, who is trying for PG, had to take a lecture this morning for a class of medical students on one of the most difficult topics to understand in Anatomy.
He just called to say, his lecture was a hit! It was very well appreciated by the Professors, junior faculty and students!!
Thank you once again for helping me.
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Winning presentations: http://reachnaran.com/winning-presentations/