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Chicory

The Bach Flower Remedy Chicory

Key words

Possessiveness, Self-Love, Self-Pity, Always Demanding, Noticeable, Attracting Attention

Indications

  • They try to attract others attention: for example, infants attract attention by crying when you leave them alone or we try to impress others sometimes by flattery.
  • Will be overeager to help.
  • They get angry, if they find no gratitude from the person benefited by them.
  • Their possessive nature can make the opposite person as a Centaury. Please note here, fear of rejection indicates a Centaury, while the person who instils a fear of rejection on others is Chicory.
  • Chicory will not give anything free – there is a hidden agenda behind every transaction he makes.
  • A Chicory person always attracts the attention of others.
  • Always demanding and expects a great deal from others.
  • He is possessive, extremely interfering, secretly manipulating and easily hurt.
  • He has a feeling of unwanted.
  • Over protection and too much parenting.
  • Constantly concerned with the affairs of the family, always interfering.
  • Behind all Chicory type, there lies a deep lack of fulfilment, often a feeling of not being loved.
  • Desires for company for his selfish ends.
  • He is a stingy person.
  • Easily offended or hurt – self-pity.
  • Pretending illness to attract others pity.
  • Always speaks about what others owe her.
  • Extremely nagging – the in-laws remedy.
  • Thinks, feels that everyone is there for his help.
  • Goes to the extent of weeping or pretending to be ill to get his things done.
  • There is constant fear of loss.
  • Emotional demanding always.
  • Behind the Chicory state, an internal emptiness is more.
  • Watching over the needs, wishes and progress of family and friends.
  • Always ready to comment, to correct others or to advise others.
  • The emotional control is subtle, making others dependent.
  • He will manipulate to impose his will.
  • The Chicory finds it hard to let go, feels easily offended or hurt; becomes ill to gain sympathy, always expecting others to live in the feeling of gratitude to her.
  • Chicory children throw temper tantrums.
  • The Chicory child will weep and get things done.
  • If weeping doesn’t pay, he will indulge in flattery or helps you in house hold work.
  • Always demanding, tries to seek attention.
  • The Chicory baby always wants her to be held in the lap all the time.
  • The Chicory child likes to be carried always.
  • Would weep if said anything.
  • Over care and over concern for hurt feelings.
  • Always seeks company.
  • Heart Chakra is closed for Chicory people.  Pray to Chicory to be active in the Heart Chakra.

Chicory says

  • Threatening: “I will do homework, but I will not go to the music class.  If you agree for my condition, then I will finish up all my homework now”.
  • “I am angry at his ingratitude, and he cheated me. I have done so much to him” – Chicory + Chestnut bud.
  • Chicory person makes others feel guilty by saying, “You have just used me.”
  • “After all that I have done for you, this is how you treat me”.
  • “I have given her a sari on her birthday and all that I get from her on my birth day is a card.”
  • Emotional black mailing – “How can I live without you?”
  • “Think of what I have done for you” and then bursting in to tears.
  • “My dear son, I miss you so much, the house is vacant.”
  • He sometimes become ill, he may resort to black mail. “I will study after this, if you allow me to browse the Internet.”
  • “People should respect me.”

Ailments

  • Eating disorders
  • Hysterical Neurosis  – convulsion type
  • Histrionic personality disorder

Usage

  • “Live and let live” is the positive Chicory.
  • Chicory + Walnut – when the child starts schooling
  • Chicory + Walnut – for a second wife
  • Chicory + Star of Bethlehem – if a person whom you love is dead
  • Chicory – for separation.
  • Chicory: I want love and attention
  • Chicory: I feel that nobody recognises my importance
  • Chicory: I have a fear of loneliness
  • Chicory: I feel I am neglected
  • Chicory: I feel unloved by my loved ones
  • Chicory: Others say that I am of a highly interfering type
  • Chicory: I can’t be alone; I always need company
  • Chicory: I often enjoy giving my opinions and advice to others; but I feel hurt/offended when they reject my advice
  • Mimulus, Chicory: My child stays close to my side; rarely goes alone; does nothing alone
  • Chicory: Cries a lot when starting for the school
  • Chicory, Mimulus: The child becomes upset even if mildly criticized
  • Mimulus, Chicory: Burst into tears for no apparent reason
  • Chicory: The child clings to mother

Nothing is lost – in this world

M

It was in the month of September 2013 and it was only 1 month since I had moved to Switzerland.

It was a pleasant day in the countryside where I stay. It is not very often this country is blessed with sun’s rays. It was one of those days when sun was out and weather was at its best.

There is a forest at just 15 mins walking distance from my house. The forest is unimaginably beautiful with tall trees and small brooks in between.

Extremely dense, one can rarely see wolves move amongst the trees yet not interfering with some solitary walkers like me. Since it was autumn, all the dried yellow leaves were on the forest floor.

I consider these walks in the forest as a kind of forest meditation. One can walk and amongst the tall trees oblivious of surroundings and absorb the peace from the surroundings.

It is not often I get to enjoy the forest as I am yet to get accustomed to the climate here. Unless the sun is out, I find the weather too harsh for me.

On that day, I sat in quiet meditation amongst some tall trees thinking of my Guru Ramana and crying for my Arunachala.

The house keys were in the pocket of my jacket. (Every member in my house has a house key and the one who goes out should get inside the house on their own!!).

I had walked many miles in the forest before sitting down to meditate. I picked up my mobile phone to switch it off and kept it back in my jacket.

After an hour of tranquility, I got up and walked all the way back through the forest towards my house.

When I reached the end of the forest, I realized the mobile was switched off and I put my hand in the pocket to find to my utter dismay that the house keys were missing.

It had started to become dark. I walked all the way back and since the forest is dense, I stopped when I knew I would reach nowhere in the hunt and started my way back home.

I was exhausted physically and mentally. I knew what was in store for me at home.

It gets dark very early here and when I reached home I rang the bell to get inside. My husband asked me where the keys were. I said I lost it in the forest. He said that I had to get them back, no matter what.

I had to go with him all the way back into the dense forest in the dark with a torch. I was crying as my legs could not take it anymore. But he gave me no choice.

After about 2 kms in the forest, I said a lie that I had walked only till that point but in fact I had gone much much farther.

I could have lost the keys when I had put my hand in the jacket to switch off the mobile.

He was cursing me on the money that would be involved in getting a new pair of keys and the number of keys he would have to duplicate and how irresponsible I was.

It continued and due to exhaustion I could not keep a step further. All this while, I was saying ‘CRYSTAL GORSE WOLF REACH HELP NOW’. I kept chanting like mad.

We had reached the end of the forest when we saw in the dark another couple enjoying a stroll in the forest.

My husband for no reason went up to them and said in German that I had lost the keys and if ever during their strolls during the day or anytime they find it, to inform him, and gave his number.

They agreed and moved on. It was so dark and the forest floor was full of autumn leaves. There was absolutely no hope of getting the keys.

The fury and the exasperated expression on my husband’s face and my exhaustion made me call LOUD – WOLF IF YOU ARE THERE, Please get me the keys…REACH HELP NOW.

Believe me we heard a loud call from behind. The couple whom we had met was running towards us. The lady reached to me hugged me and gave me the key.

I cried loud thanking my wolf and you for the great help I got. It seems, they had walked a little further and then leaned on a tree. Something poked the lady’s back and it was the key.

My husband and that couple said it could be someone else who was taking a stroll had found it and hung it on the branch of the tree.

I did not say anything as I knew clearly that I had not lost it anywhere there. It is the Wolf, my angel spirit and my Master – you, who helped me on that day.

With an attitude of gratitude, I bow with respect to this great teacher and my angel spirit!!!

Great dharshan in temples

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Want a great dharshan in temples … Try “CLEMATIS GORSE” Bach flower combo!

“Clematis Gorse” is an awesome Bach flower combination to have whenever one is visiting temples. This divine Bach flower combination helps in getting great dharshan.

By great dharshan, I mean both the view and the time aspects of the dharshan. Both will be to one’s satisfaction.

There are many ways to access the energy of Bach flowers:

  • Consuming pills is one way.
  • Chanting the Bach flower names is another way.
  • Even carrying their names written in a sheet of paper with you has proven sufficient.

I have used this divine Bach flower combination on many occasions to get a great dharshan of the deity in temples including Tirupati.

On all these occasions, I have accessed the Bach flower energy by chanting the names of these two flowers. I would chant “Clematis Gorse” some 30 minutes before the dharshan time or earlier.

Clematis Gorse combination would work miraculously. The help to get a great dharshan can come in many forms and from unexpected quarters.

  • Someone may push you to a corner, from where the view of the deity is great.
  • No one will push you to move forward or side wards; that way, you have ample time to view the deity
  • The priest may ask you to come forward and it would help you have a great view
  • The rush is not there
  • The priest is willing to do the puja peacefully (not in a hurried manner)
  • There are also instances of even temple doors being opened for dharshan after the doors are closed, thanks to divinity and Gorse Clematis combination.

I recently had an experience in a temple in Kumbakonam when the priest (or poojary or gurukkal) in the temple asked me to wait for a little longer to get the “deepam aarthi” instead of rushing to get out (I started moving since it was getting late for the train).

When we are free from our worries about getting a dharshan in a temple, we can enjoy the divine presence of godliness in temples fully!

Happy Worshipping!!!

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Love thy neighbours even if they are a nuisance

LLM

My neighbors are very inconsiderate. We live in apartments. The one on next to me filled the corridor with their own stuffs and smelly shoes, make a lot of noise shouting at one end of corridor to the other, openly criticizes us and do damage to our plant tearing the leaves (we only put one pot of plant and door mat at my door and nothing else not even shoes). We only keep quiet, to maintain peace.

The neighbor above us, throw litter into our house and make a lot of noises (such as jumping in wee hours of the night after 12 am), and also hang wet laundry above our laundry. On one case, we even saw a packet of urine caught on our window.

We really don’t know what to do.

Naran

Chant “BEECH HOLLY WILLOW IMPATIENS” over a glass of water and drink it.

Download a picture of PISCES and paste it on your flat door.

Do the forgiving exercise for them.

In the morning thank them mentally for not disturbing you.

Pray to The Mother for keeping these elementals away from you.

LLM

May I ask how many times do I need to chant the flower remedy each time? Do I have to chant everyday or just once?

Do I do the forgiving exercise and thank them everyday also?

The picture of Pisces can be just the symbols or need to have images of fish?

At the last sentence, you mentioned praying to the mother. ‘The Mother’ refers to?

Naran

When the problem comes, you can chant.

Chanting what is given is just an alignment with the divine. Forget your identity. Just merge with the Grace Words which are nothing but divine. Enjoy chanting. Do it any number of times.

These words do not bring about any result. They want you to surrender. Surrender to the divine and start chanting. While chanting do not think about anything.

Download zodiac picture of Pisces, and paste it on the door facing outside.

The mother means Aurobindo mother. That divine mother only knows how to drive out the unwanted elementals. Just say once to her daily.

LLM (after a month)

I can see improvement on the issues with my neighbor next door, no more torn leaves and cleaner corridor.

Plan for Life

From the workbook on “I Love Myself”

Naran

I know I have a plan for my life and I enjoy fulfilling it

You write your life plan for the next five years.

Keep it under the feet of Divinity.

Weekly have a look at this and take actions accordingly.

Every week you can analyze whether you are moving according to the plan or moving away from the plan.

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My mother-in-law’s best friend

Rajalekshmi

http://reachnaran.com/your-in-laws-are-your-parents/

Beautiful remedy for all the married couples from Naran!

Only after becoming Naran’s student, I learned to enjoy my divine life.

Now, I and my mother-in-law became best friends after doing the forgiving exercises and after past-life healing class.

LOVE THANKS DIVINE to our great teacher NARAN!

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A balanced life!!!

Naran

Your wants have to be in balance

Wherever you need harmony you can use the word TOGETHER. It is a very special switch word. It goes deep into the life of person. It stimulates the values in us.

However, most of us do not know what we want. He will be working as a temporary worker but he may want freedom. Employment and freedom cannot go together. If you want freedom and independence then you should have your own business.

However, for doing business, he needs security and so he cannot invest in business. Like this, we are always in conflict in our lives.

Some people want to earn more money, but he cannot because if earns more money, his family life may be affected and so on.

Different parts of life

For all of us a balanced life is needed. What is that?

One is personal; one unknown person is there inside all of us. I can only know myself. That is the personal life in which physical life will be there too. You cannot be healing others continuously unless you are healthy. So, physical health is one part of life.

 The second part of life is our social life and relationships. That is, relationship with others – either relationship with the family or society.

The third part is professional. 

Thus, the first part of life is physical or personal, the second part is relationships, the third part is professional and the fourth part is spiritual.

Our conflicts of interest

All these four are not balanced in any of us because our interests are in conflict with each other.

Our physical health will be good but relationships will not be good. If relationship is good, his professional life will not be good as he may not go to the office.

When you take a decision for one part of life, it may imbalance the other part of life. When you decide to go to a foreign country, you will lose your family life.

For that reason, you cannot sit at home saying that for you, your family is important and therefore you will skip work.

In the same way, when you think money is important then you have to forego your family life.

Ultimately, you are working for your health, which is lost by working hard, going at 6 am and coming back at 12 midnight.

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Your in-laws are your parents

JEY

I am married a few months ago and have problems with my mother-in-law. She is the possessive type.

When my husband, she and I go out, she wants to sit in front in the car. Whenever my husband and I go out for a vacation, she would call him and ask him to come back.

She decides everything for us and we have no freedom as husband and wife. My husband follows her blindly without questioning.

How am I to solve this problem? I want my MIL to leave us to enjoy our marriage life.

I love my parents very much and I want my parents to stay near me and I want to take care of them forever.

At the moment my dad is jobless and he is always sad because of that. I hope he can get a job somewhere near my place so that my family will always be next to me. And, I want my parents to live long.

Naran

Write your parents name. Draw a circle around the names. Draw one more circle around the first one. Write in the gap, “SWEET CHESTNUT, WALNUT, GREEN TOURMALINE”.

Love your mother-in-law as much as you love your parents. What all you want to do for your parents, do for your mother-in-law.

Change your thinking and stop resenting. Do this for one month.

Thank her for allowing you to be with your husband. Daily thank her like this.

In the night, chant “TOGETHER CHANGE NOW” till you sleep.

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There are no accidents only incidents

Balu

I had an accident five years back. It was not a major accident. These days whenever I drive on the road, I am afraid that I might meet with an accident again.

Naran

Release all your current fears about accidents.

Release all your emotions attached with your accident that happened in the past.

Was there are any advantages of having that accident?  It might sound cruel, but we do invite those accidents as there are some benefits attached to that accident.

Balu

No, that was my first accident and your last question was interesting. I did take off from work for two months and I really did enjoy it, as I was not happy with the management then.

Naran

Ok, maybe you didn’t have an accident. Any incident happened that gave you the same advantages of taking leave or avoiding a situation you didn’t like.

If nothing comes to the memory, go back 12 years from now. Check whether you had any major incidents in your life that made you take a long leave. If there are none, then go back 18 years or 30 years before your accident.

Balu

I remember now. I was doing my graduation in Physics. I had problems with HOD (again issues with the management). While playing Hockey, I slipped and broke my left-hand. Interestingly, I took after a leave of two months then.

Naran

Put the emotions of your college incident in the triangle. Did any of your parents have met with an accident? Put all of them in the memory.

Balu

Yes, my father had a couple of accidents after his retirement. I have to check out with him whether he had an accident when he was studying college and when he was working.

The funny thing was, in both the cases, I had resentment about the treatment of management and the accident helped to avoid going to the places I hate.

Naran

Heal all the memory of your sicknesses that helped you avoid going to work/school/college.

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Find small miracles

Lakshmi

I have flat in Velachery where there was no good bore water (bad smelling, salty etc) for past 7 yrs since I bought it.

I had to give it away at very low rent since the only water was metro water but it is in abundance.

There was a tenant in one of the flats who kept chasing out tenants from other flats saying there is no water, so that she can enjoy the abundance of water alone.

This lady also kept chasing away prospective tenants and complaining away about water.

I took it to task that we will try the bore water again and see if it has been now naturally purified etc.

As soon we wanted to do it, I sent WOLF – please go ahead of time, and ensure water is good.

Last week, we tasted the water at 40 ft. and it was sweet.

We were really happy, made all the arrangements to flush out and put motor.

Today morning, we started the work.

I got bad news around 5 pm that water is too salty but no bad smell.

Other tenants might not agree (3 in total including me) to give the share of money. I already had spent 25k.

Bhai called me and asked me “What should we do? If they do not pay, we will lose 12.5K”.

I just told him “Trust in God, Go ahead, do what needs to be done. If money does not come back I am fine. I at least I would know I tried to my best to get good water there”.

After keeping phone down, I requested WOLF to go down there immediately and see to it that water is good and found.

I chanted “FIND DIVINE ORDER” and “CHANGE DIVINE ORDER” so that pure water is found.

Finally, I prayed to Mother, said “I surrender”, and chanted “SWEET CHESTNUT”.

I told her, “I surrender Mother. You go there yourself and take care of it. I am helpless. If I am not bound to enjoy a better rent for the investment I made. So be it”.

At 6:40 pm, I got a call, Bhai was saying “By God’s grace, water even at 150 ft. is sweet now, we do not have to worry, it is not drinkable but it can be used for other purposes.”

I told him The Mother took care of it.

I thanked Mother, WOLF and SWEET CHESTNUT immediately with folded hands.

One of the small miracles…!!!

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