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I was married for 16 yrs and got 3 girls. Ours is a middle-class family. Mine was a love marriage
Initially, everything was very well. He took good care of me and family but for the past 6 yrs there’s a lot of change in his attitude and behavior.
He yelled at me and kids in front of everyone, treating us very badly.
Last month, he brought one lady home and told us that he’s going to marry her.
My girls and parents launched a police complaint and with the help of a police officer that marriage was stopped.
He did not want to divorce but want to lead a new life with that lady. I told him that I will not agree for that.
After this he stopped coming home and eating from home. He will come as and when he wished but will not eat anything.
He gives money for the home expenses. I want to lead a happy married life with him. I want him to be genuine and truthful to our family.
Recently, he started hatred towards me. Pls help me to change this and lead me a happy life.
Take the flower remedies CHICORY, HOLLY, and ASPEN.
Put each 5 pills in a glass of water and have small sips from that water, every one or two hours, from morning to evening.
In the night, take the flower remedies WHITE CHESTNUT and WALNUT before going to sleep, 5 pills each.
Chant “TOGETHER DIVINE”
A CHICORY person turns easily into HOLLY. Husband is the shadow-self of wife and hence, and therefore, his remedies are given to her.
Every day, she has to lead her life with the constant fear of what will happen, for which ASPEN will help.
To come out of persistent, constant worry: WHITE CHESTNUT and WALNUT
I follow my father’s footsteps: https://healbymindbodymessages.wordpress.com/2010/02/03/i-follow-my-father%E2%80%99s-footsteps/
Why a person is not married: https://healyourpastlife.wordpress.com/2013/01/16/why-a-person-is-not-married/
A ROCK WATER person is too much disciplined, giving too much importance to physical exercise, and highly obsessed with rules and principles – like the king who killed his son crushing the latter with his chariot.
A Rock Water’s son will be a CHESTNUT BUD. There is a saying that a cop’s son will be a thief and a teacher’s son will be an idiot.
A Rock Water person will get problems in knee joints – indicating inflexibility in his approach.
Suddenly you will lose control and get violent – for example, misplaced anger. Father upset about something at work, comes home and vents his anger on his family members.
Rock Water person can become a Cherry Plum and lose their control. The modern day sages, who follow extreme practices and suddenly going into bad ways, are one great example.
A Cherry Plum person is Impulsive. Those who have a suicidal tendency need Cherry Plum.
He is evasive and has escaping tendencies. He is a good liar. The person lacks a good memory as well as concentration.
Do you know why honesty meets dishonesty: http://healbybachflowers.wordpress.com/2013/10/22/do-you-know-why-honesty-meets-dishonesty/
Two months without salary: http://reachnaran.com/two-months-without-salary/
Procedure to do the Mudras
Doing the Mudras
Except for Poorana Mudra, for all other Mudras keep your hands on the lap. For Poorana Mudra, keep them touching the navel.
They have to be performed in the order listed. The duration has to be same for all the mudras.
One has to sit erect, either in a chair or on the ground in a yogic posture of your liking or simply squatting. Idea is to keep your spine erect while doing the Pancha Mudras.
These mudras activate five different types of Prana in our body namely – Prana, Apanan, Vyanan, Udanan & Samanan.
Follow this Breathing Technique
Do all the Pancha Mudras in the order of Chin Mudra, Chinmaya Mudra, Adi Mudra, Meru Mudra and finally Poorana Mudra.
While doing the Mudra, do Pranayama following the counts: –
Inhale: 4, Hold: 1, Exhale: 5 Hold: 2.
This will be considered to be one round. Do 7 rounds of breathing for each Mudra.
It will take totally a maximum of 7 to 9 minutes
Compulsorily do it every day
Give 15 minutes gap after tea and 30 minutes gap after food.
Breathing is connected with both Pranic Body as well as Mental Body. The Pranayama heals the Pranic body and makes oxygen available to our bodies.
Healing through Pancha Mudra Pranayama Part I: http://reachnaran.com/healing-through-pancha-mudra-pranayama-part-i/
Healing through Pancha Mudra Pranayama Part III: http://reachnaran.com/healing-through-pancha-mudra-pranayama-part-iii/
Healing through Pancha Mudra Pranayama Part IV: http://reachnaran.com/healing-through-pancha-mudra-pranayama-part-iv/
Healing through Pancha Mudra Pranayama Part V: http://reachnaran.com/healing-through-pancha-mudra-pranayama-part-v/
Quite often, we are required to play different roles with respect to the same person. In the process lot of misunderstandings occur due to perception at both ends.
At work, we have a subordinate who is also a friend. This friend does not play his role in the office as required.
In the role of a friend, you try to protect him in various ways besides telling him / her about the problems in a friendly manner.
However, if it is not adhered to, it may go the extreme end that you may even need to terminate him/her. It is a very difficult choice. You are torn between both the roles.
In the earlier days, we could take a very dharmic stand and take decisions.
However, now we are required to play a role negotiating happiness for various people in the name of Professionalism / Management etc and suffer.
At home, we have to act as a Parent, Friend, Teacher, friend to your kids.
Often a role is over played by each of the participant resulting in clashes and misunderstanding. Each forgets that they are over stepping on the other role due to inherent flair for one.
Thus, a parent who is generally has a strong Vasanas of a Teacher in making, preaches more and is not able to know when to cut off and act as a friend.
Please give your recommendation to solve the above by way of flower remedy.
Whatever the role we play, let us ask a simple question.
What is that we lack in any role?
Basically, every relationship is based on communication. How do we communicate? What do we communicate? What do we want to communicate?
The objective of any communication is to reach out to the other person.
BEECH is the remedy for improving our communication.
What are the negative mental states of Beech?
- Unable to understand other man’s point of view
- Unable to appreciate other man’s priorities
- Desire to control or change the other person
If one is in one of the above mental states, right communication will not take place. Here, how Beech can help us?
BEECH can bridge the gap between two persons and makes one understand other man’s point of view.
WALNUT should be taken along with Beech. Walnut can bring in change in the mind. A changed outlook and a changed view will give a different communication tool.
For you Mr. Reddy, in addition to taking BEECH and WALNUT, you take CENTAURY also, while communicating in the office.
“What would my friend think? Will he be hurt, if I say this?” These expressions belong to negative mental state of Centaury.
Wonderfully explained….your site is a healthy addiction.
I feel the need to read it like a holy book everyday…sorting out life’s many questions and seeking the right answer….
I follow so many remedies you advice, go through the topics so many times, sometimes apply my 2 cents worth as well….analyse life’s situation from a different angle….
I have changed so much in my mind and heart…..all because of being a part of this wonderful site and your guidance!!!!
Thank you ever so much…….Naran….THERE’s still so much to absorb from you……..regards……
I am jobless and I don’t know who will call me for an interview
- When you send your CV to a company, imagine the Universe as the postman, who delivers your CV to the concerned person. “Universe I am sending this CV to you. Please deliver to ……(name of the company)
- Wait for five minutes.
- You don’t know who will be handling your CV. Imagine yourself as that person. Say within the mind, “I have received this application. I am happy about the qualification of this person. He is the right guy for me” and so on. He sends a reply back to you through the Universe – the postman, saying, “I would like to meet …….. (Insert your name) on ……. (mention the date)
- Wait for five minutes. Now switch roles. You become yourself. Imagine that you are receiving letter requesting you to attend the interview. Send a reply back that you will attend the interview. Follow the first step.
- Wait for five minutes. Now switch roles. Become the person who is going to do the interview. Whatever the next step that will happen in a typical interview, imagine as though that is happening.
- Do all the necessary steps that will culminate in you getting a job.
- Go back to your normal day-to-day life, leaving it (your job) to the Universe to make it happen.
- Till manifestation of what you want, chant “QUIET MIND OPEN HEART RELAX.”
I am jobless, I was interviewed and waiting for the result
- You (Ravi) have attended an interview in a company XYX. You were interviewed by let us say by person named James
- Ask the Universe to convince James that you are the right person for the job.
- Wait for five minutes. Now switch roles. Take the role of James. Imagine, “Ravi is the right guy for the job. I am going to call him to come tomorrow to give the offer to him”. He passes the message to the Universe to deliver it to you.
- Wait for five minutes. Now switch roles. You become yourself. Accept the meeting and pass the message through the Universe.
- Continue the steps needed until it ends in getting you the job, with the salary and the position desired by you.
I am looking for an investor
You have a great business case, but lack money to start the business. Ask the universe to pass your business proposal to the person – who can invest and who is looking for a good business idea. Universe helps you to meet him. Again, use your imagination, figure out the steps and using the Universe, execute one step at a time, by switching to the required role.
How does this work?
Every thought and every word goes to the universe. The Universe is a meeting place of desires, intentions and fulfillment. It is the Main Post Office, where everything is sorted out and delivered to the right person. It decides what we get, how we get it and when we get it.
That is why one has to quite the mind, open the heart and be relaxed.
Treat Universe as your friend, who helps you to get your desires fulfilled. You don’t need elaborate rules to talk to a friend. Try this simple technique, with your imagination set free, and you are sure to fulfill your dreams.
Some example from ancient Indian literature
In the story of Nalan and Damayandhi, Nalan will ask the Swan to deliver a message to Damayandhi, when they were living in different countries.
Here, we are asking the Universal mind to reach the concerned person and deliver the required message. In the first case, we don’t know who is going to give us the job, but the universal mind knows. In the second case, we know the person, but we don’t know how to get across the person, for it might be considered as an intrusion.
So, seek the help of the Universe to work for you, be it a job, business or relationship.
Conflict among the siblings over their parent’s property
There was a conflict among some siblings over their parental property. One of the sisters is very poor and she developed a knee problem.
Here, the message from her body is that she should not be possessive and had to give up.
Interestingly, while the sister who was very badly in need of money had the knee problem, none of her siblings have got any knee problems.
As per the will, she is getting lesser share than others. Others were getting some cash too, while she was not getting any.
She totally believed me and whatever I tell her, she was ready to follow.
I told her to accept whatever was given to her. I asked her to chant, ‘I am ready to submit myself to the Divine Will’. When she started to chant, the pain went off.
Now came the interesting climax
The area allotted for all of them was to be either in ground floor or third floor. They decided to go for the draw and in that she was allotted the third floor area.
Again, she approached me. She wept over her situation and I gave her the Bach Flower Rescue Remedy (to calm her down).
In the flat opposite to hers, which was for sale, was bought by a family. There was a boy in that family who was in marriageable age.
The whole family liked this lady as well as her daughter very much. The family wanted the daughter to get married to their son.
In addition, there was no demand (dowry) from the boy’s side. They also took care of the marriage expenses. Thus, there were no expenses whatsoever for the girl’s side.
The couple now very happily settled.
Body puts us in the path created for us by divinity
So we do not know what is there in store for us by the Divine. By god’s grace she accepted whatever I told her and accepted the property given to her.
The body is nothing but the Divine. We have to accept the message it is giving and act accordingly. At each and every step it guides us.
However, we fail to understand the message. We do not how to infer the messages from the body and we never take care of the body either.
Fight over property: http://praisedivinelife.wordpress.com/2013/07/31/fight-over-property/
Ancestral home got partitioned peacefully: http://reachnaran.com/ancestral-home-got-partitioned-peacefully/
Son repeats his father’s mistakes: http://healbymindbodymessages.wordpress.com/2009/05/12/son-repeats-his-father%E2%80%99s-mistakes/
Whenever you had given me SW for healing for my present relationship, I felt some hope and felt that I must cross this hurdle and then everything will be alright.
So pls tell me can I still expect to get him back. Then what to do?
If you say to chant anything, for any number of times, in any mudra I will follow the same.
Till then I am just chanting “RELEASE RESISTANCE TOGETHER DIVINE LOVE”, thinking about him.
Do not hang on to anything.
Chanting is the only thing that you should do. If your mind is on what you get, you will be disappointed.
Getting what you want may give you happiness. But after sometime, it may give you dissatisfaction.
When you are ready to accept what is offered by the Divine, you will be happy. This is the only way escape karma – I mean its effect.
Be Happy, Don’t Worry: http://theflowerangels.wordpress.com/2013/06/12/be-happy-dont-worry/
Converting unwanted to wanted: http://reachnaran.com/converting-unwanted-to-wanted/
Not getting any results: http://findlifeanswers.wordpress.com/2013/10/26/not-getting-any-results/
On 14th February 2014 I and my husband successfully celebrated our 20 yrs. of married life. We need your blessings.
I am very happy to mention here that because of Reiki and flower remedies only my life had a meaning now.
Only after I become your student, lot of changes has happened in my life as well as with my family members.
Even though it was slow, it is good. I experienced lot of good things.
Every time, I attend your class, good things happen to me and I am able to propagate the power of divine flowers to my friends and relatives who had faith in it.
I should thank my sister for introducing you as my guru. I can feel myself that my confidence level is grown and health also. Though I look lean, I am strong.
According to my wish, my husband got job at Chennai and my daughter got admission in the group she wished for.
My mother-in-law is not well now but all these years she was taking care of my daughter and me and she is a great moral support to me.
Her breast cancer also got cured without spending lot of money and now she comes to Chennai for few days and goes to her daughter’s house in Mysore.
My husband is also feeling more responsibilities towards his daughter and takes care of her.
All these are due to your blessings and being your student. More than 15 yrs of wonderful spiritual journey I am undergoing. Even though I had ups and downs, they didn’t affect me.
Without Reiki I am nowhere. Daily like eating, bathing, I am practicing Reiki and I thank Reiki energy and to flowers and to you.
Whatever problems come to me, I am able to solve them, and even negative people or situation is not touching me and my family.
I have no words to express my gratitude to you but with my tears I bow to you and respect your spiritual path and I follow you. You have lot of divinity in you.
I wish you good luck and long healthy life.
Thank you once again.
Job satisfaction: http://healyourpastlife.wordpress.com/2013/03/03/job-satisfaction/
Tears of joy: http://reachnaran.com/tears-of-joy/
Coming out of LOSS pangs: http://reachnaran.com/coming-out-of-loss-pangs/
I had spoken with you three days back regarding my loan getting sanctioned. You had asked me to chant “GORSE, WATER VIOLET, ROCK WATER”. And I am still chanting it. Hope it will help me.
It has shown some positive results but it is taking time. Kindly help me in getting the process done faster. I will be in trouble if this delays.
Please add as follows: “GORSE, WATER VIOLET, ROCK WATER, FIND WHY I got the loan from bank NOW DONE”
When you ask the question ‘Why’ something has happened, your subconscious mind will find a way to make it happen.
However, allow time and mind to make it happen. Whatever comes the way, follow that route, which will eventually lead you to the result you desire for.
Some of the examples are:
- “FIND WHY I had a great time at the party”
- “FIND WHY I had a successful married life with so and so person”
- “FIND WHY I am considered as a topper in my college”