Posts tagged FORGIVE
Naran S Balakumar
- List out your wishes – not in words, but in the form of pictures and color them.
- Suppose you have a wish to build a house. You have to take a paper and picture what you want, in the form of a sketch.
The drawing need not be neat. Only thing is that you have to draw in a sequence – from basement, to construction and then to painting the house. Everything should be in the form of pictures.
- Whatever you want, you have to draw it in the form of picture. Daily you have to see that picture.
Come out of the desire first
For intention fulfillment and desire fulfillment there are lot of techniques.
While drawing the picture, if you involve too much then you cannot come out of it and the desire will also not be fulfilled.
We have to visualize it in picture form in a sequence, at the same time be out of the desire.
As long the desire is in your mind it is your desire and when once it is drawn on a paper you should think that it is not your desire.
- You do healing in that manner for which “I AM SORRY, PLEASE FORGIVE ME, LOVE, THANKS, DIVINE” will help.
You must keep chanting this while looking at the picture. Then only the desire will be fulfilled.
Help to achieve our goal: http://wolfforhelp.blogspot.in/2015/01/help-to-achieve-our-goal.html
Get an engineering seat: https://praisedivinelife.wordpress.com/2014/01/22/get-an-engineering-seat/
Kanchana had problems in her work place – a call centre. She consulted Naran.
He asked her to quit the job ASAP and to find a new job he suggested her to chant, “I AM SORRY. PLEASE FORGIVE ME. OPEN SAVE DIVINE DELIGHT COUNT NOW DONE”.
He added the switch words “Count Now Done” to the new I am sorry mantra as she is looking for a job.
She started chanting. On the same day, she came across a friend, who suggested an opportunity in a Data Center as a data entry operator.
She went for the interview and got the job, within 24 hours of quitting her job.
Interestingly after her interview was over, one of the person, who interviewed her, came running after her.
Asked her whether she is an engineer and on confirmation from her said, she could continue as long as she wants until she finds a new job.
In fact, he promised to give her some references for potential jobs in IT companies.
Whenever I find any overwhelming emotions in the form of anger or hurt, I find saying the switch words, “TOGETHER BOW CONCEDE ADJUST FORGIVE PRAISE THANKS” very useful.
If I simply look at the feeling and say those words, the emotions simply vanish away.
Look at the emotions and say, “I release that part of my mind that is angry. I activate that part of mind that forgives”.
Another example is, “I release that part of me that vomits. I activate that part of mind that stops vomiting”.
You can also do this with whomever you are having problems.
For example, “I release the part which is resisting being harmonious with. I activate the part that brings in harmony, peace and love with so and so”.
This way you can do for any aspect of life. The reason it works is, we have several parts operating– each part taking us in a different direction.
The moment we become aware of it, the healing happens faster.
After employing the technique for a while, one thing I notice however is a sense of fear.
When one skin (emotion) is peeled off, another skin (another emotion) appears. Affirm, “I align the fearing mind with my fearless consciousness”.
Post-Script (R Mohan)
While I was getting help from Naran (for my anger), during the same time, I provided the same suggestions to M (for her hurt): http://healbyanimalspirits.wordpress.com/2013/07/28/entwined-in-love/#comment-2057
Naran says that we come across people with the same problems as we are facing then.
So, we should not worry whether we are providing right solutions to them or not as our solutions apply to them as well.
A patient of Naran remarked about her spouse. He gave the following reply to her. These exercises however can be done anybody who wants to live harmoniously and be happy with them.
Look at oneself first
This is Drama of Life and if one understands, we will come to know, realize and understand that we have to bring in change in ourselves only.
We have to direct the mind towards oneself and then towards others. This is the basis of all healing modalities.
The nature always expects us to move towards perfection.
In this process, one understands not only the DIVINE ORDER, but also realizes that one has to rise above the mind and its tantrums, and become spiritual.
All healing methods help a person to understand his/her own potentials.
Others are mirrors of yourself
Before trying to change the other person do this exercise on you first.
Take a piece of paper and write about him first. Whatever you wanted to say about him write it.
- Insert the word ‘I’ wherever you have put ‘He’.
For example, “He never takes the treatment properly and he escapes”, should be rewritten as “I never take the treatment properly. I escape.”
Change what all you have written about him Into I.
- Now affirm, “I never take the treatment properly. I escape. In spite of this, I accept myself totally”.
Do three rounds of tapping for each sentence.
- Do the forgiving exercise for them. “I forgive you …. (Name) you please forgive me and release me”.
- Send Reiki to him daily.
Problem is the source of solution
Whoever is causing problem to you, can only give you solution.
Whoever irritates or angers you, can only give you peace.
You cannot change your husband. You want him for your status and security. Then you have to heal yourself. Forgive.
- You only have to make your life peaceful. For getting peace with such a person, you have to shed your ego and heal yourself.
Heal your controlling tendencies
Heal your anger and controlling tendency.
We always like people who comply or who just listen to us or obey us implicitly. That is why we want all the people to do this and that as well as agree with us, whatever we say.
When there is slight disagreement, dissent or difference of opinion, we may not like the person.
This dislike of the person who disagrees and the like of the person who agrees create conflicts in life.
- Both are born from our controlling tendency – desire to control or change. Release your desire to control and change others.
You have the power to heal him
What your husband needs attention, love and tolerance. Understand that he is mentally deranged, unlike we who are sane. The sane people are supposed to protect and understand such people.
When you ignore, chide, or send your husband away, who will take care of him?
The God has sent him to you, because you know Reiki.
God has sent him to you, because you know forgiving exercise and you know how to release your karma.
God has sent him to you because you know how to change yourself through flower remedies.
Heal him. This is how god has made him. One drop of love will change him. One iota of kindness can change.
Heal him from the heart. Sympathize with him. If he is the cause of your mental agony, how much he is suffering within mentally. Just help a man who needs help. Pray for him.
He is not a curse to you. He has not become your husband because of your bad karma.
He has come to you for healing. He is a grace for you.
Through him you spiritual journey starts! I hope you will start the Journey!!
I am a student waiting to go to USA.
I have a clearance/invite from my desired university but the student visa is in process. It is now in the hands of US agency. It is taking lot of time and no reason is given.
I have lots to be done in India after I get the visa papers, before I can leave for USA in an orderly and un-rushed way.
Please help me so that all formalities are expedited, satisfactory, and I can be stress-free.
Chant “WATER VIOLET, ROCK WATER, CHERRY PLUM, IMPATIENS”
After your advice I have been chanting “WATER VIOLET, ROCK WATER, CHERRY PLUM, IMPATIENS” on and off.
Since the last 3 days, I had been having trouble and frustrations with the passport website/helpline people for booking appointment.
I was also complaining to friends about this system and the frustrations – since within 1 or 2 minutes the appointment slots would disappear and the system would automatically say “All booked. Please try after 24 hours”.
I feared this could become an endless loop, a gamble.
There are alternatives like walk-in, but that would have been very inconvenient, as I would be missing some classes, deadlines etc.
Since yesterday, I was chanting at every opportunity – while jogging, bathing etc.
Today, a little before the appointment booking opening time, I not only chanted about 200 times (also added “Wolf help, Wolf help” at the end),
I also did some 200 forgiving chant for the passport booking system which I had been cursing as stupid.
I was peaceful, like even if it did not happen, it is ok. I am just meant to do the alternate process, because it is for some higher good, which I do not know.
And guess what, today within 30 seconds of my login, I got the appointment – process as smooth as butter.
Yes, I was alert and wiser today to not even be late by 5 seconds to login etc. But, I feel the whole thing came about successfully, including the “alertness” to do that, due to your guidance.
Yes- this was a just one step in many that need to happen – but I am confident other processes also will move appropriately at the right time.
Thank you so much for your selfless service – you are truly a blessing! And thank you Water Violet, Rock Water, Impatiens, Cherry Plum and Wolf’!! Thank you, God!!!
At last we got the visa: http://healbyanimalspirits.wordpress.com/2013/09/21/at-last-we-got-the-visa/
Please help me to forgive: http://naranhealingproducts.wordpress.com/2012/07/08/please-help-me-to-forgive/
I have a problem of getting emotionally attached to people (especially of the opposite sex). They would come on my mind for maximum times of the day.
I unknowingly get so involved that after some time in the relationship, I say or do things that I don’t want to or that which is not good for the relation. Then of course there is friction in the relation.
I really start to feel the energy when this starts to happen. I try to control but cannot.
Do the forgiving exercise with EFT (tapping).
How and why we need to forgive others: http://reachnaran.com/how-and-why-we-need-to-forgive-others/
Advantage Acceptance: http://healbyrule.wordpress.com/2009/06/25/advantage-acceptance/
Read the first part of the article here: http://reachnaran.com/goals-achievement-through-reiki-part-i/
How to create affirmations?
Affirm, “Reiki heal the intention for the highest good for everybody concerned”.
Why should we add this sentence to the affirmation? This is surrendering to Reiki, as only on a surrender things will happen. When we believe that Reiki can do it, it will start working.
We need a separate paper for everyone included in the healing. If one person is healed then we don’t have to give Reiki to them.
Though, you can give Reiki for all the affirmations put together.
Or use a Reiki box where you can have multiple papers inside the box and give Reiki to it.
The box will be charged permanently and therefore any papers (stuff) kept inside the box will be energised quickly.
Draw all the symbols.
Need not be in order, for example you can draw Zonar many times before drawing another symbol.
Have the hands over the box or the individual affirmation.
Instead of doing nothing while hands are placed, you may chant the “I am sorry” mantra, which goes like this, “I am sorry. Please forgive Me. Love Thanks Divine”.
Hot to form a (Reiki) Intention?
Write the Intention as though it has already happened and give it Reiki.
Within 10 minutes draw the symbols as many times as possible.
When you place the hands on the paper and affirm, “I am sorry! Please forgive me. Love, Thanks and Divine!”
Once the goal is realized, put the paper in water and tear it or thank it and throw it in the dustbin.
Writing your intentions
You will have multiple desires. What’s your immediate priority? Write that in the paper.
Add to the affirmation, “Reiki heal the intention for the highest good of all concerned”.
Visualize as though it has happened. This will reinforce the intention.
End with the symbol Hon Sha Ze Sho Nen and as this will take the intention to Reiki source. You may also affirm, “I am placing it at the source of Reiki”.
Accomplish your goals: http://praisedivinelife.wordpress.com/2014/01/23/accomplish-your-goals/
Achieve Your Life-Time Objectives: http://healbymeditation.wordpress.com/2011/10/20/achieve-your-life-time-objectives/
Relax to Reach Your Goal: http://praisedivinelife.wordpress.com/2013/06/22/relax-to-reach-your-goal/
I have a small business selling soapsuds, but due to some reasons, business has been slow and not many customers (possibly due to negative energies or influences by parents).
I’ve tried your suggested switch word phrase which you gave to someone else: “CONCEDE CLEAR CENTRE FIND DIVINE clients COUNT NOW ON EVERYDAY”.
Would this be sufficient to clear whatever the obstacles which are blocking the smooth sale of my products?
The switch words are enough.
Thinking about your parents chant “I AM SORRY PLEASE FORGIVE ME LOVE THANKS DIVINE” daily around 500 times.
However they are, you can never succeed in your life if you think ill of your parents.
Found a big client: http://reachnaran.com/found-a-big-client/
Relationship with Parents = Relationship with Others: http://naranhealingproducts.wordpress.com/2013/01/22/relationship-with-parents-equals-relationship-with-others/
Please let me know about switch words to regain lost love, marry the same person and be happy.
Chant “CONCEDE CLEAR CENTRE GIVE DIVINE LOVE”
Prayer to forgive: http://reachnaran.com/prayer-to-forgive/
Learn to manage your fears: http://reachnaran.com/learn-to-manage-your-fears/