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No motive to do something

Commenting on: http://findlifeanswers.wordpress.com/2013/09/03/i-love-to-take-control-of-my-life/

Kalika

I also have an issue, although the article is insightful, when we say that divine is the doer, I am not the doer. It does give a freedom from all the burdens.

But, in this case are we not being deprived of the motive to do something, which comes when we accept that we are totally responsible for the entire situation in which we are.

Would the human being not loose motive to move ahead in life, if he believes that divine is the doer.

I am not, then why should he care if he is doing something right or wrong because then also divine is responsible.

Can you please throw some light on this confusion?

I know I am sounding vague here, but I do loose motive to do something right and become lazy when I remember of this statement.

Naran 

When one fully accepts the divine doer concept, one aligns with the higher mind – totally submitting oneself to the will of the divine.

When you do the work on hand as given by the divine, you will do reverentially. Your total concentration is on work. Extend this ownership and you will find others as divine.

Work is divine. Doer of the work is divine. Done for what / the result is divine. Done for whom?  That person is divine.

There is only love in the heart. There is only joy in the heart. There is only peace in the mind.

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i love to control my life: http://findlifeanswers.wordpress.com/2013/09/03/i-love-to-take-control-of-my-life/

Why should we heal when divine is the doer: http://findlifeanswers.wordpress.com/2013/09/13/why-should-we-heal-when-divine-is-the-doer/

Never divorce your husband: http://healbymindbodymessages.wordpress.com/2012/12/16/never-divorce-your-husband/

A balanced life!!!

Naran

Your wants have to be in balance

Wherever you need harmony you can use the word TOGETHER. It is a very special switch word. It goes deep into the life of person. It stimulates the values in us.

However, most of us do not know what we want. He will be working as a temporary worker but he may want freedom. Employment and freedom cannot go together. If you want freedom and independence then you should have your own business.

However, for doing business, he needs security and so he cannot invest in business. Like this, we are always in conflict in our lives.

Some people want to earn more money, but he cannot because if earns more money, his family life may be affected and so on.

Different parts of life

For all of us a balanced life is needed. What is that?

One is personal; one unknown person is there inside all of us. I can only know myself. That is the personal life in which physical life will be there too. You cannot be healing others continuously unless you are healthy. So, physical health is one part of life.

 The second part of life is our social life and relationships. That is, relationship with others – either relationship with the family or society.

The third part is professional. 

Thus, the first part of life is physical or personal, the second part is relationships, the third part is professional and the fourth part is spiritual.

Our conflicts of interest

All these four are not balanced in any of us because our interests are in conflict with each other.

Our physical health will be good but relationships will not be good. If relationship is good, his professional life will not be good as he may not go to the office.

When you take a decision for one part of life, it may imbalance the other part of life. When you decide to go to a foreign country, you will lose your family life.

For that reason, you cannot sit at home saying that for you, your family is important and therefore you will skip work.

In the same way, when you think money is important then you have to forego your family life.

Ultimately, you are working for your health, which is lost by working hard, going at 6 am and coming back at 12 midnight.

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Your job can be fun: http://healbyanimalspirits.wordpress.com/2012/03/05/yes-your-job-can-be-fun-and-enriching/

How to get fulfilled and satisfied in life: http://naranonline.wordpress.com/2010/08/15/how-to-get-fulfilled-and-satisfied-in-life/

Enjoy the Feel-Good Factor: http://naranhealingproducts.wordpress.com/2011/03/05/enjoying-the-feel-good-factor/

Your in-laws are your parents

JEY

I am married a few months ago and have problems with my mother-in-law. She is the possessive type.

When my husband, she and I go out, she wants to sit in front in the car. Whenever my husband and I go out for a vacation, she would call him and ask him to come back.

She decides everything for us and we have no freedom as husband and wife. My husband follows her blindly without questioning.

How am I to solve this problem? I want my MIL to leave us to enjoy our marriage life.

I love my parents very much and I want my parents to stay near me and I want to take care of them forever.

At the moment my dad is jobless and he is always sad because of that. I hope he can get a job somewhere near my place so that my family will always be next to me. And, I want my parents to live long.

Naran

Write your parents name. Draw a circle around the names. Draw one more circle around the first one. Write in the gap, “SWEET CHESTNUT, WALNUT, GREEN TOURMALINE”.

Love your mother-in-law as much as you love your parents. What all you want to do for your parents, do for your mother-in-law.

Change your thinking and stop resenting. Do this for one month.

Thank her for allowing you to be with your husband. Daily thank her like this.

In the night, chant “TOGETHER CHANGE NOW” till you sleep.

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Love, Affection and Harmony: http://togetherrelationship.wordpress.com/2013/09/17/love-affection-and-harmony/

Bring Cheer in Relationships: http://healbygems.wordpress.com/2013/08/15/cheer-in-relationships/

Tie your problems and throw them away: http://naranhealingproducts.wordpress.com/2011/06/06/tie-your-problems-and-throw-them-away/

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