Posts tagged husband
I heard a lot about you from my friends.
I’m facing a lot of problems as I’m in love with a guy since past 8 years. He also loves me a lot.
My family has agreed regarding our marriage issues but his family is totally against it as our horoscopes are not matching as I have KAL SARP YOG in my horoscope.
What should I chant in order to remove all these obstacles and his family agrees?
As suggested by you, I am chanting (switching words) “CLIMB ADJUST TOGETHER CHANGE DIVINE” daily 200 times, for removing little fighting in between me and my would-be husband.
Just 25 days are left for our marriage but there is daily fight between us on phone. I want a loveable and harmonious relation between us.
We get normal after 2 days. I want that nobody can put finger on our fighting as ours is a love marriage.
I want these fights to far away from my both families so that there should be peace and love between us.
(For both Minee and Anu…the following answer)
Whether the horoscope matches or not, all the couples should understand each other, trust that both live to love each other, shed the ego which is the cause of all conflict, reach harmony somehow, praising each other instead of finding fault, and understanding to communicate after listening.
Chant “BOW PRAISE TOGETHER REACH DIVINE LOVE LISTEN BETWEEN” is the mantra for your happy married life.
I am really feeling glad for your response. Every answer and solution suggested by you really gives us message and lesson!
Thank you Naran!!
Marriage got fixed after a long period of waiting: https://healbymeditation.wordpress.com/2010/03/16/marriage-got-fixed-after-a-long-period-of-waiting/
Raining clouds: https://marriagemantri.wordpress.com/2013/08/27/raining-clouds/
My brother has lost all hope as his wife is not co-operative, negative-minded, and selfish, blaming personally and never satisfied how much you do for her.
Tell some remedy or mantra for my brother so that he can handle the situation. My brother just wants to give divorce to his wife.
It’s really difficult for him to control the situation as she blames him for everything but then when he asks her for divorce, she doesn’t want to give to him.
Ask your brother to take flower remedies CHICORY, CRAB APPLE and CHERRY PLUM, 2 pills of each, one after the other, three times a day. He has to keep himself cool.
Ask him to chant “TOGETHER DIVINE”.
To remain calm and composed: Cherry Plum
To get the problem out of one’s life: Crab Apple.
The wife does not want the husband; at the same time denying to get separated from him: Chicory
Love and Harmony in Marriage: http://marriageloveandharmony.blogspot.in/
How to maintain your level of intimacy: https://togetherrelationship.wordpress.com/2013/07/22/how-to-maintain-your-level-of-intimacy/
Thousands of EASELS (flying ant) swarmed the house of Sridhar, during a raining season. Interestingly, none of his neighbour had this problem.
Sridhar didn’t know what to do. He just said, “I AM SORRY PLEASE FORGIVE ME LOVE THANKS DIVINE” thinking about the flying ants.
Then he did the thanked (in advance) the flying ants for leaving.
Their numbers got reduced as days went by. Eventually there were none.
“I am sorry” mantra solutions: http://iamsorrymantra.blogspot.in/
No love from husband: https://divineshakthi.wordpress.com/2013/10/20/no-love-from-husband/
Bring miracle into your life: https://healbyswitchword.wordpress.com/2013/11/01/bring-miracle-into-your-life/
You want to sell something. You always come across people who bargain with you.
If you take AGRIMONY, whatever price you ask for, they will pay it.
You expect a quarrel during property distribution in the family. You do not want any quarrel or face conflicts.
If you don’t want any fights, then take AGRIMONY with you as Agrimony is a peacemaker.
My husband is a great fault-finder:
Accomplish your goals:
Let us see an example
“My husband is not good. He is irritating too”, says the wife.
She is blaming her husband here.
If she has to handle this situation, then what resource (quality) she needs to handle it?
Does she needs to be courageous, be more loving and caring, or be bold?
When there is a problem, you need to ask yourself, “What one resource will enrich me and will help me to handle this life situation”.
This way you are healing yourself. Instead, if some person is angry and you also get angry, then you are gone.
So what do we need here?
People would say she needs patience and tolerance.
Patience is the quality or ability to withstand a situation without getting angry or upset.
If that’s the case, then the Bach Flower IMPATIENS is the remedy. Impatiens will create patience inside you.
You need tolerance also. BEECH is the remedy for it.
Beech and Impatiens go together in cultivating tolerance and patience.
Developing a Life Strategy
Quality of patience, without getting upset or angry about the other person, is waiting inside us, waiting for the right opportunity.
We all need it. If I have it, then I will be striking at the right moment. It’s a Life Strategy.
If we have this quality, we will have more consideration and caring for other people. To develop this strategy, take the flower remedy IMPATIENS.
If I cultivate patience and tolerance (Beech and Impatiens), then I will become more considerate.
Consideration means, there is more love and affection for other person. Then we will become accommodative.
To be more caring, after being considerate, HOLLY is the remedy.
Audit your thoughts:
The Universal Lover:
I was married for 16 yrs and got 3 girls. Ours is a middle-class family. Mine was a love marriage
Initially, everything was very well. He took good care of me and family but for the past 6 yrs there’s a lot of change in his attitude and behavior.
He yelled at me and kids in front of everyone, treating us very badly.
Last month, he brought one lady home and told us that he’s going to marry her.
My girls and parents launched a police complaint and with the help of a police officer that marriage was stopped.
He did not want to divorce but want to lead a new life with that lady. I told him that I will not agree for that.
After this he stopped coming home and eating from home. He will come as and when he wished but will not eat anything.
He gives money for the home expenses. I want to lead a happy married life with him. I want him to be genuine and truthful to our family.
Recently, he started hatred towards me. Pls help me to change this and lead me a happy life.
Take the flower remedies CHICORY, HOLLY, and ASPEN.
Put each 5 pills in a glass of water and have small sips from that water, every one or two hours, from morning to evening.
In the night, take the flower remedies WHITE CHESTNUT and WALNUT before going to sleep, 5 pills each.
Chant “TOGETHER DIVINE”
A CHICORY person turns easily into HOLLY. Husband is the shadow-self of wife and hence, and therefore, his remedies are given to her.
Every day, she has to lead her life with the constant fear of what will happen, for which ASPEN will help.
To come out of persistent, constant worry: WHITE CHESTNUT and WALNUT
I follow my father’s footsteps: https://healbymindbodymessages.wordpress.com/2010/02/03/i-follow-my-father%E2%80%99s-footsteps/
Why a person is not married: https://healyourpastlife.wordpress.com/2013/01/16/why-a-person-is-not-married/
My husband is diagnosed with dengue.
Today is the 6th day and platelets have dropped below normal. His temperature is varying between 100 to 103. Tomorrow we are going to the hospital again, he may be hospitalized.
Please suggest me something for his speedy recovery. I’m very worried. It shouldn’t become very serious for him.
Chant “TOGETHER ADD platelets NOW” over a glass of water and give him. Chant as many times as possible.
Write his name in a paper and circle it. Draw one more concentric circle. In the gap between two circles, write “DENGUINUM 200”.
Thank you so much for your guidance.
Rajeev is recovering. His platelets are increasing. Doctor said he can resume to his normal work within 2 days. I’m very grateful to you.
DENGUINUM 200 is a homeopathic remedy. Here, it’s healing energy is invoked using circle technique.
Reduce my weakness: http://switchwords.wordpress.com/2013/10/03/reduce-my-weakness/
Platelet Count Improved: http://reachnaran.com/platelet-count-improved/
I am bit confused about predictions.
Your reply shows me the correct path – which says that one must not take predictions for granted but try to work on them to change our destiny.
Stop not trying.
When you think that “I cannot have this” or “I cannot have that” then you stagnate. Stagnation makes one rot.
Movement is the DIVINE ORDER. What is movement for us human beings?
Doing. Doing is Karma. Karmic is the result of Karma.
When you fully concentrate on the work on hand, not eyeing on the result, that productivity is a joy to experience. That joy only is Divine.
Don’t eye on what is going to happen. Our duty is to do. The result is the reward.
If your mind is fully on what you do, instead of the result, every result (the effect of karma or doing) is a REWARD!!
My husband has changed his behavior: https://healbyswitchword.wordpress.com/2012/06/20/my-husband-has-changed-his-behavior/
Affected by Vastu Doshas: https://finddivinehome.wordpress.com/2013/10/04/affected-by-vastu-doshas/
By nature I am very candid and not diplomatic.
Also, I am very open to negative feedback too, when someone is giving me a feedback – at home or at work.
However, at home (mine is a joint family), everyone dislikes me since I am very frank. Although, I am very efficient with house work and do not compromise on my duties.
One of my boss (I have 2 bosses) was very good to me and appreciated my work etc, until a while ago when I was frank in expressing some work-related issue.
Now one boss is still ok, since he knows that I am good at work and I am very frank – that is my nature.
Another boss is all angry with me and at every meeting makes sure that he puts me down or talks negatively when it comes to my work.
Can I chant something please, especially that both my husband and my boss should start appreciating me?
If you want to maintain your candidness, you can get these only.
You do not point out the mistake only. You point out the good points also. If you want to point the mistake then do it with love.
Others will criticize me: http://studyforsuccess.wordpress.com/2013/03/13/afraid-people-will-criticize-me/
I feel small, when he criticizes me: https://healbyrule.wordpress.com/2010/01/19/i-feel-small-when-he-criticizes-me-%E2%80%93-a-case-history/
Travel pack suggested by Naran is wonderful. Few months back my husband went to Delhi for training and as usual I was worried for his safety. I gave him travel pack.
In addition, I chanted “OM JOOM SAHA SAHA JOOM OM” 108 times as suggested in one of blogs.
He reached safely and on time!
On his return, he was in taxi and it was raining heavily on the way. So, I chanted “BEECH, ELM, IMPATIENS, MIMULUS”.
The driver did slow driving and journey was happy and safe.
“OM HREEM PADHMA NANDESHWARA HOOM” is also good mantra to chant during travel.
However, when I’m not able to chant mantras I chant “WOLF SAFE” and pray to Wolf as suggested by R Mohan to me once. Everything is amazing!!
Thanks to Naran and team!!!
I too have TRAVEL PACK CARD in my bag all the time!!
Like a security blanket!!
Please explain what is in the travel pack for new comers.
The travel pack contains “PINE, ROCK WATER, ROCK ROSE, ELM, STAR OF BETHLEHEM, GORSE”.
Write this on a piece of paper and keep it with you. While going to travel just read it once, before starting your journey.