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I was married for 16 yrs and got 3 girls. Ours is a middle-class family. Mine was a love marriage
Initially, everything was very well. He took good care of me and family but for the past 6 yrs there’s a lot of change in his attitude and behavior.
He yelled at me and kids in front of everyone, treating us very badly.
Last month, he brought one lady home and told us that he’s going to marry her.
My girls and parents launched a police complaint and with the help of a police officer that marriage was stopped.
He did not want to divorce but want to lead a new life with that lady. I told him that I will not agree for that.
After this he stopped coming home and eating from home. He will come as and when he wished but will not eat anything.
He gives money for the home expenses. I want to lead a happy married life with him. I want him to be genuine and truthful to our family.
Recently, he started hatred towards me. Pls help me to change this and lead me a happy life.
Take the flower remedies CHICORY, HOLLY, and ASPEN.
Put each 5 pills in a glass of water and have small sips from that water, every one or two hours, from morning to evening.
In the night, take the flower remedies WHITE CHESTNUT and WALNUT before going to sleep, 5 pills each.
Chant “TOGETHER DIVINE”
A CHICORY person turns easily into HOLLY. Husband is the shadow-self of wife and hence, and therefore, his remedies are given to her.
Every day, she has to lead her life with the constant fear of what will happen, for which ASPEN will help.
To come out of persistent, constant worry: WHITE CHESTNUT and WALNUT
I follow my father’s footsteps: https://healbymindbodymessages.wordpress.com/2010/02/03/i-follow-my-father%E2%80%99s-footsteps/
Why a person is not married: https://healyourpastlife.wordpress.com/2013/01/16/why-a-person-is-not-married/
“PURUSHOTTAMA, BOOTHA BHAVANA, BHUTHESA DEVA DEVA JAGATHPATHE” – Arjuna praises Sri Krishna in these words.
It means, “O Purushottama! You are the one who gives life, and also the one who safe-guards life”.
The Mahabharata war is drawing to a close. Ahwattama has vowed to destroy the Pandava lineage. Uttara was bearing Abhimanyu’s child then.
As Ahwattama directs his Brahmaastra against her, Arjuna in return sends his Astra against Ahwattama.
Sage Vyasa intercedes and orders both of them to withdraw their Astras.
Arjuna obeys, but Ahwattama doesn’t, as he does not possess the knowledge of recalling the Brahmaastra.
As the time for the delivery of the child approaches, Sri Krishna stays with Uttara and puts a protective shield around her.
But, the Brahmaastra once activated will not deactivate without taking a life. So, despite all of the Lord’s efforts Uttara delivers a still-born child.
At that time, Sri Krishna sends a message to the Universe: “If I have never spoken an untrue word, if I have remained a Brahmachari (the One who abstains from sexual intercourse) all my life, then let the child become alive”.
And Uttara’s child was given life. He made true Arjuna’s description of Him as “Bootha Bhavana, Bhuthesa” – the giver and guard of life.
This mantra, “PURUSHOTTAMA, BOOTHA BHAVANA, BHUTHESA NAMO NAMAHA” can be chanted by pregnant women throughout their pregnancy period to avoid still-born and/or breech delivery, and for a well-developed foetus.
My husband is having an affair with another man.
We live in same house but separate room since 7 yrs. He’s not interested in me.
We have two children. I want him to leave the house and go far from us as I’m only 33 yrs old and I want to start a fresh life.
Pls help me as I’m so lonely and feel rejected. Help me brother! I want a way out!!
- Chant “RUBY, HOLLY, VINE”.
- Write these names also in a notebook daily 51 times.
To break the relationship with the husband: (Gem) Ruby.it gives the needed courage to start life independently.
To heal the rejected feeling and to re-align with the energy of love, HOLY and VINE will help, because the new life is to start with love in the heart.
Raji: I am married for 8 years. I have a daughter who is 7yrs old. When I became pregnant, I got separated from my husband.
Naran: Are you still separated?
Raji: No. We are living together for the last one year.
Naran: What is your problem since you had been together?
Raji: My husband is an alcoholic. Once in 3 or 4 days, he gets drunk as well as daily consuming Pan Parag (a tobacco product).
Naran: Since how long he has been an alcoholic?
Raji: According to my in laws he started drinking from his graduation days.
Naran: Explain his behavior after he gets drunk?
Raji: He will get angry at me and my daughter; will shout.
Naran: What does he shout about?
Raji: He will say, “Nobody respects me. There is no respect for me even in my own house. My daughter does not respect me. My friends, my employees, and my parents don’t respect me either. I will teach all of them a lesson”.
After the outburst, he will start weeping.
To be respected is the key word for ROCK WATER.
He is weeping. By losing control of himself, he weeps. Therefore, add CHERRY PLUM.
Rock Water will ultimately turn into either CHESTNUT BUD or VINE.
Naran: How is his behavior when he is not under the influence of alcohol?
Raji: His behavior is quite normal only. He shows his love for his daughter. In fact he sincerely made efforts for our reunion.
(Naran questioned further about her husband’s profession)
Naran: What is he doing?
Raji: He is running a Screen Printing unit. But it is not doing well.
Naran: How does he manage to pay his workers and take care of the family then?
Raji: He is honest in paying out the dues. Somehow, he will manage to pay the workers first, and then gives me money once a week.
Honesty – ROCK WATER
When one tries to be honest, in spite of adverse circumstances, self-control is employed to the maximum in one area.
He is so self-controlled in the area of finance that he loses self-control in some other area. Thus when he drinks, he loses his control and starts weeping.
Naran: Suppose if he can’t pay his dues, then how does he manage?
Raji: Naran, one more thing, I have forgotten to tell you. Every month before paying the rent, he would abscond.
Raji: He cannot pay the house rent by first of every month. Therefore, he feels ashamed to meet the house owner. So he would not stay in the house during the first week of the month.
Instead, he would stay with his parents for 4 or 5 days, arrange for the money, and will return back home after paying the rent. He has been doing this for a long time. Though, he would never cheat anybody.
Honest and at the same time an escapist. This is the case of a ROCK WATER person turning into CHESTNUT BUD character. On the due date, he would abscond (Chestnut Bud).
Key Words for Rock Water
To be respected: Ego and pride; self control, honesty.
Self controlled, honest person expects self respect. As a principle, he would never cheat.
Here the husband doesn’t get respect. His ego is hurt when he is insulted. He loses his control when he drinks.
One more interesting point is Rock Water father will face a Cherry Plum daughter.
ROCK WATER, CHERRY PLUM, CHESTNUT BUD and WALNUT (to break the habit)
Put the combination in the common drinking water, so that everybody will get the healing effect.
Feedback after 15 days
Raji: From the second day onwards, he stopped Pan Parag, and after a week he has stopped drinking.
During the examination, a student makes silly and careless mistakes. Probably due to lack of time, he is writing answers without any thinking.
While going through the question paper, he may find a question, for which he doesn’t know the answer.
He will become restless suddenly and will start writing the exam hastily. So his answers will tend to be wrong.
He may also go into a negative HORNBEAM state. Starting problem leads to mental weariness.
Immediately a crisis of confidence may occur – ELM.
A sudden regression may lead to sudden loss of memory – state of GENTIAN, and nothing seems to be remembered.
To avoid all these possible negative states in the examination hall, one can take the following flower remedies:
- Impatiens: not to do anything in a hurry
- Hornbeam: overcome mental weariness
- Elm: overcome any sudden crisis of confidence
- Gentian: prevents any regression and
- Wild Rose: when you try to speed up doing something, your mind has to be calm. Wild rose gives that to you and will liven up your enthusiasm throughout the examination. Also, you will have plenty of time to complete the exam!
Impatiens Discussion with Naran: http://reachnaran.com/impatiens-discussion-with-naran/
Deserve A Better Life Through Reiki: http://healbyreiki.wordpress.com/2009/08/09/deserve-a-better-life-through-reiki/
God gives us messages through nature. Every day god is with us and sends messages continuously. When you get the messages, don’t consider the whole line, but consider the words.
Condition the mind by thinking about god, read stories, and meditate. They will make you realize that god is everything.
Listen dispassionately without judgment for example in a busy place like a railway station. Watch what is happening around you and listen.
Maintain a journal and then after a week all the messages will make sense to you.
Art of reading divine messages: http://findlifeanswers.wordpress.com/2013/03/15/art-of-reading-divine-messages/
Handful of messages from our body: http://healbymindbodymessages.wordpress.com/2011/09/29/handful-of-messages-from-our-body/
Messages from Animal Spirit Guides: http://reachnaran.com/messages-from-animal-spirit-guides/
Letting GO is the Nature of LIFE
When you look at the whole world you will understand we only are holding on to mind.
What is the opposite of letting go? “Holding on to” is the opposite word. Holding will restrict us. Letting go expands us.
By letting go you are discharging from yourself what is not required by you, like Water putting out the Fire. Body and Nature Follows this rule 100%.
Watch the body. What it does?
Whatever is inhaled, lungs have to exhale out. Lungs cannot keep the air even for one second.
Heart – what does it do? It takes in blood and sends it out immediately. Blood enters the heart through Auricles and let out through Ventricles.
Whatever you take in, has to be let it out. It is the natural process of the body.
Lungs contract to let go, kidneys contract to let go urine, intestines peristaltically (downward movement) contract to let go the faeces and skin lets go by sweat.
The mouth lets go whatever you eat to the stomach. Stomach lets it go to the intestine. Intestine and kidneys let go as excretion.
Morning lets go to the noon, the noon lets go and becomes afternoon. Afternoon lets go and become the evening, and then evening to night. Each and every second gives way to the next.
Let go before taking the action. Then let go the emotions and thoughts attached to results.
Ask the questions:
- What do you expect to achieve?
- What is the driver desire or wanting behind each emotion and thought?
- Wanting to control or change?
- Wanting appreciation, recognition? (Desire for Approval)
- Wanting more security? (fearful)
With this technique, you are not prevented from doing anything. Let go emotions as well as thoughts, and then Act.
“You are only entitled to Act. Don’t think about the result while doing” – says Lord Krishna in Bhagavat Gita.
The theory, we propose here is a new dimension to Bhagavat Gita and a new understanding of the Gita.
Read the 2nd part of the article here: http://reachnaran.com/program-your-life-part-ii/
I am Helpless and Living In Hell! How can I create my world?
As long as I believe that I and My Mind are one and the same, and accepting whatever mind creates, my life is helpless and hell.
As long as I am not aware that I can RECREATE or REPROGRAM my life, I lose all the power.
Not knowing that I can reprogram my mind and life is ignorance.
Our mind is full of emotions, thoughts, and reactions. As long as they alone make up our mind, we don’t have any choice but to live our lives without any power.
When there is awareness, when we come to know that we are not our mind, a new POWER surges in.
We will be able to RECREATE our own world to an extent with this little awareness. We can then become POWERFUL and take our lives into our own hands.
Releasing is a self-empowering tool, which changes our outlook about our lives.
What is this technique all about?
It is simply a process of letting go and releasing the emotions and thoughts as and when they arise.
How to implement it?
It is very simple. Whenever we tend to react, just say, “I let go this feeling”.
E.g., “Fear, can you please go? This is not the time for you. For the time being please go out. This is not your place either.”
See what happens. The mind becomes baffled and the emotion flees.
Do not react, but release and act
Reactions destroy our peace of mind. Once our uncontrollable emotions and thoughts are let off, we will find a peace deep inside us.
Releasing is a technique for allowing us to change on the spot.
Releasing allows us to handle any problem by releasing and letting go and thus stops the inner mental struggle.
Reactions intensify the mental struggle. Releasing gives us a new outlook. Reactions repeat the same drama.
Create a new healthy body: http://reachnaran.com/create-a-new-healthy-body/
My married life is like living in a hostel: http://reachnaran.com/my-married-life-is-like-living-in-a-hostel/
Positive vs. Negative thoughts: http://healbyrule.wordpress.com/2013/07/08/positive-vs-negative-thoughts/
Naran S Balakumar
Healing connection with Paramacharya
Last weekend, I was cleaning my attic.
I happened to find the photograph of Paramacharya Chandrashekarendra Saraswati. It showed his devotees doing Kanaga Abhishekam on him. It is a prayer to seek wealth and welfare.
The photo was kept unclean. So, I felt bad and send Reiki to Paramacharya using the Silver Triangle as a sign of apology and prayer.
I didn’t know what the message is for me here, because I believe strongly that divine gives us messages and guidance through many forms.
So, I simply prayed to Paramacharya, seeking whatever healing required by me, my family, and my patients.
Connection between the lost child and her parents
Only last month, I read an article about him in a Tamil Newspaper.
The story goes like this.
An old couple approached Paramacharya. They were childless and wanted to do something back to the society – either in the form of taking care of expenses of some poor girl (as marriage expenses are taken care of by the brides’ family in this part of the world) or adopt a child.
Therefore, they sought his guidance.
Paramacharya asked them to contact the poor family waiting to meet him outside his abode.
The old couple had a daughter who was about to get married and were looking for some financial help to get their daughter married.
When enquired about their daughter, the daughter’s father told the old couple that they found the girl in a railway station about 15 years back.
What was surprising was that the girl was nothing but the daughter of the old couple themselves. The man is her father and the lady was her step-mother.
It is his daughter from his first marriage.
After, his first wife passed away, he married his current wife. On her insistence, he left the daughter in a railway station that is far away from their home, so that she will be lost from their lives.
And, he never had a child through his second marriage.
The girl was picked up by the poor couple, who were childless themselves and took care of her from then.
How Paramacharya did know this? Nobody knew that fact. But, somehow he connected the abandoned daughter with her legal parents.
Connection with right gynecologist
Kala was about to have her second child. She has major complications and couldn’t find a solution to fix them.
Unfortunately, each doctor she consulted had given her different warnings, which confused her further. So she was worried and said she had to meet me immediately.
The time she came to see me, a couple was waiting for me to consult me for the first time.
When I found out that the lady is gynecologist, I asked her to help Kala. The doctor obliged to see Kala immediately and gave the right consultation that was the need for the hour.
The doctor refused to take any money as she felt that only divine has made her to come to my clinic and meet Kala. I insisted that she take 200 rupees as a token of energy exchange.
However, I told her to keep it with her and not spend it, as I have understood the message from divine – here Paramacharya, that divine is offering to the doctor, a gift of wealth and welfare in the form of 200 rupees.
What is the connection with Reiki past healing and Saints?
Whenever you want to seek the guidance and blessings of Saints and Sages, or Gods for that matter, you put them in the altar in the form of silver triangle and do your prayers by drawing Reiki symbols.
You will be able to receive their grace and rays of love from them.
While doing the prayer, make an affirmation, “I OPEN to GRACE and RAYS of LIGHT and LOVE of …. (NAME of the SAINT)”
Definition of Pink Slip: A notice of dismissal from employment.
Mrs. AR, March 5
I am in a great problem. From 1999 my husband’s job is not permanent, one way or the other he has to quit his job.
Now my financial position is very tight since there was no salary for the past four months and he is searching for the job.
Kindly suggest me a remedy to get a job and for my financial position.
Chant “ELM, MUSTARD, PINK TOURMALINE, COUNT NOW” as many times as possible, and whenever you can.
Mrs. AR, March 20
Namaste! My husband got a good job according to your guidance.
The gem remedy Pink tourmaline is definitely for abundance. Pink Tourmaline stabilizes the Mooladhara Chakra – the Chakra that gives us stability in our life
Elm and Mustard are Bach Flower Remedies, used as switch words here.
To handle the overwhelming situation: Elm
Finding to solution to the money problems (they are in the dark): Mustard
To find money now: Count, Now