Posts tagged decisions

Don’t want to regret your decisions

Naran

When you are about to deposit money in a finance company and you do not want to regret later: HONEY SUCKLE

Before signing an agreement, chant HONEY SUCKLE and sign. Everything will happen as per agreement.

Before making a decision, chant HONEY SUCKLE, and not to make the decision, so that you won’t regret later.

Related Posts

Solving mathematical problems: http://reachnaran.com/solving-mathematical-problems/

Tried hard but no jobs: http://thanksmagic.blogspot.in/2014/12/tried-hard-but-no-jobs.html

Be Successful With Your Decisions

Uday

I got a better offer now. But, my current company is not ready to accept resignation and relieve me. They want me to continue.

The new company is after me to join them immediately. Even, I want to join them.

How do I come out of this situation amicably?

Naran

Chant “SCLERANTHUS, THANKS DIVINE ORDER”

Uday 

Thanks you to your divine advices, my life becomes easier to manage.

I decided to continue with my current organization and I would like to be successful with my decision.

Naran 

Chant “HONEY SUCKLE, TOGETHER DIVINE”.

Start the day with THANKS and end the day with THANKS

Explanation

When one is confused between two options, the Bach Flower SCLERANTHUS helps us to come out of confusion.

Not to regret after taking a decision, HONEY SUCKLE is the remedy.

Roles People Play

Reddy

Quite often, we are required to play different roles with respect to the same person. In the process lot of misunderstandings occur due to perception at both ends.

At work, we have a subordinate who is also a friend. This friend does not play his role in the office as required.

In the role of a friend, you try to protect him in various ways besides telling him / her about the problems in a friendly manner.

However, if it is not adhered to, it may go the extreme end that you may even need to terminate him/her. It is a very difficult choice. You are torn between both the roles.

In the earlier days, we could take a very dharmic stand and take decisions.

However, now we are required to play a role negotiating happiness for various people in the name of Professionalism / Management etc and suffer.

At home, we have to act as a Parent, Friend, Teacher, friend to your kids.

Often a role is over played by each of the participant resulting in clashes and misunderstanding. Each forgets that they are over stepping on the other role due to inherent flair for one.

Thus, a parent who is generally has a strong Vasanas of a Teacher in making, preaches more and is not able to know when to cut off and act as a friend.

Please give your recommendation to solve the above by way of flower remedy.

Naran

Whatever the role we play, let us ask a simple question.

What is that we lack in any role?

Basically, every relationship is based on communication. How do we communicate? What do we communicate? What do we want to communicate?

The objective of any communication is to reach out to the other person.

BEECH is the remedy for improving our communication.

What are the negative mental states of Beech?

  • Unable to understand other man’s point of view
  • Unable to appreciate other man’s priorities
  • Intolerance
  • Fault-finding
  • Desire to control or change the other person

If one is in one of the above mental states, right communication will not take place. Here, how Beech can help us?

BEECH can bridge the gap between two persons and makes one understand other man’s point of view.

WALNUT should be taken along with Beech. Walnut can bring in change in the mind. A changed outlook and a changed view will give a different communication tool.

For you Mr. Reddy, in addition to taking BEECH and WALNUT, you take CENTAURY also, while communicating in the office.

“What would my friend think? Will he be hurt, if I say this?” These expressions belong to negative mental state of Centaury.

Rushrush

Wonderfully explained….your site is a healthy addiction.

I feel the need to read it like a holy book everyday…sorting out life’s many questions and seeking the right answer….

I follow so many remedies you advice, go through the topics so many times, sometimes apply my 2 cents worth as well….analyse life’s situation from a different angle….

I have changed so much in my mind and heart…..all because of being a part of this wonderful site and your guidance!!!!

Thank you ever so much…….Naran….THERE’s still so much to absorb from you……..regards……

Confused about right answers

Radha Rani

This competitive exam consists of negative marking. It also confuses student. I usually get confused and got low marks.

Within specific time you have to score high. I am unable to complete it in time and got panic and try to guessing at last moment.

Naran

On the date of exam, take the flower remedies MIMULUS, LARCH, RESCUE REMEDY and SCLERANTHUS.

Explanation

Getting panic: RESCUE REMEDY

Not to have confusion: SCLERANTHUS

Related Posts

Dealing with confusion: http://praisedivinelife.wordpress.com/2013/12/13/dealing-with-confusion/

Doing well in Exams: http://reachnaran.com/doing-well-in-exams/

Decisions without confusion: http://healbybachflowers.wordpress.com/2009/05/12/decisions-without-confusion/

Retired From Government Service

Naran

Ramachandran retired from his government services. He got a sum of five lakhs of rupees towards his final settlement.

Ramachandran was always thinking about his office. I gave him WALNUT (for transition) and HONEYSUCKLE (not to think about the office) separately. 

Chandran a friend of Ramachandran asked him to deposit a sum of five lakhs of rupees in a benefit fund, where Chandran is working and he had meet his target.

Ramachandran said yes. He wrote the cheque and asked his friend to collect it in the evening, as the time then is auspicious.

Around 11 am, Ramachandran heard the news that his uncle has passed away. Therefore, he left for Coimbatore.

“Life events happen without asking us. We are always concerned about our children, our environment and us.

However, for divinity, every molecule in this Universe is important. It would have preferred him not to give the cheque.”

He informed Chandran from the bus stand, that he would come back and give the cheque after two days.

Nevertheless, Chandran insisted that he needs it to complete his target ASAP.  Ramachandran pleaded his inability to give the cheque.

Ramachandran came back after 3 days, just to realize the closure of the benefit fund due to lack of funds.

He mentioned to me that one of the flowers has stopped him from paying the money and losing it. 

I told him, “It is Honey Suckle.”

Before taking any important decisions, take HONEYSUCKLE, for example in the case of letting out our homes or leasing it.

Related Posts

Have a Lucky Day: http://reachnaran.com/have-a-lucky-day/

Go to Top