Posts tagged conflict
I heard a lot about you from my friends.
I’m facing a lot of problems as I’m in love with a guy since past 8 years. He also loves me a lot.
My family has agreed regarding our marriage issues but his family is totally against it as our horoscopes are not matching as I have KAL SARP YOG in my horoscope.
What should I chant in order to remove all these obstacles and his family agrees?
As suggested by you, I am chanting (switching words) “CLIMB ADJUST TOGETHER CHANGE DIVINE” daily 200 times, for removing little fighting in between me and my would-be husband.
Just 25 days are left for our marriage but there is daily fight between us on phone. I want a loveable and harmonious relation between us.
We get normal after 2 days. I want that nobody can put finger on our fighting as ours is a love marriage.
I want these fights to far away from my both families so that there should be peace and love between us.
(For both Minee and Anu…the following answer)
Whether the horoscope matches or not, all the couples should understand each other, trust that both live to love each other, shed the ego which is the cause of all conflict, reach harmony somehow, praising each other instead of finding fault, and understanding to communicate after listening.
Chant “BOW PRAISE TOGETHER REACH DIVINE LOVE LISTEN BETWEEN” is the mantra for your happy married life.
I am really feeling glad for your response. Every answer and solution suggested by you really gives us message and lesson!
Thank you Naran!!
Marriage got fixed after a long period of waiting: https://healbymeditation.wordpress.com/2010/03/16/marriage-got-fixed-after-a-long-period-of-waiting/
Raining clouds: https://marriagemantri.wordpress.com/2013/08/27/raining-clouds/
|On||Not getting stuck up in a situation
Get creative ideas
Stay alert and awake when you work during late nights
|Reach||Find the lost article|
|Reach Divine Order||To come out of long-held negative beliefs|
|Release Resistance||If healing doesn’t happen even after several attempts add these switch words to the healing combination of remedies (during chanting)/ switch words|
|Release Resistance Find Buyer Count Now Done||To find a buyer for your property hasn’t yielded any results even after many efforts.
Buyer is not a switch word.
|Slow Care||Wise people act slowly and carefully, so to become wise these switch words|
|Stretch On||To able to continue doing the task you are currently doing comfortably, especially when you are tired|
|Thanks||To show attitude of gratitude|
|Together||To work out a good relationship with others
Have a balanced mind
Get co-operation from colleagues
To find resolution and resolve conflict with others
|Together Find Centre Divine Love||To find love within and in-turn attract love in your life|
|Together Divine||To improve relationship with your spouse
Bring peace into the family when there is on-going quarrel
|Together Find Divine Love||Attract love and people|
|Together Find Divine Order Count Now On||To get a salary hike
To find money and order out of a situation
|Together Reach Divine Love Centre||Attain Soul Love|
|UP||To manage your depression|
|With||To become compatible with a person|
|Why||It’s an afformation. You ask the brain why something you want has happened. It will find that out for you and make it happen.|
Winning Switch Words Part II: http://reachnaran.com/winning-switch-words-part-ii/
Winning Switch Words Part I: http://reachnaran.com/winning-switch-words-part-i/
|Find||Find a solution, to gain or regain something|
|Find Count Divine||Generate business, Find money|
|Find Count……. Divine (fill up the rupees you want)||To find the required amount of money, for example, “FIND COUNT 10 Lakh Rupees DIVINE”|
|Find Divine Love Now On||To find your life partner immediately|
|Find Divine Order Count Now Done||Get a job/ business opportunities|
|Find Divine On||To get on with your life, when you are stuck up in an unwanted situation|
|Find Divine Order||To find normalcy in a conflict situation|
|Give||Sell your property|
|Guard||Get divine protection, achieve personal safety|
|Halfway||Do things quicker, Achieve your goal in lesser time than usual|
|Halfway Divine||Manage traffic, Reach your destination faster|
|Halfway Divine On||Catch trains/bus on time|
|Help||To get the required help|
|Ho||To be happy and joyful|
|Love Thanks Divine||Energise a situation/ relationship/ event/ person|
|Move||Move from current situation to new situation|
|Move On||Moving forward in life|
|Next||To know what to do next|
|Now||Do or get something immediately|
Winning Switch Words Part I: http://reachnaran.com/winning-switch-words-part-i/
Surrender to win the battle of life: http://healbyswitchword.wordpress.com/2011/12/31/surrender-to-win-the-battle-of-life/
Conflict among the siblings over their parent’s property
There was a conflict among some siblings over their parental property. One of the sisters is very poor and she developed a knee problem.
Here, the message from her body is that she should not be possessive and had to give up.
Interestingly, while the sister who was very badly in need of money had the knee problem, none of her siblings have got any knee problems.
As per the will, she is getting lesser share than others. Others were getting some cash too, while she was not getting any.
She totally believed me and whatever I tell her, she was ready to follow.
I told her to accept whatever was given to her. I asked her to chant, ‘I am ready to submit myself to the Divine Will’. When she started to chant, the pain went off.
Now came the interesting climax
The area allotted for all of them was to be either in ground floor or third floor. They decided to go for the draw and in that she was allotted the third floor area.
Again, she approached me. She wept over her situation and I gave her the Bach Flower Rescue Remedy (to calm her down).
In the flat opposite to hers, which was for sale, was bought by a family. There was a boy in that family who was in marriageable age.
The whole family liked this lady as well as her daughter very much. The family wanted the daughter to get married to their son.
In addition, there was no demand (dowry) from the boy’s side. They also took care of the marriage expenses. Thus, there were no expenses whatsoever for the girl’s side.
The couple now very happily settled.
Body puts us in the path created for us by divinity
So we do not know what is there in store for us by the Divine. By god’s grace she accepted whatever I told her and accepted the property given to her.
The body is nothing but the Divine. We have to accept the message it is giving and act accordingly. At each and every step it guides us.
However, we fail to understand the message. We do not how to infer the messages from the body and we never take care of the body either.
Fight over property: http://praisedivinelife.wordpress.com/2013/07/31/fight-over-property/
Ancestral home got partitioned peacefully: http://reachnaran.com/ancestral-home-got-partitioned-peacefully/
Son repeats his father’s mistakes: http://healbymindbodymessages.wordpress.com/2009/05/12/son-repeats-his-father%E2%80%99s-mistakes/
My husband does not love me from my marriage. I don’t know what his problem is. He didn’t talk to me. Behaving like a neighbor. I talked to him many times regarding this. Yet, no proper response from him. Plz save my life!!!
Take the flower remedies WILLOW, CHICORY, WALNUT, BEECH and AGRIMONY – one of the Harmony Packs available in the centre as a combination. Buy these remedies in any homeopathy shop. Mix 5 pills of each in water. Sip the water 6 to 7 times in a day.
Chant the mantras “OM HUM NAMAHA, OM YUM NAMAHA, OM RUM NAMAHA, OM VUM NAMAHA, OM LUM NAMAHA” for 20 minutes in the morning and 20 minutes in the evening.
Keep CHIMPANZEE picture with you.
Notes from Animal Spirit Guide Manual
You want to resolve a conflict; you want peace and harmony to prevail, but don’t have it. Whenever we want something then it means we lack that in our lives.
To make amends with someone, call upon CHIMPANZEE. Ask Chimpanzee, “Please solve this misunderstanding for me”. It will heal the situation for you.
We always have problems and quarrels – either with somebody in the family or on the road. To have no problems inside your family call upon BLUE WHALE and CHIMPANZEE.
BLUE WHALE, JELLY FISH, PIGEON and CHIMPANZEE combination is the best combination for harmony.
Handful of messages from our body: http://healbymindbodymessages.wordpress.com/2011/09/29/handful-of-messages-from-our-body/
The embodiment of love: http://reachnaran.com/the-embodiment-of-love/
Can’t think of him as my husband: http://reachnaran.com/cant-think-of-him-as-my-husband/
I want to mention that I got great help with switch word “REACH” which I read in your site during my entrance exam.
It also helped me to find my misplaced certificates.
I always benefit from “CONCEDE CLEAR CENTRE FIND DIVINE LOVE TOGETHER” whenever I have conflict with anyone.
I also want to mention that I got a great help with REACH during my exam.
Lack of love received: http://healbymindbodymessages.wordpress.com/2011/08/22/lack-of-love-received/
Centre for Harmony: http://healbyswitchword.wordpress.com/2012/11/10/centre-for-harmony/
Let me give an example to make you understand that our future is not determined
In a typical office there is a conflict and arguments between office manager and the staff.
A staff member will have two options.
Either he can straightaway throw his job by getting angry and argumentative.
Many a time we succumb to our emotions and they guide your actions. We all know that. If you are able to be only like this, then the result is determined as what we expect to happen.
Or you can do the following, based on NLP:
Step One: Identify the emotion.
Let us say, we get angry.
It’s ok. If we say then, “This is my anger”, it will be automatically gets reduced. This is one way of handling your emotions.
Step Two: Create the outcome you want.
Now ask the question, “What do I want from this situation”.
Analyze, “What’s my present state”.
Then ask the question, “What do I want” or “What is the desired outcome I want here”.
Now we are forming a strategy here.
For example, if the strategy to create a situation is formed by the staff member then he won’t resign.
Right or wrong, figure it out with your fingers: http://reachnaran.com/right-or-wrong-figure-it-out-with-fingers/
Change is a celebration: http://reachnaran.com/change-is-a-celebration/
Find why I am successful: http://reachnaran.com/find-why-i-am-successful/
Your wants have to be in balance
Wherever you need harmony you can use the word TOGETHER. It is a very special switch word. It goes deep into the life of person. It stimulates the values in us.
However, most of us do not know what we want. He will be working as a temporary worker but he may want freedom. Employment and freedom cannot go together. If you want freedom and independence then you should have your own business.
However, for doing business, he needs security and so he cannot invest in business. Like this, we are always in conflict in our lives.
Some people want to earn more money, but he cannot because if earns more money, his family life may be affected and so on.
Different parts of life
For all of us a balanced life is needed. What is that?
One is personal; one unknown person is there inside all of us. I can only know myself. That is the personal life in which physical life will be there too. You cannot be healing others continuously unless you are healthy. So, physical health is one part of life.
The second part of life is our social life and relationships. That is, relationship with others – either relationship with the family or society.
The third part is professional.
Thus, the first part of life is physical or personal, the second part is relationships, the third part is professional and the fourth part is spiritual.
Our conflicts of interest
All these four are not balanced in any of us because our interests are in conflict with each other.
Our physical health will be good but relationships will not be good. If relationship is good, his professional life will not be good as he may not go to the office.
When you take a decision for one part of life, it may imbalance the other part of life. When you decide to go to a foreign country, you will lose your family life.
For that reason, you cannot sit at home saying that for you, your family is important and therefore you will skip work.
In the same way, when you think money is important then you have to forego your family life.
Ultimately, you are working for your health, which is lost by working hard, going at 6 am and coming back at 12 midnight.
How to get fulfilled and satisfied in life: http://naranonline.wordpress.com/2010/08/15/how-to-get-fulfilled-and-satisfied-in-life/
Enjoy the Feel-Good Factor: http://naranhealingproducts.wordpress.com/2011/03/05/enjoying-the-feel-good-factor/
I am a Pilot. I have to keep my eyes near to the LCD screens in the cockpit and cannot change my eye distance from them also.
This makes them heavy and my vision has also got blurry. My eyes cannot focus properly.
What I mean to say is when I look at near objects and then far away objects, the far away objects look blurry to me for some time.
PRAN MUDRA you can daily for 30 minutes at a stretch.
Get the EYE TONE pills from the centre. Take 3 pills 3 times a day. It will set right your problem.
Mudra for Savings: http://reachnaran.com/mudra-for-savings-part-i/
Eye Care Mantras: http://healbymeditation.wordpress.com/2012/12/22/eye-care-mantras/
Gem Remedies Discussed at Raj Bhavan Meet: http://healbygems.wordpress.com/2010/07/30/gem-remedies-discussed-at-raj-bhavan-meet/
Even though, many times I have heard the power of “DIVINE ORDER” from the followers of Naran, I am never a fan of it. However, I chant “DIVINE” or “FIND DIVINE” regularly. I have witnessed good results chanting them both.
For me, DIVINE is an instant tonic of happiness, while FIND DIVINE brings in happiness that I had felt during childhood – for example, meeting friends from the past after a long time or doing things like playing cricket on the road.
Recently, when I called up Naran, he shared some insights into teachings of Sri Aurobindo. At that time, he used the word “SUPREME DIVINE ORDER”.
Naran mentioned that Sri Aurobindo wants us to become supra mental beings and that’s the supreme divine order ordained to each one of us.
I was immediately hooked up to the word “SUPREME DIVINE ORDER”. I felt, Supreme Divine Order has to be switch word as it was coined by Sri Aurobindo himself.
So, I simply chanted it over the course of next few days, without asking Naran, whether it is a switch word or not, as I know Naran keeps silent on most of the things.
I implemented it in the releasing technique he recently proposed to us.
For example, when I had a conflict with one of my friends, I used it like this, “I release the part that produced the conflict. I OPEN, ALIGN and RESONATE With SUPREME DIVINE ORDER”.
I felt as per the expression of the sages from the past, ‘Be detached like the leaves of the lotus in the water pond’. I guess to keep ourselves intact in any situation Supreme Divine Order is the key.
My question to Naran is how supreme divine order is different from divine order?
There is good behind every bad incident and bad behind every good incident. Divine order helps us to sail through both, making us to learn the lessons of this lifetime.
While Supreme Divine Order, avoids both, making us to go through the right things successfully every time.
The Success Factor: http://wp.me/ptUHD-o
I have become a new person: http://wp.me/ptUMq-1N