Posts tagged judgment
Release the mental drama going on inside the mind (using IEIT/tapping for example) and do what you want to do.
An action is taken without judgment, without any emotion or without any desire.
Action is never prevented or you are not prevented to take a decision to your will.
Keep the mind free before taking any action and after taking the action.
A decision is taken after releasing everything of the mind, so that a state of equanimity is achieved.
For example, a child may not listen to the parent. Then the parent may get angry and try to advise the child. She has to release all her anger and her desire to control or change the person and then advise.
Release the mental drama before saying anything or doing anything. In action for the mind and action for the body is the need.
One drop of love will change him:
Rhythm of Love:
Kindly explain that all of them are our projections means what?
The unfinished and unresolved parts of me e.g. my anger or my judgment about others are coming out in the form of other persons.
When you see them you get angry you dislike them you start criticizing them as if they were not yours.
In other words, your own anger takes the human form reminding you about the past unresolved conflicts.
Instead of repeating what we did in the past, giving Reiki is breaking the pattern.
God gives us messages through nature. Every day god is with us and sends messages continuously. When you get the messages, don’t consider the whole line, but consider the words.
Condition the mind by thinking about god, read stories, and meditate. They will make you realize that god is everything.
Listen dispassionately without judgment for example in a busy place like a railway station. Watch what is happening around you and listen.
Maintain a journal and then after a week all the messages will make sense to you.
Art of reading divine messages: http://findlifeanswers.wordpress.com/2013/03/15/art-of-reading-divine-messages/
Handful of messages from our body: http://healbymindbodymessages.wordpress.com/2011/09/29/handful-of-messages-from-our-body/
Messages from Animal Spirit Guides: http://reachnaran.com/messages-from-animal-spirit-guides/
My parents have been cruel to each other and to me in various ways. How to love them?
The irony is we know how to get angry or how to blame. Who taught this? How does it come to us so naturally?
While learning to live from childhood, we have been learning wrongly. Unfortunately, there is no teacher. We observe, understand and form a thought, conclusion and start believing.
We should understand that when by being in resentment, resentment only grows.
By being in a state of anger, anger only grows.
In spite of our knowing that anger and resentment cannot achieve what we want, yet we will be in that state.
You may not love them. Can you not help yourself by getting away from resentment?
See what you cannot see. Don’t see what you see.
When you stop judging, you start observing. When you observe, you understand what you have not so far understood.
Any feeling that blocks our progress can be released. Get any feeling that can enhance your life progress.
Thank you for such a complete answer. I am grateful.
I know intellectually that holding on to my judgment of them is causing me problems. I will try to do EFT or something to reduce my resentment (although I never call it that!).
Some part of me thinks it would be wrong to allow them to just be who they are. As if the judgment will save me from becoming like them.
Don’t drag them into your life now.
Unite all the parts.
Forget what happened and treat them as new persons and be neutral first. Even the slightest resentment against them, will bring the same type of persons in your life.
There are no accidents only incidents: http://reachnaran.com/there-are-no-accidents-only-incidents/
Relationship with Parents equals Relationship with others: http://healbybachflowers.wordpress.com/2012/07/30/relationship-with-your-parents-relationship-with-others/
Remove the plasters inside the mind: http://reachchildcare.wordpress.com/2013/10/13/remove-the-plasters-inside-the-mind/
Find Life Answers
Let us say in the court proceedings, you want fairness in favor of you. You can directly talk to Dharma and Satyam and ask them, “Please be with me for next eight hrs”. They will be with you and will get the verdict in favor of you.
When Satyam and Dharma accompanies a person nothing can go against the person. Call Dharma and Satyam and affirm, “As it prevailed with Lord Rama, please be with us”.
Bach Flower Remedies
For any nagging problems like court cases and adjournments take OAK with WALNUT and HORNBEAM.
Take WILD ROSE, when a person does not know where to go, what to do and whom to approach.
Don’t want to share
A Mullah Story – father left one house, 10 gold coins and 1 goat before passing away. Both brothers fought in court, spending lots of money on lawyers.
By the time the judgment was given, only the goat remained. Judge told them to cut the goat in half and take half each. If one desires money for themselves, this is what will happen.
It does not matter even other person incurs a loss but it is enough if he gets a profit. That is the attitude of CHICORY. He will not share.
Lawyers can’t be liars
The opposite lawyer was telling lies and a patient of mine did not know how to handle him. Before going to the court, he visualized the court and affirmed “CHESTNUT BUD be in the court hall and sustain there for next 8 hrs”.
Interestingly, during the court proceedings, the judge told the opposite lawyer, “Yesterday you were lying throughout the day. If you lie one more time, I will give the judgment against your client”.
The lawyer kept quite as he could not tell the truth.
How does body guide us? It guides us through pains. A pain is an indication that a part our life has to be mended.
We may be fair in fighting a court case. We may be fighting for justice. But the body, if it pains, we have to withdraw the case.
For land-related disputes, chant NAMASHIVAYAM.
Unwanted court cases
Vikram: I want to avoid the financial crisis going on now a day with 2 unwanted court cases against us.
Naran: For court cases, chant “SRINIVASA ARAVINDHALOCHANA” – as many number of times as possible. To get money – “FIND COUNT NOW”.
The meaning of CHANGE DIVINE ORDER is “change to divine order”. That means restore justice.
Stuck in a Court Case: “FIND DIVINE ON”