Posts tagged CONCEDE
Whenever I find any overwhelming emotions in the form of anger or hurt, I find saying the switch words, “TOGETHER BOW CONCEDE ADJUST FORGIVE PRAISE THANKS” very useful.
If I simply look at the feeling and say those words, the emotions simply vanish away.
Look at the emotions and say, “I release that part of my mind that is angry. I activate that part of mind that forgives”.
Another example is, “I release that part of me that vomits. I activate that part of mind that stops vomiting”.
You can also do this with whomever you are having problems.
For example, “I release the part which is resisting being harmonious with. I activate the part that brings in harmony, peace and love with so and so”.
This way you can do for any aspect of life. The reason it works is, we have several parts operating– each part taking us in a different direction.
The moment we become aware of it, the healing happens faster.
After employing the technique for a while, one thing I notice however is a sense of fear.
When one skin (emotion) is peeled off, another skin (another emotion) appears. Affirm, “I align the fearing mind with my fearless consciousness”.
Post-Script (R Mohan)
While I was getting help from Naran (for my anger), during the same time, I provided the same suggestions to M (for her hurt): http://healbyanimalspirits.wordpress.com/2013/07/28/entwined-in-love/#comment-2057
Naran says that we come across people with the same problems as we are facing then.
So, we should not worry whether we are providing right solutions to them or not as our solutions apply to them as well.
Is forgiving the concerned person(s)…
My problem is my love relationship.
I am in a relationship for the past 3 years. From the beginning only we use to fight a lot but there is immense love and care also for each other.
But, few months ago he said that his family is not accepting our relationship due to inter-caste issues.
He is also fed up of my suspicious and fighting nature. In addition, he is not ready for commitment.
We tried to end up this relationship, yet still we are in talking terms.
Taking help from your blog, I started writing the affirmation, “TOGETHER I thank the divine for getting me <his name> as a life partner NOW DONE” for 21 times daily along with writing 58 for 58 times.
Also, I’m continuously chanting, “CONCEDE CLEAR CENTRE FIND DIVINE <his name> PARTNER HOLE”.
I have also kept the power symbol 47 and 66 with me.
But nothing is helping. Neither things are improving nor are they ending completely.
At times, I feel like its divine wish that we should stay together that’s why in spite of deciding to part our ways, somehow we are still in terms.
Pls help me out of this situation – either things should improve or end up completely by divine grace.
Do the forgiving exercise for him.
Love thy neighbours even if they are a nuisance: http://reachnaran.com/love-thy-neighbours-even-if-they-are-a-nuisance/
How to deal with negative energy: http://reachnaran.com/how-to-deal-with-negative-energy/
I have been chanting “BE TINY BOW CONCEDE TOGETHER PRAISE DIVINE”, but no response yet.
Please help as everybody from my in-laws side are doing everything to separate us and are also not allowing me to come back home.
My husband has also not communicated to me since past 5 months.
They had sent us notice 5 months back and are also not ready to talk to any of my family members to sort things.
I love him lot and want to save our marriage.
Do the forgiving exercise for your in-laws.
Feel better when I do this: http://naranhealingproducts.wordpress.com/2013/05/25/feel-better-when-i-do-this/
My mother-in-law’s best friend: http://reachnaran.com/my-mother-in-laws-best-friend/
|ADJUST||To adjust comfortably to a situation|
|BE||Be in good health|
|BOW CONCEDE||To surrender to the situation that is unsolvable and eventually win over it|
|BOW CONCEDE TOGETHER DIVINE||To stop in-fighting within the house/ team|
|CANCEL||Cancel your worries/ behaviour/ tendencies|
|CLEAR||Clear your obstacles|
|CHANGE||Transition to a new situation/ environment, new place|
|CHANGE DIVINE ORDER||Restoring your health, Reduces painCreate a peaceful atmosphere
Clean up garbage
Change to divine order
|CONCEDE CLEAR CENTRE BE FIND DIVINE ORDER NOW DONE||To be in optimal health|
|CONCEDE CLEAR CENTRE FIND DIVINE ORDER||Manage un-manageable situations|
|CONCEDE CLEAR CENTRE FIND DIVINE LOVE||To shower/ find love among your friends, family and relatives|
|CONCEDE CLEAR CENTRE FIND DIVINE LOVE WITH <name of the person>||To improve your communication and love with a specific person (say the name of the person after the switch words)|
|DIVINE ON||Excel in studies/ job|
|DIVINE ORDER||To find order in a situation, to make everything fall into place|
|DONE||Get it done, and complete a task|
|ELATE||To get an upbeat mood|
I am facing a lot of problems in marital life. We are on the edge of divorce. I love him and do not want to break this relationship.
Go all out BOW and CONCEDE to make peace.
Write “PEARL, MIMULUS” 100 times
To find the love in your heart and then in life: PEARL
Fear of getting divorced: MIMULUS
BOW and CONCEDE are switch words. You may chant those words too.
Husband said he will never come back, but he did: http://marriagemantri.wordpress.com/2013/04/03/husband-says-he-will-never-come-back/
Make your relationships stronger: http://healbygems.wordpress.com/2012/12/16/make-your-relationships-stronger/
Make your relationship a happy one: http://reachnaran.com/make-your-relationship-a-happy-one/
Switch words for family and office harmony
When you think problems are unbearable or mounting do the forgiving exercise and chant “THANKS TOGETHER DIVINE”
When this ordeal will change – “ADJUST TOGETHER CHANGE NOW DIVINE”
I am constantly worrying over my state of affairs – “MOVE ON FIND DIVINE ORDER”
I feel unloved; lonely; isolated – “TOGETHER GIVE CIRCULATE ME”
When this problem will end – “TOGETHER HALF WAY DIVINE”
He is not listening to me, if my mother-in-law is not there, we can be happy – “GIVE TOGETHER DIVINE LOVE”
He is aggressive – “BOW CONCEDE TOGETHER DIVINE”
So much frustrated – “OVER / TOGETHER DIVINE”
He is holding a grudge against me – “REVERSE TOGETHER FIND DIVINE LOVE”
What is the solution – “TOGETHER REACH DIVINE ORDER”
Flowers for Harmony in Relationships and Family: http://reachnaran.com/flowers-for-harmony-in-relationships-and-family/
Establishing harmony with a person: http://reachnaran.com/establishing-harmony-with-a-person/
Hindrance to a Peaceful Family Life: http://reachnaran.com/hindrance-to-a-peaceful-family-life/
I have been reading your blogs since past 3-4 months. I’m amazed with your switch words and Bach remedies. Please help me with my relationship.
My girlfriend broke with me 3 months back because of money issues and problem with her father.
Give me a switch word for getting her back. At least I want to start communicating with her. She is not taking my calls.
Chant “BOW CONCEDE, RELEASE RESISTANCE, TOGETHER DIVINE” as many times as possible.
To be ego-less, while communicating with your girl-friend: BOW, CONCEDE
Remove internal resistance that stops you from having a harmonious relationship: RELEASE RESISTANCE
Basic mantra for harmonious relationship: TOGETHER DIVINE
Giving up arrogance: http://lifsez.wordpress.com/2013/06/28/give-up-arrogance/
How to attract each other: http://healbyswitchword.wordpress.com/2013/07/29/how-to-attract-each-other/
Harmony is wanted: http://praisedivinelife.wordpress.com/2013/11/01/harmony-is-wanted/
“I Trust Life” – from the “I Love Myself” Workbook
1. So far divine has taken care of you in this life. In what ways you are divinely guided or helped?
My Life is Divine
I trust life means, I trust Divine. Life is Divine – the one energy which is leading my life.
How can you cultivate the trust in the Divine?
So far we have lived our life, which has been taken care of by the Divine.
This we can understand by the happening of certain events and situations. In certain important events you would have felt the presence of Divine.
2. You must identify such events and situations. You must identify, in what ways you were helped or guided?
This we can understand only when we go deeper and find out.
Sometimes, your life has been saved by the Divine. In some situations, you would have cancelled your journey and that plane or train would have met with an accident.
Our very presence proves the existence of Divine
My very presence is because of the Divine, somebody is giving me something, and I am living. My very living is the proof that some Divine is protecting me, nurturing me, nourishing me, and guarding me.
Healing has come to us and it’s a great boon
Everybody cannot come into the healing profession.
How ignorant people are? Who has brought me in this line? Which has made me learn so many healing techniques?
So then, I am not an ordinary human being. The Divine wants to me to learn more and move spiritually at the same time.
In this profession, we cannot find out concrete profit. But lot of changes will take place in our mind, in our life and the way we look at life.
If a problem comes for a common man then he will start worrying, go to temple and pray. But, what we will do?
We will do the necessary healing and that too with a mentality of non-attachment to the result.
Why do we need to have a fear of future?
When the Divine is doing so much for me, why not divine will protect me in future also? Why should I fear about my future?
Whenever the fear or worry comes, repeat the words, “I TRUST LIFE”.
When you say these words, you feel confident, thinking, “So far the Divine has protected me. Even here afterwards the Divine will protect me. Therefore, why should I worry?”
How to solve your problems?
If there is any problem means we are not submitting ourselves to the Divine Order and we fail to see the Divine Order in operation.
When we fail to see the Divine Order in operation, we lack in love.
When you chant the switch words, “CONCEDE CLEAR CENTRE FIND DIVINE ORDER”, it completes the love, and problem is solved.
Surrender to win the battle of life: http://naranonline.wordpress.com/2011/12/31/to-surrender-is-to-win-the-battle-of-life/
I lost all hope that I will succeed in Life: http://healbymeditation.wordpress.com/2011/08/01/i-lost-all-hope-that-i-will-succeed-in-life/
Mine was a love marriage. With parents’ consent we got married 1.5 years back. But, I am not happy with my marital life.
There is always interference of in-laws. We don’t lead a very happy and peaceful life.
On top of that, my husband hits me, when his temper goes out of control. We argue and fight for small things and end up with hatred. There is no romance and happiness.
Should I divorce, or is there any other remedy?
Do the forgiving exercise.
Chant “BOW CONCEDE, END SHUT LIMIT, TOGETHER DIVINE”
BOW CONCEDE END SHUT LIMIT: Surrender the ego, which comes in the way of harmony, and allowing the inner self to take control of the life.
TOGETHER DIVINE: Find harmony
No love from husband: http://divineshakthi.wordpress.com/2013/10/20/no-love-from-husband/
Giving up arrogance: http://lifsez.wordpress.com/2013/06/28/give-up-arrogance/
I want to mention that I got great help with switch word “REACH” which I read in your site during my entrance exam.
It also helped me to find my misplaced certificates.
I always benefit from “CONCEDE CLEAR CENTRE FIND DIVINE LOVE TOGETHER” whenever I have conflict with anyone.
I also want to mention that I got a great help with REACH during my exam.
Lack of love received: http://healbymindbodymessages.wordpress.com/2011/08/22/lack-of-love-received/
Centre for Harmony: http://healbyswitchword.wordpress.com/2012/11/10/centre-for-harmony/