Posts tagged Don’t

Can’t say ‘NO’

M

I’m a shy person. I think so. But after marriage I think I have improved a lot.

Sometimes I keep myself last….e.g., if my neighbour says something that I don’t like I’ll not oppose or if my neighbour called my maid without asking me I will not say anything, though I feel bad.

It is like that I keep myself always last. Even when I was younger I did the same thing. I will be the last girl standing in the queue, though I was very good student.

I don’t consider myself. I don’t express myself about what I want.

Naran 

Take the flower remedies CENTAURY, WILLOW and PINE.

Put each 5 pills in a glass of water and have small sips from that water every one or two hours from morning to evening.

Explanation

A CENTAURY person cannot say ‘No’. Eventually they will develop resentment – WILLOW and feel guilty for saying ‘No’ or for getting angry – PINE.

Related Posts

Will do anything to manipulate others: http://theflowerangels.wordpress.com/2013/09/30/a-reluctant-giver/

SOHAM Meditation

Naran

Say ‘SO’ during inhale internally and ‘HAM’ for exhale. A mild or soft breath will do.

Use only one speed while doing this rapid breathing, without holding the breath during inhale and exhale.

After 45 minutes of rapid breathing, we don’t need to breathe at all. In that state of no breathing, we merge with the cosmic breath. Then the latter will take over our breathing and take care of it.

Whenever we have a diarrhea or dysentery SOHAM breathing can do the necessary healing. Our pulse rate changes from 74 to 60.

If the breathing is fast, then our focus will be on our breath, mind becomes quiet, and throws away toxins from our system.

Instead of SOHAM (I am that), you may chant NAGAM (I am not) or KOHAM (who am I).

It is better to use a CD that chants SOHAM as then it will be easier for us to maintain the speed of breathing.

Related Posts

Meditation and Healing CDs from Naran: http://reachnaran.com/meditation-and-healing-cds-from-naran/

Circular Breathing CD – Benefits and Instructions: http://naranhealingproducts.wordpress.com/2012/10/01/circular-breathing-cd-benefits-and-instructions/

I want to die before you: http://naranhealingproducts.wordpress.com/2013/03/09/iwanttodieforyou/

If What is going to happen will happen, Why to chant?

Bhavi

In the past, I have chanted, prayed a lot, with full faith in universal divine force. But, I was always told you can’t change anything. What is going to happen will happen? Nobody can change anything.

I still have faith and trust. However, I always had a question in mind then why do we pray and chant the mantras if they are not going to bring positivity to the concerned situation?

Is it fear of something negative happening to us and our family, which brings us, back again to chanting and praying?

Naran

You cannot always get what you want. Sometimes, you can get what you don’t want. These are two life rules, which we have to accept.

It is the mind which plays the game. If something does not happen, we wallow; if something happens, we elate. How long is this elation?

After some time, we need something else and again mental emotional drama begins. It is because we attach importance to the result only and not to the action.

If the action is done, and the result is surrendered, you will remain peaceful always.

Ultimately, what we want in life is either peace or happiness. To get happiness or peace is the aim of all.

Surrendering the result to the hands of Divine only can give you peace or happiness.  Chanting or healing aims at changing the mind to accept what is happening.

Best of luck!!

Detach Emotionally

Ravi

I have a problem of getting emotionally attached to people (especially of the opposite sex). They would come on my mind for maximum times of the day.

I unknowingly get so involved that after some time in the relationship, I say or do things that I don’t want to or that which is not good for the relation. Then of course there is friction in the relation.

I really start to feel the energy when this starts to happen. I try to control but cannot.

Naran

Do the forgiving exercise with EFT (tapping).

Related Posts

How and why we need to forgive others: http://reachnaran.com/how-and-why-we-need-to-forgive-others/

Advantage Acceptance: http://healbyrule.wordpress.com/2009/06/25/advantage-acceptance/

Protection from Pests

Guru Mangala

The hibiscus plants in my garden at Kancheepuram began showing signs of some pests eating the leaves, a white powdery coating appeared on the stems and the leaves were falling.

My gardener sprinkled Neem oil. A week later the pest appeared again. 

I mixed CRAB APPLE and WALNUT in the Neem oil this time.  Since then, the plants are fine and flowering profusely.

Thanks to Naran and to the Power of the Bach Flower Remedies.

Related Posts

I don’t like my house: http://finddivinehome.wordpress.com/2013/07/10/i-dont-like-my-house/

TSH value reduced

Sashi 

I had recently come to your centre, got a few CDs, books and remedies – SCLERANTHUS, WILD ROSE and WALNUT from you. You told me to take B16 for my hypothyroid.

FYI I take Ayurvedic medicines too. So would it be okay to take B16 also along with that with a gap of 5-10 minutes? In addition, I am also taking the Bach flower remedies you have given me.

Naran 

It is not B-16 it is B-56. If you take Ayurvedic medicines take them. Don’t take this.

Sashi

Thank you. I started taking B56. My TSH value which was 20 reduced to 13.6.

Related Posts

Heal your kidneys: http://healbymindbodymessages.wordpress.com/2013/10/10/heal-your-kidneys/

Dont be a pain in the neck: http://healbymindbodymessages.wordpress.com/2014/01/16/dont-be-a-pain-in-the-neck/

Too much mobile use: http://reachnaran.com/too-much-mobile-use/

Why to chant when everything is destined

Bhavi

In the past, I have chanted, prayed a lot, with full faith in universal divine force.

But, I was always told you can’t change anything. What is going to happen will happen? Nobody can change anything.

I still have faith and trust. However, I always had a question in mind then why do we pray and chant the mantras if they are not going to bring positivity to the concerned situation?

Is it fear of something negative happening to us and our family, which brings us back again to chanting and praying?

Naran

You cannot always get what you want. Sometimes, you can get what you don’t want. These are two life rules, which we have to accept.

It is the mind which plays the game. If something does not happen, we wallow; if something happens, we elate. How long is this elation?

After some time, we need something else and again mental emotional drama begins.

It is because we attach importance to the result only and not to the action.

If the action is done, and the result is surrendered, you will remain peaceful always. Ultimately, what we want in life is either peace or happiness. To get happiness or peace is the aim of all.

Surrendering the result to the hands of Divine only can give you peace or happiness.  Chanting or healing, aims at changing the mind, to accept what is happening.

Best of luck!!

Doing Well in Business

Naran

A textile shop owner was getting only one or two customers a day. This is not good enough to run the business.

I instructed him to do the following:

  1. When you make a sale, how do you handover the clothes to the customer? He will be using his right hand isn’t it?
  2. So, visualize giving sari from your right hand to customer’s right hand without worrying about visualizing their faces. Don’t think about the money you will be receiving.
  3. Visualizing doing it for 9 more people like that.

After a month of doing this exercise, he reported to getting 7-8 customers a day, which helps his business to run smoothly.

Related Posts

Balance the Money Chakra: http://abundancein.wordpress.com/2013/07/31/balance-the-money-chakra/

Gain Happiness and Prosperity: http://reachnaran.com/gain-happiness-and-prosperity/

Why we need to be happy: http://reachnaran.com/why-we-need-to-be-happy/

Program Your Life – Part I

Letting GO is the Nature of LIFE

Naran

When you look at the whole world you will understand we only are holding on to mind.

What is the opposite of letting go? “Holding on to” is the opposite word. Holding will restrict us. Letting go expands us.

By letting go you are discharging from yourself what is not required by you, like Water putting out the Fire. Body and Nature Follows this rule 100%.

Watch the body. What it does?

Whatever is inhaled, lungs have to exhale out. Lungs cannot keep the air even for one second.

Heart – what does it do? It takes in blood and sends it out immediately. Blood enters the heart through Auricles and let out through Ventricles.

Whatever you take in, has to be let it out. It is the natural process of the body.

Lungs contract to let go, kidneys contract to let go urine, intestines peristaltically (downward movement) contract to let go the faeces and skin lets go by sweat.

The mouth lets go whatever you eat to the stomach. Stomach lets it go to the intestine. Intestine and kidneys let go as excretion.

Morning lets go to the noon, the noon lets go and becomes afternoon. Afternoon lets go and become the evening, and then evening to night. Each and every second gives way to the next.

Let go before taking the action. Then let go the emotions and thoughts attached to results.

Ask the questions:

  • What do you expect to achieve?
  • What is the driver desire or wanting behind each emotion and thought?
  • Wanting to control or change?
  • Wanting appreciation, recognition? (Desire for Approval)
  • Wanting more security? (fearful)

With this technique, you are not prevented from doing anything. Let go emotions as well as thoughts, and then Act.

“You are only entitled to Act. Don’t think about the result while doing” – says Lord Krishna in Bhagavat Gita.

The theory, we propose here is a new dimension to Bhagavat Gita and a new understanding of the Gita.

Read the 2nd part of the article here: http://reachnaran.com/program-your-life-part-ii/

Water, trees and bird droppings

Mr. R

I need some mantra or remedy to cut a tree which is causing a lot of nuisance. Our neighbors are not allowing us to cut it. It is on the road somewhere in between our gate and neighbor’s gate.

The problem is that the dried leaves, branches and many bird droppings fall in our compound. First of all no water in our area and it becomes a problem to clean all these things.

Naran

Chant “SWEET CHESTNUT, ROCK ROSE, WILD ROSE” for getting water.

By all means, clean your house of the birds’ excreta, by chanting “WILLOW, CHANGE DIVINE ORDER”.

Don’t fell the tree.

Related Posts

Rain, Rain, Come to Chennai Again: http://reachnaran.com/rain-rain-come-again/

Postponing cleaning: http://reachnaran.com/postponing-to-clean/

Don’t fell trees, they are our blessings: http://reachnaran.com/dont-fell-trees-they-are-our-blessings/

Go to Top