Posts tagged married
When a person is not moving, he can be in CHIN Mudra and chant OM RUM NAMAHA, for movement of the legs.
Let Us Marry Again: https://healbymeditation.wordpress.com/2010/05/22/let-us-marry-again/
Delay in Getting Married: https://marriagemantri.wordpress.com/2013/02/06/delay-in-getting-married/
I was married for 16 yrs and got 3 girls. Ours is a middle-class family. Mine was a love marriage
Initially, everything was very well. He took good care of me and family but for the past 6 yrs there’s a lot of change in his attitude and behavior.
He yelled at me and kids in front of everyone, treating us very badly.
Last month, he brought one lady home and told us that he’s going to marry her.
My girls and parents launched a police complaint and with the help of a police officer that marriage was stopped.
He did not want to divorce but want to lead a new life with that lady. I told him that I will not agree for that.
After this he stopped coming home and eating from home. He will come as and when he wished but will not eat anything.
He gives money for the home expenses. I want to lead a happy married life with him. I want him to be genuine and truthful to our family.
Recently, he started hatred towards me. Pls help me to change this and lead me a happy life.
Take the flower remedies CHICORY, HOLLY, and ASPEN.
Put each 5 pills in a glass of water and have small sips from that water, every one or two hours, from morning to evening.
In the night, take the flower remedies WHITE CHESTNUT and WALNUT before going to sleep, 5 pills each.
Chant “TOGETHER DIVINE”
A CHICORY person turns easily into HOLLY. Husband is the shadow-self of wife and hence, and therefore, his remedies are given to her.
Every day, she has to lead her life with the constant fear of what will happen, for which ASPEN will help.
To come out of persistent, constant worry: WHITE CHESTNUT and WALNUT
I follow my father’s footsteps: https://healbymindbodymessages.wordpress.com/2010/02/03/i-follow-my-father%E2%80%99s-footsteps/
Why a person is not married: https://healyourpastlife.wordpress.com/2013/01/16/why-a-person-is-not-married/
I would like to reduce my weight and I needed to do it before my marriage.
Chant “TOGETHER CHANGE LIGHT DIVINE NOW”
Take unified efforts (TOGETHER) to CHANGE your weight and to feel LIGHT NOW, these switch words will help.
Marriage got fixed after a long period of waiting: https://healbymeditation.wordpress.com/2010/03/16/marriage-got-fixed-after-a-long-period-of-waiting/
Why ring finger represents water element: http://reachnaran.com/why-ring-finger-represents-water-element/
Even though my son is getting old, he keeps saying ‘No’. What to do?
Give him Bach Flower Remedies SWEET CHESTNUT and CHESTNUT BUD (not to avoid getting married) regularly.
A girl came to see me with her mother. She was trying to get married and nothing fruitful happened.
I told her to lie down and do the following exercise:
- Close your eyes. Visualize yourself leaving the body through the crown chakra – top of the head. Cross the planets, sun, stars and numerous galaxies of this universe.
- You are entering the MALL of GOD, where everything you name it is available for free, which we can take it to your liking, you being the child of god.
- Ask GOD to give you Mangala sutra (sacred thread for marriage) or ring as per your marriage custom. He is giving it you.
- Next ask him to show the person you are about to get married. He shows some person standing across.
- Along with him, come back to earth and go to a temple, church or wedding hall and get married to him.
I asked her mother to do the exercise, slightly changing it, in the sense, she leaves the body, god shows her the groom, she brings him along when she comes down to earth, and gets him married to her daughter.
They did the exercise for a month. The girl found a groom from the matrimony site.
Sometimes after many attempts to get married, some persons fail to get married.
To one such a client I gave the following affirmations, which she duly followed and got married, in addition to taking the remedies I suggested.
The affirmations were:
- “I release my resistance to get married”.
- “I release that karma or that decision which prevents me from getting married”.
Healing is necessary: https://healyourpastlife.wordpress.com/2013/07/02/healing-is-necessary/
Raji: I am married for 8 years. I have a daughter who is 7yrs old. When I became pregnant, I got separated from my husband.
Naran: Are you still separated?
Raji: No. We are living together for the last one year.
Naran: What is your problem since you had been together?
Raji: My husband is an alcoholic. Once in 3 or 4 days, he gets drunk as well as daily consuming Pan Parag (a tobacco product).
Naran: Since how long he has been an alcoholic?
Raji: According to my in laws he started drinking from his graduation days.
Naran: Explain his behavior after he gets drunk?
Raji: He will get angry at me and my daughter; will shout.
Naran: What does he shout about?
Raji: He will say, “Nobody respects me. There is no respect for me even in my own house. My daughter does not respect me. My friends, my employees, and my parents don’t respect me either. I will teach all of them a lesson”.
After the outburst, he will start weeping.
To be respected is the key word for ROCK WATER.
He is weeping. By losing control of himself, he weeps. Therefore, add CHERRY PLUM.
Rock Water will ultimately turn into either CHESTNUT BUD or VINE.
Naran: How is his behavior when he is not under the influence of alcohol?
Raji: His behavior is quite normal only. He shows his love for his daughter. In fact he sincerely made efforts for our reunion.
(Naran questioned further about her husband’s profession)
Naran: What is he doing?
Raji: He is running a Screen Printing unit. But it is not doing well.
Naran: How does he manage to pay his workers and take care of the family then?
Raji: He is honest in paying out the dues. Somehow, he will manage to pay the workers first, and then gives me money once a week.
Honesty – ROCK WATER
When one tries to be honest, in spite of adverse circumstances, self-control is employed to the maximum in one area.
He is so self-controlled in the area of finance that he loses self-control in some other area. Thus when he drinks, he loses his control and starts weeping.
Naran: Suppose if he can’t pay his dues, then how does he manage?
Raji: Naran, one more thing, I have forgotten to tell you. Every month before paying the rent, he would abscond.
Raji: He cannot pay the house rent by first of every month. Therefore, he feels ashamed to meet the house owner. So he would not stay in the house during the first week of the month.
Instead, he would stay with his parents for 4 or 5 days, arrange for the money, and will return back home after paying the rent. He has been doing this for a long time. Though, he would never cheat anybody.
Honest and at the same time an escapist. This is the case of a ROCK WATER person turning into CHESTNUT BUD character. On the due date, he would abscond (Chestnut Bud).
Key Words for Rock Water
To be respected: Ego and pride; self control, honesty.
Self controlled, honest person expects self respect. As a principle, he would never cheat.
Here the husband doesn’t get respect. His ego is hurt when he is insulted. He loses his control when he drinks.
One more interesting point is Rock Water father will face a Cherry Plum daughter.
ROCK WATER, CHERRY PLUM, CHESTNUT BUD and WALNUT (to break the habit)
Put the combination in the common drinking water, so that everybody will get the healing effect.
Feedback after 15 days
Raji: From the second day onwards, he stopped Pan Parag, and after a week he has stopped drinking.
He got to say yes to the girl as his mother has decided. He knows, I respect his care for his mother, and will not say anything against it.
His engagement ceremony is going to happen in another 3 days. He too loves me a lot and suffering a lot because of this situation. There should be a way to come out of this situation and stop this engagement.
Please guide and bless me, so that both our families will accept our relationship.
Love should break all the hurdles, if it is true.
Chant “TOGETHER CHANGE NOW” or listen to the “WELCOME CHANGE” CD
I can understand there are lots of facts happening in life, which we may feel are wrong. But that can be the Great Lords will, so it should not be questioned too.
May be it’s my destiny, which will decide about me. But, how many times should I need to bend in front of my destiny.
I am feeling really low with these incidents in my life. Earlier I had taken my step back, when it was about my career, and now it’s about my life partner.
Still, I am not succeeded on any part of my life at age of 32!! I have failed over and over again.
I have always been good to people. So why should not I expect the same from my life.
“How many times should I need to bend” is a statement which exposes your anger and resentment at destiny.
A person if voluntarily bends and does the work will not complain.
Take the flower remedies CENTAURY, WILLOW, LARCH and PINE to overcome this feeling, three pills each, and one after the other, for three times a day.
Weak-willed and not assertive enough: CENTUARY
Anger and Resentment: WILLOW
Failure mentality: LARCH
Feeling low: PINE
Can’t propose to girl of my heart: http://togetherrelationship.wordpress.com/2013/07/10/cant-propose-to-girl-of-my-heart/
Remove obstacles in getting married: http://reachnaran.com/remove-obstacles-in-getting-married/
Obstacles for a wedding: http://marriagemantri.wordpress.com/2013/08/05/obstacles-for-wedding/
I am Helpless and Living In Hell! How can I create my world?
As long as I believe that I and My Mind are one and the same, and accepting whatever mind creates, my life is helpless and hell.
As long as I am not aware that I can RECREATE or REPROGRAM my life, I lose all the power.
Not knowing that I can reprogram my mind and life is ignorance.
Our mind is full of emotions, thoughts, and reactions. As long as they alone make up our mind, we don’t have any choice but to live our lives without any power.
When there is awareness, when we come to know that we are not our mind, a new POWER surges in.
We will be able to RECREATE our own world to an extent with this little awareness. We can then become POWERFUL and take our lives into our own hands.
Releasing is a self-empowering tool, which changes our outlook about our lives.
What is this technique all about?
It is simply a process of letting go and releasing the emotions and thoughts as and when they arise.
How to implement it?
It is very simple. Whenever we tend to react, just say, “I let go this feeling”.
E.g., “Fear, can you please go? This is not the time for you. For the time being please go out. This is not your place either.”
See what happens. The mind becomes baffled and the emotion flees.
Do not react, but release and act
Reactions destroy our peace of mind. Once our uncontrollable emotions and thoughts are let off, we will find a peace deep inside us.
Releasing is a technique for allowing us to change on the spot.
Releasing allows us to handle any problem by releasing and letting go and thus stops the inner mental struggle.
Reactions intensify the mental struggle. Releasing gives us a new outlook. Reactions repeat the same drama.
Create a new healthy body: http://reachnaran.com/create-a-new-healthy-body/
My married life is like living in a hostel: http://reachnaran.com/my-married-life-is-like-living-in-a-hostel/
Positive vs. Negative thoughts: http://healbyrule.wordpress.com/2013/07/08/positive-vs-negative-thoughts/
Could you please suggest some effective remedies to get married as soon as possible? So that can I get some good proposals, which should go ahead quickly?
Chant “SWEET CHESTNUT, WALNUT, OAK, HORNBEAM” daily 100 times.
Thank the divine in advance as marriages are made in heaven – “TOGETHER I thank the divine for getting me a life partner NOW DONE”.
Write that affirmation in a notebook, daily 21 times.
In addition, look at the Power Life Symbol 54 and chant the switch words “TOGETHER DIVINE INVITE LOVE” associated with the symbol, as many times as you can.