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Allow the child to be a child

UPK 

I want to inculcate the values of politeness and self-control in my 8-year-old daughter.

She keeps getting angry for every small thing and loses self-control. She gets very tempted with all material possessions and never really wants to share with others until forced to.

I am worried that she might land up in trouble with this kind of an attitude in future.

Naran

Don’t teach her anything.

She will come up well. Allow the child to be a child.

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How to Get Benefits Out of Meditation?

Naran

I want to get the benefits out of the meditation. And at the same time my mind gets distracted.

Will there be any possibility? Or will there be any chance of getting the benefits of meditation, even though there are distractions?

Yes definitely there is a possibility.

All the CDs in the Bach Flower Study Centre are tuned in certain brainwaves.

Whenever a person goes into a deep meditation, or deep meditative level, the brain produces certain waves called Brainwaves.

When you are in deep meditation you go to Alpha, then Theta and then Delta. Normally our distractive mind is in Beta State.

When you listen to the Meditation CD with a headphone, whatever Alpha waves generated will be imposed on your brain.

When those waves are imposed, you will be forced to come out of Beta level and you will be in the silence mode.

In that way, you can silence the rebellious or the resisting mind. That is the only way by which you can do meditation.

 The other way is really cumbersome for every time you have to be careful about the mind, because the mind is a great trickster.

You think that you will be able to manage it, for when you just say ‘release’, the thought goes off.

You feel happy then. But the happy state itself is another thought – whether it is happiness, sadness, calmness, worry, anger or love, all of them is a thought. 

Every such thought has to be released.

Afraid my family members will hurt me

Sankar

I am from a joint family. We are living under the same roof.

I had used my extended family’s assets and had failed in the business venture that I had undertaken. I had pledged our ancestral property – which belongs to my extended family.

Now, I am forced to sell it and as one could expect they are not happy and they curse me openly. I am afraid that while sleeping, one of them could hurt me gravely, out of intense anger on me.

Naran

Take the flower remedies MIMULUS and HOLLY.

Explanation

Fear of getting hurt: Mimulus

Not trusting (family members): Holly

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I want to die before you: http://naranhealingproducts.wordpress.com/2013/03/09/iwanttodieforyou/

Holly: http://theflowerangels.wordpress.com/2013/09/05/the-universal-lover/

Pat yourself in a big way: http://naranhealingproducts.wordpress.com/2012/05/24/pat-yourself-in-a-big-way/

The permanent change factor

Naran

Life is nothing but adjustment and comprise. The Bach Flower Remedy Walnut – the 21st Century Magic Pill helps you to achieve that effortlessly.

In addition, WALNUT completes any type of healing. It has a place of its own in healing arena.

In this Age of Change, it’s the Elixir of Life.

Keywords: to Change, to Move, Adjust, Circulate

Age of Change

With the key word Change, how many life situations can be addressed? Change means to become a different person based on the hour of need and to Move from one phase to another phase (Transition)

  • I am not able to change my residence. I wanted to Move closer to my office.
  • Change Into means to become.

For example, I want my son to become studious says a mother of a child. Both mother and son should take WALNUT. When we expect the change in some other person, then we are in Walnut state.

  • To change a person thoroughly, for example to come out of addiction, WALNUT is the base remedy.
  • When one is forced to frequently change jobs: WALNUT
  • When you want some diversion, when you feel bored, you need a change: WALNUT

Winning Presentations

Raju

I had to make a presentation to a delegation that came from Europe.  The presentation was an overview and update of our business.  At the end of the meeting / presentation, we were looking for investment from the European / Global division of the visiting company. 

The night before the presentation I spoke to R Mohan and asked him for some tips.  He asked me to draw two sets of concentric circles:

  1. One with my name in the centre and WATER VIOLET, LARCH, GENTIAN and WILD ROSE in the outer circles in that order and
  2. Another one with my name in the centre along with the person I was making the presentation to, date and location and ELM, GORSE and HEATHER in the outer circles in that order.

 I drew these circles on two sheets of paper and took them along with me in to the meeting room.  The meeting started at 10 a.m. and my turn came at around 4 p.m. 

What I observed during the day was that the main person in the visiting team was someone who did not smile through the day and did not really give away any of his emotions / views.  When I started presenting, I suddenly felt very comfortable and at ease and I actually smiled during my presentation.  This, in a way, forced a smile on that person who was tight-lipped and was on guard.  In fact, he said a few words in appreciation of the work we are doing too.

Explanation

WATER VIOLET, LARCH, GENTIAN and WILD ROSE: a good combination for any interviews including Visa Interviews, and for meeting with big bosses

ELM, GORSE and HEATHER: Heather will make people listen to you, while Elm and Gorse will increase your capacity / skill

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