Posts tagged BOW
I heard a lot about you from my friends.
I’m facing a lot of problems as I’m in love with a guy since past 8 years. He also loves me a lot.
My family has agreed regarding our marriage issues but his family is totally against it as our horoscopes are not matching as I have KAL SARP YOG in my horoscope.
What should I chant in order to remove all these obstacles and his family agrees?
As suggested by you, I am chanting (switching words) “CLIMB ADJUST TOGETHER CHANGE DIVINE” daily 200 times, for removing little fighting in between me and my would-be husband.
Just 25 days are left for our marriage but there is daily fight between us on phone. I want a loveable and harmonious relation between us.
We get normal after 2 days. I want that nobody can put finger on our fighting as ours is a love marriage.
I want these fights to far away from my both families so that there should be peace and love between us.
(For both Minee and Anu…the following answer)
Whether the horoscope matches or not, all the couples should understand each other, trust that both live to love each other, shed the ego which is the cause of all conflict, reach harmony somehow, praising each other instead of finding fault, and understanding to communicate after listening.
Chant “BOW PRAISE TOGETHER REACH DIVINE LOVE LISTEN BETWEEN” is the mantra for your happy married life.
I am really feeling glad for your response. Every answer and solution suggested by you really gives us message and lesson!
Thank you Naran!!
Marriage got fixed after a long period of waiting: https://healbymeditation.wordpress.com/2010/03/16/marriage-got-fixed-after-a-long-period-of-waiting/
Raining clouds: https://marriagemantri.wordpress.com/2013/08/27/raining-clouds/
Whenever I find any overwhelming emotions in the form of anger or hurt, I find saying the switch words, “TOGETHER BOW CONCEDE ADJUST FORGIVE PRAISE THANKS” very useful.
If I simply look at the feeling and say those words, the emotions simply vanish away.
Look at the emotions and say, “I release that part of my mind that is angry. I activate that part of mind that forgives”.
Another example is, “I release that part of me that vomits. I activate that part of mind that stops vomiting”.
You can also do this with whomever you are having problems.
For example, “I release the part which is resisting being harmonious with. I activate the part that brings in harmony, peace and love with so and so”.
This way you can do for any aspect of life. The reason it works is, we have several parts operating– each part taking us in a different direction.
The moment we become aware of it, the healing happens faster.
After employing the technique for a while, one thing I notice however is a sense of fear.
When one skin (emotion) is peeled off, another skin (another emotion) appears. Affirm, “I align the fearing mind with my fearless consciousness”.
Post-Script (R Mohan)
While I was getting help from Naran (for my anger), during the same time, I provided the same suggestions to M (for her hurt): http://healbyanimalspirits.wordpress.com/2013/07/28/entwined-in-love/#comment-2057
Naran says that we come across people with the same problems as we are facing then.
So, we should not worry whether we are providing right solutions to them or not as our solutions apply to them as well.
During last week, I had been diagnosed with ectopic/tubal pregnancy.
Foetus was healthy and well growing, but growing at wrong place. So, as per doctor’s advice, I had to terminate that pregnancy.
I remained sad for one two days and not only me but whole family was sad.
I know everything is happening for the best and according to all merciful supreme lords’ will. I myself have seen so many worst looking events turning into beneficial ones afterwards.
But, during the moments of emotional trauma all this theoretical and practical knowledge disappears from mind.
Is there any method or technique other than meditation to train our minds to happily and calmly accept all such events, which are beyond our control and purely according to divine will?
And how should we perceive such incidents to feel less or no grief?
Feeling less grief is not to be imposed.
Go through the emotions, which naturally surface and bow to them and come out.
When there is great distress over grief or when there is reason for grieving, weep, weep.
Weeping is easy way of reaching the divine.
Let us not feel shy for weeping. Yes, there was expectation in vain. Feel sad and weep to get over that. Weeping intensely will ultimately relieve you from the burden.
A solace is given by weeping. When you think that you can no more weep, just say, “I bow to this weeping and go beyond this state.”
Repeat within after the weeping episode, the Radha’s prayer:
“Krishna, my lord, whether thou chooses for me life or death, happiness or sorrow , pleasure or suffering, all that comes to me from thee, is always welcome”.
Divinity takes care of you: http://reachnaran.com/divinity-takes-care-of-you/
Reaching for Love: http://reachnaran.com/reaching-for-love/
I have been chanting “BE TINY BOW CONCEDE TOGETHER PRAISE DIVINE”, but no response yet.
Please help as everybody from my in-laws side are doing everything to separate us and are also not allowing me to come back home.
My husband has also not communicated to me since past 5 months.
They had sent us notice 5 months back and are also not ready to talk to any of my family members to sort things.
I love him lot and want to save our marriage.
Do the forgiving exercise for your in-laws.
Feel better when I do this: http://naranhealingproducts.wordpress.com/2013/05/25/feel-better-when-i-do-this/
My mother-in-law’s best friend: http://reachnaran.com/my-mother-in-laws-best-friend/
|ADJUST||To adjust comfortably to a situation|
|BE||Be in good health|
|BOW CONCEDE||To surrender to the situation that is unsolvable and eventually win over it|
|BOW CONCEDE TOGETHER DIVINE||To stop in-fighting within the house/ team|
|CANCEL||Cancel your worries/ behaviour/ tendencies|
|CLEAR||Clear your obstacles|
|CHANGE||Transition to a new situation/ environment, new place|
|CHANGE DIVINE ORDER||Restoring your health, Reduces painCreate a peaceful atmosphere
Clean up garbage
Change to divine order
|CONCEDE CLEAR CENTRE BE FIND DIVINE ORDER NOW DONE||To be in optimal health|
|CONCEDE CLEAR CENTRE FIND DIVINE ORDER||Manage un-manageable situations|
|CONCEDE CLEAR CENTRE FIND DIVINE LOVE||To shower/ find love among your friends, family and relatives|
|CONCEDE CLEAR CENTRE FIND DIVINE LOVE WITH <name of the person>||To improve your communication and love with a specific person (say the name of the person after the switch words)|
|DIVINE ON||Excel in studies/ job|
|DIVINE ORDER||To find order in a situation, to make everything fall into place|
|DONE||Get it done, and complete a task|
|ELATE||To get an upbeat mood|
I am facing a lot of problems in marital life. We are on the edge of divorce. I love him and do not want to break this relationship.
Go all out BOW and CONCEDE to make peace.
Write “PEARL, MIMULUS” 100 times
To find the love in your heart and then in life: PEARL
Fear of getting divorced: MIMULUS
BOW and CONCEDE are switch words. You may chant those words too.
Husband said he will never come back, but he did: http://marriagemantri.wordpress.com/2013/04/03/husband-says-he-will-never-come-back/
Make your relationships stronger: http://healbygems.wordpress.com/2012/12/16/make-your-relationships-stronger/
Make your relationship a happy one: http://reachnaran.com/make-your-relationship-a-happy-one/
Switch words for family and office harmony
When you think problems are unbearable or mounting do the forgiving exercise and chant “THANKS TOGETHER DIVINE”
When this ordeal will change – “ADJUST TOGETHER CHANGE NOW DIVINE”
I am constantly worrying over my state of affairs – “MOVE ON FIND DIVINE ORDER”
I feel unloved; lonely; isolated – “TOGETHER GIVE CIRCULATE ME”
When this problem will end – “TOGETHER HALF WAY DIVINE”
He is not listening to me, if my mother-in-law is not there, we can be happy – “GIVE TOGETHER DIVINE LOVE”
He is aggressive – “BOW CONCEDE TOGETHER DIVINE”
So much frustrated – “OVER / TOGETHER DIVINE”
He is holding a grudge against me – “REVERSE TOGETHER FIND DIVINE LOVE”
What is the solution – “TOGETHER REACH DIVINE ORDER”
Flowers for Harmony in Relationships and Family: http://reachnaran.com/flowers-for-harmony-in-relationships-and-family/
Establishing harmony with a person: http://reachnaran.com/establishing-harmony-with-a-person/
Hindrance to a Peaceful Family Life: http://reachnaran.com/hindrance-to-a-peaceful-family-life/
I have been reading your blogs since past 3-4 months. I’m amazed with your switch words and Bach remedies. Please help me with my relationship.
My girlfriend broke with me 3 months back because of money issues and problem with her father.
Give me a switch word for getting her back. At least I want to start communicating with her. She is not taking my calls.
Chant “BOW CONCEDE, RELEASE RESISTANCE, TOGETHER DIVINE” as many times as possible.
To be ego-less, while communicating with your girl-friend: BOW, CONCEDE
Remove internal resistance that stops you from having a harmonious relationship: RELEASE RESISTANCE
Basic mantra for harmonious relationship: TOGETHER DIVINE
Giving up arrogance: http://lifsez.wordpress.com/2013/06/28/give-up-arrogance/
How to attract each other: http://healbyswitchword.wordpress.com/2013/07/29/how-to-attract-each-other/
Harmony is wanted: http://praisedivinelife.wordpress.com/2013/11/01/harmony-is-wanted/
It was in the month of September 2013 and it was only 1 month since I had moved to Switzerland.
It was a pleasant day in the countryside where I stay. It is not very often this country is blessed with sun’s rays. It was one of those days when sun was out and weather was at its best.
There is a forest at just 15 mins walking distance from my house. The forest is unimaginably beautiful with tall trees and small brooks in between.
Extremely dense, one can rarely see wolves move amongst the trees yet not interfering with some solitary walkers like me. Since it was autumn, all the dried yellow leaves were on the forest floor.
I consider these walks in the forest as a kind of forest meditation. One can walk and amongst the tall trees oblivious of surroundings and absorb the peace from the surroundings.
It is not often I get to enjoy the forest as I am yet to get accustomed to the climate here. Unless the sun is out, I find the weather too harsh for me.
On that day, I sat in quiet meditation amongst some tall trees thinking of my Guru Ramana and crying for my Arunachala.
The house keys were in the pocket of my jacket. (Every member in my house has a house key and the one who goes out should get inside the house on their own!!).
I had walked many miles in the forest before sitting down to meditate. I picked up my mobile phone to switch it off and kept it back in my jacket.
After an hour of tranquility, I got up and walked all the way back through the forest towards my house.
When I reached the end of the forest, I realized the mobile was switched off and I put my hand in the pocket to find to my utter dismay that the house keys were missing.
It had started to become dark. I walked all the way back and since the forest is dense, I stopped when I knew I would reach nowhere in the hunt and started my way back home.
I was exhausted physically and mentally. I knew what was in store for me at home.
It gets dark very early here and when I reached home I rang the bell to get inside. My husband asked me where the keys were. I said I lost it in the forest. He said that I had to get them back, no matter what.
I had to go with him all the way back into the dense forest in the dark with a torch. I was crying as my legs could not take it anymore. But he gave me no choice.
After about 2 kms in the forest, I said a lie that I had walked only till that point but in fact I had gone much much farther.
I could have lost the keys when I had put my hand in the jacket to switch off the mobile.
He was cursing me on the money that would be involved in getting a new pair of keys and the number of keys he would have to duplicate and how irresponsible I was.
It continued and due to exhaustion I could not keep a step further. All this while, I was saying ‘CRYSTAL GORSE WOLF REACH HELP NOW’. I kept chanting like mad.
We had reached the end of the forest when we saw in the dark another couple enjoying a stroll in the forest.
My husband for no reason went up to them and said in German that I had lost the keys and if ever during their strolls during the day or anytime they find it, to inform him, and gave his number.
They agreed and moved on. It was so dark and the forest floor was full of autumn leaves. There was absolutely no hope of getting the keys.
The fury and the exasperated expression on my husband’s face and my exhaustion made me call LOUD – WOLF IF YOU ARE THERE, Please get me the keys…REACH HELP NOW.
Believe me we heard a loud call from behind. The couple whom we had met was running towards us. The lady reached to me hugged me and gave me the key.
I cried loud thanking my wolf and you for the great help I got. It seems, they had walked a little further and then leaned on a tree. Something poked the lady’s back and it was the key.
My husband and that couple said it could be someone else who was taking a stroll had found it and hung it on the branch of the tree.
I did not say anything as I knew clearly that I had not lost it anywhere there. It is the Wolf, my angel spirit and my Master – you, who helped me on that day.
With an attitude of gratitude, I bow with respect to this great teacher and my angel spirit!!!
Mine was a love marriage. With parents’ consent we got married 1.5 years back. But, I am not happy with my marital life.
There is always interference of in-laws. We don’t lead a very happy and peaceful life.
On top of that, my husband hits me, when his temper goes out of control. We argue and fight for small things and end up with hatred. There is no romance and happiness.
Should I divorce, or is there any other remedy?
Do the forgiving exercise.
Chant “BOW CONCEDE, END SHUT LIMIT, TOGETHER DIVINE”
BOW CONCEDE END SHUT LIMIT: Surrender the ego, which comes in the way of harmony, and allowing the inner self to take control of the life.
TOGETHER DIVINE: Find harmony
No love from husband: http://divineshakthi.wordpress.com/2013/10/20/no-love-from-husband/
Giving up arrogance: http://lifsez.wordpress.com/2013/06/28/give-up-arrogance/