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Want to be loved and respected
Karinapach
I have separated from my husband but we are now friends with benefits now and it hurt me. What can I do? Shall I go on?
He says we can have a good relationship in the future but I am not sure. I think I am making things easier for him. I don’t know how to proceed. I admire him a lot!
Naran
What do you want?
Karinapach I want to be loved and respected
Naran
Give love and love and respect all
From ‘I Love Myself’ Workbook
I am Loved
- What will I do today towards (gaining) this aspect of my life?
I am Worthy of Love
- Think about your positive qualities that you have used so far.
- How will you use them today?
In addition, check the link, to know how to gain respect: http://findlifeanswers.wordpress.com/2012/03/13/i-deserve-respect/
Life is Divine
“I Trust Life” – from the “I Love Myself” Workbook
Naran
1. So far divine has taken care of you in this life. In what ways you are divinely guided or helped?
My Life is Divine
I trust life means, I trust Divine. Life is Divine – the one energy which is leading my life.
How can you cultivate the trust in the Divine?
So far we have lived our life, which has been taken care of by the Divine.
This we can understand by the happening of certain events and situations. In certain important events you would have felt the presence of Divine.
2. You must identify such events and situations. You must identify, in what ways you were helped or guided?
This we can understand only when we go deeper and find out.
Sometimes, your life has been saved by the Divine. In some situations, you would have cancelled your journey and that plane or train would have met with an accident.
Our very presence proves the existence of Divine
My very presence is because of the Divine, somebody is giving me something, and I am living. My very living is the proof that some Divine is protecting me, nurturing me, nourishing me, and guarding me.
Healing has come to us and it’s a great boon
Everybody cannot come into the healing profession.
How ignorant people are? Who has brought me in this line? Which has made me learn so many healing techniques?
So then, I am not an ordinary human being. The Divine wants to me to learn more and move spiritually at the same time.
In this profession, we cannot find out concrete profit. But lot of changes will take place in our mind, in our life and the way we look at life.
If a problem comes for a common man then he will start worrying, go to temple and pray. But, what we will do?
We will do the necessary healing and that too with a mentality of non-attachment to the result.
Why do we need to have a fear of future?
When the Divine is doing so much for me, why not divine will protect me in future also? Why should I fear about my future?
Whenever the fear or worry comes, repeat the words, “I TRUST LIFE”.
When you say these words, you feel confident, thinking, “So far the Divine has protected me. Even here afterwards the Divine will protect me. Therefore, why should I worry?”
How to solve your problems?
If there is any problem means we are not submitting ourselves to the Divine Order and we fail to see the Divine Order in operation.
When we fail to see the Divine Order in operation, we lack in love.
When you chant the switch words, “CONCEDE CLEAR CENTRE FIND DIVINE ORDER”, it completes the love, and problem is solved.
Related Posts
Surrender to win the battle of life: http://naranonline.wordpress.com/2011/12/31/to-surrender-is-to-win-the-battle-of-life/
Sleeping pill: http://healbyswitchword.wordpress.com/2013/07/18/sleeping-pill/
I lost all hope that I will succeed in Life: http://healbymeditation.wordpress.com/2011/08/01/i-lost-all-hope-that-i-will-succeed-in-life/
Two months without salary
Client
It’s been two months without salary.
Company’s operations are very slow due to unavailable operating cost, shareholders are fighting, though they have assets but to liquidate them is a long process, huge pile of debts in market and nil credibility with banks.
Seems company is going to close down in near future unless DIVINE INTERVENTION takes place. I even heard they are planning to retrench 70% of staff soon.
Please advise any chanting for company’s regular business so salaries are not delayed further…
Naran
Chant “SWEET CHESTNUT, WALNUT, STAR OF BETHLEHEM, CHESTNUT BUD, DIVINE ORDER”
Client
After I senta mail to you, my senior messaged me that I need to travel to Singapore to look for apartment and school for the kids. The thing which is worrying me is I relocate and what if reaching there such delays in salary happens! How will I survive?
Sorry Naran, if it’s annoying you but being single parent Ineed to assure financial assurance for me and my kids. Besides chanting the above, do I need to chant anything else?
Naran
Continue the same.
Client
Thanks to You and Divine light… New investors are coming in hopefully. Really wish company grows and flourish with these new changes.
Salaries are released and all pending payments are settled… Thank God!
I am so glad that my boss is now allowing me to work couple of days to work from home when he is not in town. This way I can spend more quality time with kids and I pray Divine light to help me getting some tuition for evening, as additional source of income.
Explanation
Divine order is a switch word, while Sweet Chestnut, Star of Bethlehem and Chestnut Bud are Bach flower remedies.
For divine intervention: Sweet chestnut
Outside, unhelpful environment over which one has no control: Walnut
Total break-down because of the company: Star of Bethlehem
To get free from the bad situation: Chestnut bud
Related Posts
The Happiness Factor: http://reachnaran.com/the-happiness-factor/
Regained My Faith: http://reachnaran.com/regained-my-faith/
Desperate Situations Needs a Divine Intervention: http://reachnaran.com/desperate-situations-needs-a-divine-intervention/
Earn Without Employment
Student
After attending Naran Abundance workshop I did the “ABUNDANCE PROGRAMME”.
I started it almost after 15- 20 days attending the workshop.
Here I am listing all things regarding money or somehow related to it.
In the past I was penniless
Before that I like to tell you few words about my situation.
Right now I am not working. I left my job after marriage, due to some family issues.
It was almost 3 years back. And that was hard time for me.
Even though we have enough money in house, I couldn’t spend.
Even for small amount of money or small expenses too, I felt like beggar, jilted and distress as Hubby not used to give me money in hand due to our loans and not even for day-to-day expenses.
Today my situation has changed
In all these days, there was not any single moment of denial or refuse from husband, while giving me money.
And that was the biggest surprising part for me.
In this period I paid all my debts. (It was not very heavy, every time when my husband denied giving me money).
It was with my sister and friend. Now only remaining part is my mother – who helped me in form of money, when we bought a house.
She didn’t ask me to return anything. But still I feel I should give all her money back and other is workshop fees that I attended in Mumbai.
4th day – I got a call from old colleague. He is going to start his own company and he wants me to join there, but this is after few months in this year.
6th day – I wanted to return some money to my friend, which he gave me in my need,(3 months back) when I was afraid to ask/ demand money from my hubby.
Somehow, I wanted to return it at earliest. But, there was no money source for me. And after writing 5th statement I was crying. Hubby asked me the reason.
And for the first time I had the courage to tell truth to him that I borrowed money from someone and that I was feeling guilty on how I will repay to them.
The person who used to get so furious on such things was completely calm and gave me money to return, without saying a word.
10th day – without applying anywhere, got a call from some job site, that too on my 3-year-old resume.
11th day – surprise shopping for me from hubby.
13th day – been to interview. Same day got another job call.
15th day – 2nd interview.
16th day – got selected in 1st interview, but I was not keen to join. Again hubby gave me some money, without asking.
17th day – got a credit note of almost 25,000 Rupees from Mobile Company.
5 months back my hubby gifted me a smart phone, which suddenly stopped working. Service center people said that it got damaged and un-repairable.
And that same service center gave us a credit note same as the original purchase amount of phone. It will get cleared within a month. Nobody could believe that I am getting money instead of replacement!
27th day – Hubby gave me some money for doctor visit, which was 3 times extra of normal fees. He didn’t even ask me about remaining money, or bills, which he used to ask after every visit.
29th day – 2nd interview, cleared 2nd round. Got selection call in evening.
Again I couldn’t join here, because of family issues. Was little upset, but knew something good might come in future. 30th day- again some surprise money from hubby.
Will keep updating more!!
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Instructions to listen to the Abundance Set of CDs: https://www.google.co.in/#q=Instructions+to+listen+to+the+Abundance+Set+of+CDs+reach+naran
Don’t worry about your future
Madhu
How can we give up thinking about future? As we see so many broken and unhappy marriage in my surrounding this kind of fear comes.
Naran
When a thought comes, check the mind saying if this thought gives me fear, why don’t I release this?
Can I release this?
Just say, “I let go this thought which gives me fear”.
You can also ask another question, “What thought gives fearlessness”.
Come with as many thoughts as possible.
When a thought that gives you safety or trust appears, welcome it and release it.
It is a game! Play!
Related Posts
Sometimes we have to think sentimentally too: http://reachnaran.com/sometimes-we-have-to-think-sentimentally-too/
Switch Word from Lord Krishna: http://healbymeditation.wordpress.com/2010/09/15/%E2%80%9Catmavan-bhava%E2%80%9D-%E2%80%93-switch-word-from-lord-krishna/
Letting GO in Action: http://healbyrule.wordpress.com/2013/02/11/letting-go-in-action/
Life situations where Walnut is helpful
Naran
When I go to a person for request: (Bach Flower Remedies) BEECH and WALNUT
To make person easily approachable: WALNUT and WATER VIOLET
Uphill task: WALNUT and HORNBEAM
To begin: WALNUT is like ‘PILLAYAR SULI” (a symbol in Tamil that invokes the blessings of Lord Ganesha – the remover of obstacles)
To end: WALNUT because beginning is end of something else.
To begin communication, to re-establish communication and I don’t know how to start the communication: WALNUT
Sharing the ancestral property: WALNUT
When one withholds info, as in a therapy: AGRIMONY and WALNUT
Work is not challenging: WALNUT
Puberty: WALNUT
To come out of too much of TV watching and speaking on mobile phones, or any other form of addiction: WALNUT, SCLERANTHUS
WALNUT protects our boundaries
First marriage ended in a divorce, not to attract the same type of person in the second marriage: WALNUT
I feel rejected: CHICORY, WALNUT
I am easily offended (highly sensitive): CHICORY, HOLLY, and WALNUT
The antonym of attraction is Resistance – resistance means to fight against or refrain from temptation. To refrain from any temptation: WALNUT and CHERRY PLUM
When the child revolts and throw temper tantrums: CHICORY, HOLLY and WALNUT
When completion is not happening in any work, for example not completing the book you promised to write and it’s half-done: WALNUT, OAK and HORNBEAM
Defense against a verbal attack – WALNUT, PINE (when you are constantly criticized) – for example, due a strict father his son is afraid.
The antonym of attraction is Hindrance. Therefore, to give/get a helping hand: WALNUT (it works like Wolf animal spirit).
When there is Delay, Obstruction, and Resistance: WALNUT.
When somebody prevents (hinders) promotion: WILLOW and WALNUT (“if he wants, he can help but he didn’t or he spoiled it”)
All of us worried about ****** (7.5 years itch): WALNUT
He is afraid he will fail in the exam (transition from one class to another), Interview or reapplying for a new passport: WALNUT
When others are unreasonable: WILLOW, WALNUT
When anybody is merciless: WALNUT
When a person is avoiding you: ROCK WATER, CHESTNUT BUD and WALNUT
Reconciling to the situation: WALNUT
For a caring, co-operative, friendly, generous, helpful, kind atmosphere: WALNUT
Any stiffness: WALNUT, ROCK WATER. When the atmosphere is tensed, when there is tension, WALNUT is the remedy.
Walnut is the remedy for relaxation. Antonyms for stiff are easy and relax. For relaxation – WALNUT
If you are uncomfortable to attend a VIP’s marriage: WALNUT, WATER VIOLET and LARCH (you will be treated well)
If anyone is possessive, selfish, greedy, demanding, stingy: CHICORY, WALNUT
To stop the bleeding: RESCUE REMEDY, WALNUT
Want to hurry up: IMPATIENS and WALNUT – then the program may not start on time
Children during teenage — not to be influenced by peers and friends – WALNUT protects the child
The child will cry, whenever parents criticize: RESCUE REMEDY and WALNUT (it will find balance and protect self).
Due to constant criticism a child will become HEATHER. To prevent that from happening in the future, Walnut is the remedy.
Walnut tree is big. When the flower blooms its smell is so strong, insects and other flies will keep away. So it can protect the self.
Allergic to smell – (gem remedy) YELLOW SAPPHIRE and WALNUT
Give the remedies always separately.
In Nutshell
The goal of Walnut’s healing is to have constancy and stability in one’s life!!!
Life situations where Walnut is helpful
Naran
When I go to a person for request: (Bach Flower Remedies) BEECH and WALNUT
To make person easily approachable: WALNUT and WATER VIOLET
Uphill task: WALNUT and HORNBEAM
To begin: WALNUT is like ‘PILLAYAR SULI” (a symbol in Tamil that invokes the blessings of Lord Ganesha – the remover of obstacles)
To end: WALNUT because beginning is end of something else.
To begin communication, to re-establish communication and I don’t know how to start the communication: WALNUT
Sharing the ancestral property: WALNUT
When one withholds info, as in a therapy: AGRIMONY and WALNUT
Work is not challenging: WALNUT
Puberty: WALNUT
To come out of too much of TV watching and speaking on mobile phones, or any other form of addiction: WALNUT, SCLERANTHUS
WALNUT protects our boundaries
First marriage ended in a divorce, not to attract the same type of person in the second marriage: WALNUT
I feel rejected: CHICORY, WALNUT
I am easily offended (highly sensitive): CHICORY, HOLLY, and WALNUT
The antonym of attraction is Resistance – resistance means to fight against or refrain from temptation. To refrain from any temptation: WALNUT and CHERRY PLUM
When the child revolts and throw temper tantrums: CHICORY, HOLLY and WALNUT
When completion is not happening in any work, for example not completing the book you promised to write and it’s half-done: WALNUT, OAK and HORNBEAM
Defense against a verbal attack – WALNUT, PINE (when you are constantly criticized) – for example, due a strict father his son is afraid.
The antonym of attraction is Hindrance. Therefore, to give/get a helping hand: WALNUT (it works like Wolf animal spirit). When there is Delay, Obstruction, and Resistance: WALNUT. When somebody prevents (hinders) promotion: WILLOW and WALNUT (“if he wants, he can help but he didn’t or he spoiled it”)
All of us worried about ****** (7.5 years itch): WALNUT
He is afraid he will fail in the exam (transition from one class to another), Interview or reapplying for a new passport: WALNUT
When others are unreasonable: WILLOW, WALNUT
When anybody is merciless: WALNUT
When a person is avoiding you: ROCK WATER, CHESTNUT BUD and WALNUT
Reconciling to the situation: WALNUT
For a caring, co-operative, friendly, generous, helpful, kind atmosphere: WALNUT
Any stiffness: WALNUT, ROCK WATER. When the atmosphere is tensed, when there is tension, WALNUT is the remedy. Walnut is the remedy for relaxation. Antonyms for stiff are easy and relax. For relaxation – WALNUT
If you are uncomfortable to attend a VIP’s marriage: WALNUT, WATER VIOLET and LARCH (you will be treated well)
If anyone is possessive, selfish, greedy, demanding, stingy: CHICORY, WALNUT
To stop the bleeding: RESCUE REMEDY, WALNUT
Want to hurry up: IMPATIENS and WALNUT – then the program may not start on time
Children during teenage — not to be influenced by peers and friends – WALNUT protects the child
The child will cry, whenever parents criticize: RESCUE REMEDY and WALNUT (it will find balance and protect self). Due to constant criticism a child will become HEATHER. To prevent that from happening in the future, Walnut is the remedy. Walnut tree is big. When the flower blooms its smell is so strong, insects and other flies will keep away. So it can protect the self.
Allergic to smell – (gem remedy) YELLOW SAPPHIRE and WALNUT
Give the remedies always separately.
In Nutshell
The goal of Walnut’s healing is to have constancy and stability in one’s life!!!
Our future is not determined
Naran
Let me give an example to make you understand that our future is not determined
In a typical office there is a conflict and arguments between office manager and the staff.
A staff member will have two options.
Either he can straightaway throw his job by getting angry and argumentative.
Many a time we succumb to our emotions and they guide your actions. We all know that. If you are able to be only like this, then the result is determined as what we expect to happen.
Or you can do the following, based on NLP:
Step One: Identify the emotion.
Let us say, we get angry.
It’s ok. If we say then, “This is my anger”, it will be automatically gets reduced. This is one way of handling your emotions.
Step Two: Create the outcome you want.
Now ask the question, “What do I want from this situation”.
Analyze, “What’s my present state”.
Then ask the question, “What do I want” or “What is the desired outcome I want here”.
Now we are forming a strategy here.
For example, if the strategy to create a situation is formed by the staff member then he won’t resign.
Related Posts
Right or wrong, figure it out with your fingers: http://reachnaran.com/right-or-wrong-figure-it-out-with-fingers/
Change is a celebration: http://reachnaran.com/change-is-a-celebration/
Find why I am successful: http://reachnaran.com/find-why-i-am-successful/
Resentment is a seed don’t feed it
Savitri
I am tired of looking after my daughter, who is giving birth to her third child. Currently they are staying in Mumbai.
I am tired of travelling too, from Chennai to Mumbai as well as doing the baby-sitting stuff.
Naran
Tell me in which part of your life you have looked after somebody in the same way you are looking after your daughter now. They may be your cousins or friends.
Savitri
You won’t believe it, if I tell you that I had done the same for my mother. I looked after her when she gave birth to my younger brother after nineteen long years (after my birth).
My parents wanted to have a son. I resented it.
I also didn’t like to take care of my mother’s pregnancy too.
Naran
No doubt your frustration continues.
When we don’t heal ourselves regarding a life-situation then the same situation will happen in the future too and you will go through the same feelings and thoughts.
Savitri
Are you saying that I will be helping my grand-daughter too, when she gets pregnant? No way. I don’t think I will be living until then.
Naran
Not necessarily.
You may go through the same experience in your next lifetime(s) also.
Or you might get caught in a situation in this life-time itself that is similar to this situation. And you will end-up feeling the same.
So, I would advise you to heal all your incidents related to pregnancy, including yours and some other incidents where you had felt in the same way as you are feeling now.
Related Blogs
How and why we need to forgive others: http://reachnaran.com/how-and-why-we-need-to-forgive-others/
The Mother’s Care: http://reachnaran.com/the-mothers-care/
Profit after Loss: http://reachnaran.com/profit-after-loss/
A lifetime of seeking is over
Feedback on workshop held at Mumbai: http://reachnaran.com/mumbai-workshop-april-5th-and-6th/
Deepa
“When the student is ready the teacher comes”
Dear Naran,
This saying has been resonating in my mind since day one, when I wrote you the first mail seeking healing and you replied. Seeing you in person has just made it a happier occasion – TY TY TY.
If I had the time and opportunity to say it in person, I would tell you how I am feeling today – “Enveloped in a ball of bliss”.
I am so delighted that my smile is just refusing to go away. Though, all the participants have got your equal grace, I feel you have come to Mumbai only for me. Today, it felt all so easy. Finally, I got confidence that I can learn any healing modalities/techniques – so, multiple bonanzas for me.
The joy of meeting you in person, doing the workshop – it is ALL PERFECT.
Your presence is such that at end of day, the hotel waiter was asking me about you. Really, he is blessed for wanting to know.
A lifetime of seeking is over! Deepest love!! Thanks Love Divine!!!
Varsha Patil
A big thank to YOU Naran! And welcome back to Mumbai in this year-end. That was the most amazing and wonderful time. Really felt so blessed in your divine presence. A big thanks to Shobanaji, Haripriya, and all other participants who made this workshop happen.
Dear Participants, am opening a Facebook group for Mumbai Participants, as per request by many. As many of them wanted to be in touch with each other, for Success stories, and more future events in Mumbai. Will post here.
Kalpana Vasudevan Iyer
An unforgettable and much awaited day for me! Thank you Naran!! Thank you Varsha, Nagalakshmi and others for organizing this meet. It was so long on my wish list. Please organize another one soon!! Blessed to listen to NARAN and his simple explanations and suggestions!!!
Barathi Raghav
Yesterday workshop was excellent – Purnima
Usha Raghunathan
Well organized. Thanks to all. Did a good job. Workshop was excellent.
Dr. Rashmi Menon
I was fortunate to attend the first one. It was a lovely experience. Thank you! Thank you organizers!! May the love and light spread through you all over the Universe!!! And so it is!!!!
Salima
We were truly blessed! Love and Light always!!
Vrushali Vilas
We love you Naran…great to meet you and well organized beautiful experience.
Shilpa Deshmukh
Excellent is the word!!
Sumegha Shanbhag
Love you Naran and waiting for next workshop to happen soon…. love to meet all you friends!
Lupe Soto
Hi Naran, please remember your foreign students. Many of us would benefit from Skype or your wonderful audio recordings. Please let us know. This class would mean a lot to me. Thank you Naranji!
Irene D’Souza
Thank you Guruji for visiting Mumbai! It was wonderful sessions.
Deepa Prabhu
There was so much love in the room. By end of day two, people who were strangers and tense on day one morning were by end of day two relaxed smiling and sharing hugs!
Naran
Yes people were tensed on the first day. They expected a buttoned-up, taciturn Naran!!!