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Manage a negative-minded spouse

MONI

My brother has lost all hope as his wife is not co-operative, negative-minded, and selfish, blaming personally and never satisfied how much you do for her.

Tell some remedy or mantra for my brother so that he can handle the situation. My brother just wants to give divorce to his wife.

It’s really difficult for him to control the situation as she blames him for everything but then when he asks her for divorce, she doesn’t want to give to him.

Naran

Ask your brother to take flower remedies CHICORY, CRAB APPLE and CHERRY PLUM, 2 pills of each, one after the other, three times a day. He has to keep himself cool.

Ask him to chant “TOGETHER DIVINE”.

Explanation

To remain calm and composed: Cherry Plum

To get the problem out of one’s life: Crab Apple.

The wife does not want the husband; at the same time denying to get separated from him: Chicory

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How to maintain your level of intimacy: https://togetherrelationship.wordpress.com/2013/07/22/how-to-maintain-your-level-of-intimacy/

Say a hard no: https://healbybachflowers.wordpress.com/2009/03/28/learn-to-say-%E2%80%98no%E2%80%99-to-loans/

Within the Budget

Naran

MIMULUS is a good remedy to handle your expenses within a budget.

Any auto driver will only demand exact fare, thanks to Mimulus, as getting an auto driver to agree for a right fare is a nightmare these days, especially during the nights!

You are performing a function. You will complete the function within the specified budget, if you take MIMULUS.

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https://healbybachflowers.wordpress.com/2009/11/01/dancing-to-the-tune-of-the-dance-teacher/

Find a House within Your budget:

https://healbyswitchword.wordpress.com/2012/07/30/find-a-house-within-your-budget/

Create positives out of a situation

Naran

Let us see an example

“My husband is not good. He is irritating too”, says the wife.

She is blaming her husband here.

If she has to handle this situation, then what resource (quality) she needs to handle it?

Does she needs to be courageous, be more loving and caring, or be bold?

When there is a problem, you need to ask yourself, “What one resource will enrich me and will help me to handle this life situation”.

This way you are healing yourself. Instead, if some person is angry and you also get angry, then you are gone.

So what do we need here?

People would say she needs patience and tolerance.

What’s patience?

Patience is the quality or ability to withstand a situation without getting angry or upset.

If that’s the case, then the Bach Flower IMPATIENS is the remedy. Impatiens will create patience inside you.

You need tolerance also. BEECH is the remedy for it.

Beech and Impatiens go together in cultivating tolerance and patience.

Developing a Life Strategy

Quality of patience, without getting upset or angry about the other person, is waiting inside us, waiting for the right opportunity.

We all need it. If I have it, then I will be striking at the right moment. It’s a Life Strategy.

If we have this quality, we will have more consideration and caring for other people. To develop this strategy, take the flower remedy IMPATIENS.

If I cultivate patience and tolerance (Beech and Impatiens), then I will become more considerate.

Consideration means, there is more love and affection for other person. Then we will become accommodative.

To be more caring, after being considerate, HOLLY is the remedy.

Related Posts

Audit your thoughts:

 https://healbyrule.wordpress.com/2013/09/19/audit-your-thoughts/

The Universal Lover:

 https://theflowerangels.wordpress.com/2013/09/05/the-universal-lover/

Say Yes For No

Naran

Sheela was doing business with a company. They owe her 4.5 lakhs. She made a commitment to her supplier based on that.

But as the customer didn’t give the money, she couldn’t meet her supplier and therefore she was afraid to see him.

“I am afraid” she said, being afraid of the supplier: MIMULUS was given.

After one week she opened up. “All of my problems are due to my inability to say no”. I gave her CENTAURY.

After ten days, she met me again and said that her sister is the root cause of all the problems. Therefore, she took WILLOW for blaming others for her life situation.

She got payment from her customer soon afterwards.

Here we could have analyzed how to handle non-payment of dues owed to you. It will not work here.

Find out what’s the expression of the patient? Treat it. Heal it. Solution will appear automatically.

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Don’t be Sympathetic Be Empathetic: https://healbyreiki.wordpress.com/2010/07/19/don%E2%80%99t-be-sympathetic-be-empathetic/

Don’t let others use your goodwill: https://healbyreiki.wordpress.com/2011/02/22/don%E2%80%99t-let-others-use-your-goodwill/

Wolf Saved My Life

Aaditya Shah

My destiny changed on an Ekadashi day when I searched for Narayan in Google. I happen to come across www.naranonline.wordpress.com.

Being interested in healing right from childhood, I quickly realized that I was indeed guided by Lord Narayan to this site.

Being a complete newbie, I quickly started to read more and more blogs on the site about how Bach flowers work.

One day while scanning through blogs, I happen to come across the animal spirit section. I should be honest enough to accept that I was skeptical at first.

I mean “How can merely by calling upon Wolf can one receive help?” But then I had really developed respect for Naran even though I never met him.

So, I did give it a try with the mindset that “What’s the harm in trying”.

Ever since then I have never looked back. I have improved all the areas of my life significantly by developing a true friendship with Wolf.

Be it my education, money, relationship, even the smallest of my dreams I have seen coming true by merely calling upon Wolf.

Here I would like to make a point that at times my wish didn’t come true as well but when I later analyzed situations I realized they all were for my highest good.

I mean we humans are really sometimes foolish – we don’t even know what to ask for.

How to handle people who are angry?

Naran

If someone is angry against you, the FIRE element is more inside you.

To pacify it, you have to react in a different way. If you activate WATER and EARTH elements, then you will become patient and relaxed.

The PRAN MUDRA – little and ring fingers touching the tip on both the hands, will activate your earth and water elements.

When such an unusual response is given – instead of reacting with other person angrily, you treat him in a peaceful manner, then the opposite person don’t have a choice but to react in a different way.

We can also reduce our Anger.

 

Reduce Your Pain

V

My husband is having severe pain in left leg (thigh), since last 3 days and its increasing day by day.

Naran

Chant “CALM BEAR DIVINE GLORY” over a glass of water and give him.

Explanation

The switch words will help one to CALMLY BEAR the pain, thanks to the DIVINE and heal the attention, you needed (GLORY).

Related Post

You can handle all your pains: http://reachnaran.com/you-can-handle-all-your-pains/

Cannot support my parents: https://healbymindbodymessages.wordpress.com/2013/07/15/cannot-support-my-parents/

Why and How to Release Emotions and Expectations

Based on discussion with Naran

Financial worries and other such stuff takes up our mind. So we become a 24/7 worrier. Our energy stuck up in our heads and faces.

The Switch Word CANCEL removes this thought pattern, just like the Bach Flower Remedy WHITE CHESTNUT or better WWC (WHITE CHESTNUT, WALNUT and CRAB APPLE).

When you RELEASE or CANCEL the thought pattern associated with our goal and desires, then the desire manifests for the good of everybody concerned in the manner you require.

We need to RELEASE our past – the unwanted luggage that we are carrying.

We had to RELEASE our anger against others and the associated expectations about them.

Let us say you are about to leave for an opportunity abroad. Immediately your mind starts dreaming, expecting things and making lots of plans. Thus, you go into a CLEMATIS state.

This interferes with the flow of things, stopping them happening in the right way, and sometimes disrupting the situation.

Therefore, we have to RELEASE our dreams and expectations.

If we take (Bach Flower Remedy) CLEMATIS, we stay in here and now, enjoying the present. This helps us to handle the future better.

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Double Bubble: http://marriagemantri.wordpress.com/2013/10/31/double-bubble/

Faith can RELEASE Mountains: http://healyourpastlife.wordpress.com/2013/08/03/faith-can-release-mountains/

Patience alone can help us

Simran

If he shows anger on me, according to him, I should behave like a matured wife. I should behave same as in normal condition, in a polite way.

He loves me through my politeness. These are his expectations.

Can I change myself through this way, because if he becomes angry I can’t handle him politely?

At that time, I feel bad why he should get angry on me. And I don’t like his bad behavior either.

However, if by changing my behavior, my relationship takes a good way, then I am ready to become polite.

Naran

When he gets angry, be in the SAFE and SECURE MUDRA and chant “CHERRY PLUM, IMPATIENS”.

Our endurance and patience only can help us.

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Patience is the key: http://joboneoone.wordpress.com/2013/11/26/patience-is-the-key/

Your spouse is possessive: http://praisedivinelife.wordpress.com/2014/01/28/your-spouse-is-possessive/

Clear Medical Exam for Permanent Residency

Shilaben

One of my parents has to clear the medical exam to get permanent residence (PR) in Canada.

Naran

Write “WATER VIOLET, LARCH, GENTIAN, WILD ROSE, MIMULUS” in a paper and ask them to keep it.

You can chant for them too.

Explanation

The standard Bach Flower combination for any type of interview is WATER VIOLET, LARCH, GENTIAN and WILD ROSE, to face the interview members and reply confidently.

The remedy MIMULUS is included to handle the fear associated with getting the permanent residency.

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