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Need to own a home

Mary

Need a switch word for my daughter and her boyfriend.

They need a home of their own. She is living with me and her boyfriend is living with his parents. But, they just need a home of their own.

They have looked at one specific flat, but the landlord has said that there are some other couples that are interested.

Is there a Switch Word for helping them getting this flat or anyone else?

Naran

Chant, “CERATO, MIMULUS, FIND DIVINE House”

Mary

Just would like to tell you that I have been chanting the words you gave me. And yesterday they had signed the paper for the flat!

I started chanting it. But yesterday I even put RELEASE RESISTANCE before it and it did helped. Big, big thanks to you.

Explanation

Searching for a house to suit their needs: CERATO (Bach Flower)

That’s within their budget: MIMULUS (Bach Flower)

To release any resistance within oneself to achieve their goal or objective: RELEASE RESISTANCE

Related Posts

“RELEASE your RESISTANCE” CD: https://naranhealingproducts.wordpress.com/2013/04/10/release-your-resistance-cd/

Buying and Selling Property: https://healbymeditation.wordpress.com/2012/10/18/buying-and-selling-property/

How to use Switch Words: https://healbyswitchword.wordpress.com/2011/10/20/how-to-use-switch-words/

Basic Thing to Improve a Relationship

Is forgiving the concerned person(s)…

Mona

My problem is my love relationship.

I am in a relationship for the past 3 years. From the beginning only we use to fight a lot but there is immense love and care also for each other.

But, few months ago he said that his family is not accepting our relationship due to inter-caste issues.

He is also fed up of my suspicious and fighting nature. In addition, he is not ready for commitment.

We tried to end up this relationship, yet still we are in talking terms.

Taking help from your blog, I started writing the affirmation, “TOGETHER I thank the divine for getting me <his name> as a life partner NOW DONE” for 21 times daily along with writing 58 for 58 times.

Also, I’m continuously chanting, “CONCEDE CLEAR CENTRE FIND DIVINE <his name> PARTNER HOLE”.

I have also kept the power symbol 47 and 66 with me.

But nothing is helping. Neither things are improving nor are they ending completely.

At times, I feel like its divine wish that we should stay together that’s why in spite of deciding to part our ways, somehow we are still in terms.

Pls help me out of this situation – either things should improve or end up completely by divine grace.

Naran

Do the forgiving exercise for him.

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Love thy neighbours even if they are a nuisance: http://reachnaran.com/love-thy-neighbours-even-if-they-are-a-nuisance/

How to deal with negative energy: http://reachnaran.com/how-to-deal-with-negative-energy/

Children are intelligent than their parents

Sree

Whenever I sit to do mudras before sleeping, my daughter too sits with me but does only Thumb with little and ring fingers (Safe and Secure Mudra).

If I request her to do chin mudra she says no and leaves me. So, I stopped interfering in her meditation techniques. Why is she not doing chin mudra?

She sings with me Namashivayam for 5 times, rhythm with or without CD. Durgama also she sings along with the CD if she is awake by then as I play it by 5.30 am.

I can see the changes in her (touch wood). She listens to me, and obeys me when I request her.

She is completing her homework soon. I allow her to watch cartoon only for 45 minutes and she is okay with it. I am happy with her. I did the accepting exercise for her.

Whenever I try to heal her Solar Plexus and Hara chakras she pulls my hand tightly to her body strongly. Do I need to give more time to heal these chakras?

I am also using harmony pack. I can see the difference.

My husband who used to get irritated for helping me in my daughter’s dressing for school, is now helping me, without me asking or requesting.

The left out harmony water I am pouring to Tulasi plant as we don’t have any other plant. And I can see the plant is healthy and growing tall and fresh.

Thank you, it’s all because of your remedies and your blessing.

Explanation

Chin Mudra will keep us awake, while Safe and Secure Mudra will make us have a deep sleep.

Children are intuitive enough to know where they need energy. So she is forcing the mother to give Reiki to those areas.

Related Posts

Finding Peace and Harmony at home: http://healbyanimalspirits.wordpress.com/2011/12/29/finding-peace-and-harmony-at-home/

Prayers to ancestors heals the child: http://healyourpastlife.wordpress.com/2013/01/30/prayers-to-ancestors-heals-the-child/

Got tenants

Grace

I am looking to rent a room in my hope to a good natured, respectful, temporary tenant.

I want to ensure I do not have any issues with the building owner nor with the person I select. I want the person to pay on time and to leave at the end of the agreement.

I am seeing so many improvements in my life thanks to you. The helping hand of wolf is endless.

Naran

Chant “AGRIMONY, SLOW CARE, TOGETHER DIVINE”

Grace

I got the tenants. Thank you.

Explanation

Not to be disturbed in anyway and live peacefully: AGRIMONY, the Bach Flower Remedy

The combination SLOW CARE TOGETHER DIVINE is one of the best switch word combination I have come across. It is an all-round mantra that will help you to lead a happy and harmonious life.

Hit the Bully’s Eye

GP

Thank you so much for suggesting me to chant cat’s eye, which I did as you advised me to do. Sure enough, teachers confronted the bully and disciplinary action is being taken.

The bully wrote an apology letter to my grandson. The school authorities said this will not be tolerated in the school.

Thank you so much for helping. I don’t know what cat’s eye means. God Bless you a thousand times.  You solved our problem.

Naran

Cat’s eye – gem remedy is the key to open “the locked”.                                                

The mind is blocked when a person is bullied by somebody and he or she don’t know what to do about the situation.

His mind will be locked about this particular situation and will not think about anything else. Therefore, CAT’S EYE helps the bullied.

Life situations where Walnut is helpful

Naran

When I go to a person for request: (Bach Flower Remedies) BEECH and WALNUT

To make person easily approachable: WALNUT and WATER VIOLET

Uphill task: WALNUT and HORNBEAM

To begin: WALNUT is like ‘PILLAYAR SULI” (a symbol in Tamil that invokes the blessings of Lord Ganesha – the remover of obstacles)

To end: WALNUT because beginning is end of something else.

To begin communication, to re-establish communication and I don’t know how to start the communication: WALNUT

Sharing the ancestral property: WALNUT

When one withholds info, as in a therapy: AGRIMONY and WALNUT

Work is not challenging: WALNUT

Puberty: WALNUT

To come out of too much of TV watching and speaking on mobile phones, or any other form of addiction: WALNUT, SCLERANTHUS

WALNUT protects our boundaries

First marriage ended in a divorce, not to attract the same type of person in the second marriage: WALNUT

I feel rejected: CHICORY, WALNUT

I am easily offended (highly sensitive): CHICORY, HOLLY, and WALNUT

The antonym of attraction is Resistance – resistance means to fight against or refrain from temptation. To refrain from any temptation: WALNUT and CHERRY PLUM

When the child revolts and throw temper tantrums: CHICORY, HOLLY and WALNUT

When completion is not happening in any work, for example not completing the book you promised to write and it’s half-done: WALNUT, OAK and HORNBEAM

Defense against a verbal attack – WALNUT, PINE (when you are constantly criticized) – for example, due a strict father his son is afraid.

The antonym of attraction is Hindrance. Therefore, to give/get a helping hand: WALNUT (it works like Wolf animal spirit).

When there is Delay, Obstruction, and Resistance: WALNUT.

When somebody prevents (hinders) promotion: WILLOW and WALNUT (“if he wants, he can help but he didn’t or he spoiled it”)

All of us worried about Saturn (7.5 years itch): WALNUT

He is afraid he will fail in the exam (transition from one class to another), Interview or reapplying for a new passport: WALNUT

When others are unreasonable: WILLOW, WALNUT

When anybody is merciless: WALNUT

When a person is avoiding you: ROCK WATER, CHESTNUT BUD and WALNUT

Reconciling to the situation: WALNUT

For a caring, co-operative, friendly, generous, helpful, kind atmosphere: WALNUT

Any stiffness: WALNUT, ROCK WATER. When the atmosphere is tensed, when there is tension, WALNUT is the remedy.

Walnut is the remedy for relaxation. Antonyms for stiff are easy and relax. For relaxation – WALNUT

If you are uncomfortable to attend a VIP’s marriage: WALNUT, WATER VIOLET and LARCH (you will be treated well)

If anyone is possessive, selfish, greedy, demanding, stingy: CHICORY, WALNUT

To stop the bleeding: RESCUE REMEDY, WALNUT

Want to hurry up: IMPATIENS and WALNUT – then the program may not start on time

Children during teenage — not to be influenced by peers and friends – WALNUT protects the child

The child will cry, whenever parents criticize: RESCUE REMEDY and WALNUT (it will find balance and protect self).

Due to constant criticism a child will become HEATHER. To prevent that from happening in the future, Walnut is the remedy.

Walnut tree is big.  When the flower blooms its smell is so strong, insects and other flies will keep away. So it can protect the self.

Allergic to smell – (gem remedy) YELLOW SAPPHIRE and WALNUT

Give the remedies always separately.

In Nutshell

The goal of Walnut’s healing is to have constancy and stability in one’s life!!!

Life situations where Walnut is helpful

Naran

When I go to a person for request: (Bach Flower Remedies) BEECH and WALNUT

To make person easily approachable: WALNUT and WATER VIOLET

Uphill task: WALNUT and HORNBEAM

To begin: WALNUT is like ‘PILLAYAR SULI” (a symbol in Tamil that invokes the blessings of Lord Ganesha – the remover of obstacles)

To end: WALNUT because beginning is end of something else.

To begin communication, to re-establish communication and I don’t know how to start the communication: WALNUT

Sharing the ancestral property: WALNUT

When one withholds info, as in a therapy: AGRIMONY and WALNUT

Work is not challenging: WALNUT

Puberty: WALNUT

To come out of too much of TV watching and speaking on mobile phones, or any other form of addiction: WALNUT, SCLERANTHUS

WALNUT protects our boundaries

First marriage ended in a divorce, not to attract the same type of person in the second marriage: WALNUT

I feel rejected: CHICORY, WALNUT

I am easily offended (highly sensitive): CHICORY, HOLLY, and WALNUT

The antonym of attraction is Resistance – resistance means to fight against or refrain from temptation. To refrain from any temptation: WALNUT and CHERRY PLUM

When the child revolts and throw temper tantrums: CHICORY, HOLLY and WALNUT

When completion is not happening in any work, for example not completing the book you promised to write and it’s half-done: WALNUT, OAK and HORNBEAM

Defense against a verbal attack – WALNUT, PINE (when you are constantly criticized) – for example, due a strict father his son is afraid.

The antonym of attraction is Hindrance. Therefore, to give/get a helping hand: WALNUT (it works like Wolf animal spirit). When there is Delay, Obstruction, and Resistance: WALNUT. When somebody prevents (hinders) promotion: WILLOW and WALNUT (“if he wants, he can help but he didn’t or he spoiled it”)

All of us worried about Saturn (7.5 years itch): WALNUT

He is afraid he will fail in the exam (transition from one class to another), Interview or reapplying for a new passport: WALNUT

When others are unreasonable: WILLOW, WALNUT

When anybody is merciless: WALNUT

When a person is avoiding you: ROCK WATER, CHESTNUT BUD and WALNUT

Reconciling to the situation: WALNUT

For a caring, co-operative, friendly, generous, helpful, kind atmosphere: WALNUT

Any stiffness: WALNUT, ROCK WATER. When the atmosphere is tensed, when there is tension, WALNUT is the remedy. Walnut is the remedy for relaxation. Antonyms for stiff are easy and relax. For relaxation – WALNUT

If you are uncomfortable to attend a VIP’s marriage: WALNUT, WATER VIOLET and LARCH (you will be treated well)

If anyone is possessive, selfish, greedy, demanding, stingy: CHICORY, WALNUT

To stop the bleeding: RESCUE REMEDY, WALNUT

Want to hurry up: IMPATIENS and WALNUT – then the program may not start on time

Children during teenage — not to be influenced by peers and friends – WALNUT protects the child

The child will cry, whenever parents criticize: RESCUE REMEDY and WALNUT (it will find balance and protect self). Due to constant criticism a child will become HEATHER. To prevent that from happening in the future, Walnut is the remedy. Walnut tree is big.  When the flower blooms its smell is so strong, insects and other flies will keep away. So it can protect the self.

Allergic to smell – (gem remedy) YELLOW SAPPHIRE and WALNUT

Give the remedies always separately.

In Nutshell

The goal of Walnut’s healing is to have constancy and stability in one’s life!!!

Resentment is a seed don’t feed it

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Savitri

I am tired of looking after my daughter, who is giving birth to her third child. Currently they are staying in Mumbai.

I am tired of travelling too, from Chennai to Mumbai as well as doing the baby-sitting stuff.

Naran

Tell me in which part of your life you have looked after somebody in the same way you are looking after your daughter now.  They may be your cousins or friends.

Savitri

You won’t believe it, if I tell you that I had done the same for my mother. I looked after her when she gave birth to my younger brother after nineteen long years (after my birth).

My parents wanted to have a son. I resented it.

I also didn’t like to take care of my mother’s pregnancy too.

Naran

No doubt your frustration continues.

When we don’t heal ourselves regarding a life-situation then the same situation will happen in the future too and you will go through the same feelings and thoughts.

Savitri

Are you saying that I will be helping my grand-daughter too, when she gets pregnant? No way. I don’t think I will be living until then.

Naran

Not necessarily.

You may go through the same experience in your next lifetime(s) also.

Or you might get caught in a situation in this life-time itself that is similar to this situation. And you will end-up feeling the same.

So, I would advise you to heal all your incidents related to pregnancy, including yours and some other incidents where you had felt in the same way as you are feeling now.

Related Blogs

How and why we need to forgive others: http://reachnaran.com/how-and-why-we-need-to-forgive-others/

The Mother’s Care: http://reachnaran.com/the-mothers-care/

Profit after Loss: http://reachnaran.com/profit-after-loss/

Common solution to the housing problem

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Gayathri

This is a general question which I think will be benefited to all. Gone through your site – all mantras, remedies are fantastic. Main thing I noted is shelter problem.

Real estate is in peak today and due to this house rent/land rate is too high which affects lower and middle classes. Living in rent in a decent area or purchasing flat and house – everything is a difficult for them.

Hence, my humble request is to suggest remedies/mantras to peak down I.e. nominal value for land and so that all will be benefitted.

Naran

Don’t go by general interpretation of anything. Each one is unique. Each problem is unique. There may be similar problems but not same.

The problem in general is high rent, peak of land or house price. But each individual, undergoing this problem will react in different ways:

“It is the world of cheats. This is a bad phase in my life”.

“I am destined to suffer”

“Prices will never come down. We can never have a peaceful life”

“I feel like bursting out”.

“Everything is going beyond limits”

“What can we do? We have to accept and move on.”

“Something may happen. Prices will come down”

“God is not helping the poor. He is by the side of the rich only”

Each will be in a different state of mind. Each will react differently and approach the problem differently. Therefore it is not good to suggest a common solution to all.

In the above situation, what is the one general advice that can be given?

One has to bear, with fortitude and courage to face any situation. If this mentality is developed and or if one is in this state of mind, things will improve.

How to cultivate this or develop this state? How to transform one’s mental state into this?

Flowers are the answer. There are four (Bach) flowers that can help anybody in the above situation:

  1. CHERRY PLUM (to bear, and endure so that our limit to earn is enhanced)
  2. ROCK ROSE (to develop fortitude -never-say-die spirit; if this is developed help will come instantly)
  3. GORSE not to lose hope at any time
  4. WILD ROSE to get motivated to move on in life

Flowers are divine. Flowers are our teachers. Life is always a learning process. We are always students.

Related Blogs

Got the Housing Loan: http://healbybachflowers.wordpress.com/2012/10/11/got-the-housing-loan/

How to own a house: http://finddivinehome.wordpress.com/2013/07/25/buying-a-house/

We are about to own a house: http://healbymeditation.wordpress.com/2013/08/22/we-are-about-to-own-a-house/

Vine

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Naran

The Bach Flower Remedy Vine

Key words

Dominating, Ruthless, Ambitious, Totally Arrogant

Message

If you don’t know how to be a servant, you will always be bossed over

Indications

  • A Vine boss would claim, “I have absolute control over my staff”.
  • You ask some questions to your boss, about the institution you are working for. Your Vine Boss would reply, “Don’t ask me any questions. Do what I say”.
  • People become fearful, when they come.
  • Ruthlessly disregard others
  • Vine will have his way at any cost.
  • Ruthlessly disregards the opinion of others.
  • Everybody should dance to his tunes.
  • The Vine person is cruel, pitiless without conscience.  He will instil fear in others.
  • Can’t tolerate anyone contradicting him.
  • He beats others.
  • Vine father will develop fear in his child.  The means justifies the end.
  • When you find it difficult to obey others
  • A Vine child will not obey.

Vine says…

  • I am the ruler. You are the ruled.
  • I can question anybody in authority and shake them.
  • I impose my opinion on my children. My word is final for them.
  • I keep my employees on their toes.
  • I will accept what my superior say but with my subordinates, I impose my will.
  • Others say that I impose my will and go into rage when contradicted

Usage

  • For any crisis situations, as it gives you a good presence of mind and tremendous will power to handle the crisis. Of course, take it only when there is a crisis.
  • You are a man to be looked up to when there is a crisis, and a helping hand in crisis.
  • At work when you are promoted and asked to lead others à Vine + Walnut for a month.
  • To handle a dominant partner and in-laws, who squeeze too much of joy out of your life take à Centaury + Vine + Hornbeam. In these situations, you need to ask the questions: how to manage your life? How can you come out of this predicament? Whether you can come out? If you have the question how to initiate the process, then take à Cerato + Vine + Hornbeam + Centaury + Walnut.
  • To manage arrogant and adamant children à Cerato + Centaury + Vine + Hornbeam + Walnut
  • Your purpose in life is to lead others
  • To use your presence of mind.
  • Vine, Cherry Plum: I am becoming violent in my temper

Ailments

  • Multiple sclerosis – Vine. Patches of degeneration in the nerve cells of the brain and spinal cord.
  • Anorexia – Rock water + Vine
  • Sclerosis: (Sclerosis) the hardening of any part from the growth of fibrous tissues.
  • Athero astero sclerosis: the hardening of arteries (elasticity is lost)
  • Symptoms: disturbance of speech, vision and micturition and muscular weakness of limbs.
  • Might be affected by passive – aggressive personality disorder, disruptive behaviour, disorders, especially conduct disorders and anti – social disorders.
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