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An introvert can be made to talk

SD

My son who is a 6-year-old is an introvert. He doesn’t talk with anyone other than us (parents and his elder brother).

Because of this, he has trouble making friends even in school. His voice is also very feeble. Most of the times, you can hear him whispering only.

He takes around an hour or so for eating.

He is very intelligent and smart but because of his introvert nature he is always lonely and I feel bad for him.

Naran 

Give him the flower remedies MIMULUS and LARCH in the day time, and give ASPEN in the night.

SD

I started giving him Mimulus and Larch.

Within two days I see a big change in him. He has started to talk more and his voice is also loud. I will add Aspen also to it.

Related Posts

Problem is like an Onion, Peel off one layer at a time:

https://healbyswitchword.wordpress.com/2012/08/09/problem-is-like-an-onion-peel-off-one-layer-at-a-time/

Exam Mantra:

https://studyforsuccess.wordpress.com/2013/11/05/exam-mantra/

How to criticize others?

SD

By nature I am very candid and not diplomatic.

Also, I am very open to negative feedback too, when someone is giving me a feedback – at home or at work.

However, at home (mine is a joint family), everyone dislikes me since I am very frank. Although, I am very efficient with house work and do not compromise on my duties.

One of my boss (I have 2 bosses) was very good to me and appreciated my work etc, until a while ago when I was frank in expressing some work-related issue.

Now one boss is still ok, since he knows that I am good at work and I am very frank – that is my nature.

Another boss is all angry with me and at every meeting makes sure that he puts me down or talks negatively when it comes to my work.

Can I chant something please, especially that both my husband and my boss should start appreciating me?

Naran 

If you want to maintain your candidness, you can get these only.

You do not point out the mistake only. You point out the good points also. If you want to point the mistake then do it with love.

Related Posts

Others will criticize me: http://studyforsuccess.wordpress.com/2013/03/13/afraid-people-will-criticize-me/

I feel small, when he criticizes me: https://healbyrule.wordpress.com/2010/01/19/i-feel-small-when-he-criticizes-me-%E2%80%93-a-case-history/

One drop of love will change him

A patient of Naran remarked about her spouse. He gave the following reply to her. These exercises however can be done anybody who wants to live harmoniously and be happy with them.

Naran

Look at oneself first

This is Drama of Life and if one understands, we will come to know, realize and understand that we have to bring in change in ourselves only.

We have to direct the mind towards oneself and then towards others. This is the basis of all healing modalities.

The nature always expects us to move towards perfection.

In this process, one understands not only the DIVINE ORDER, but also realizes that one has to rise above the mind and its tantrums, and become spiritual.

All healing methods help a person to understand his/her own potentials.

Others are mirrors of yourself

Before trying to change the other person do this exercise on you first.

Take a piece of paper and write about him first. Whatever you wanted to say about him write it.

  • Insert the word ‘I’ wherever you have put ‘He’.

For example, “He never takes the treatment properly and he escapes”, should be rewritten as “I never take the treatment properly. I escape.”

Change what all you have written about him Into I.

  • Now affirm, “I never take the treatment properly. I escape. In spite of this, I accept myself totally”.

Do three rounds of tapping for each sentence.

  • Do the forgiving exercise for them. “I forgive you …. (Name) you please forgive me and release me”.
  • Send Reiki to him daily.

Problem is the source of solution

Whoever is causing problem to you, can only give you solution.

Whoever irritates or angers you, can only give you peace. 

You cannot change your husband. You want him for your status and security. Then you have to heal yourself. Forgive.

  • You only have to make your life peaceful. For getting peace with such a person, you have to shed your ego and heal yourself.

Heal your controlling tendencies

Heal your anger and controlling tendency.

We always like people who comply or who just listen to us or obey us implicitly. That is why we want all the people to do this and that as well as agree with us, whatever we say.

When there is slight disagreement, dissent or difference of opinion, we may not like the person.

This dislike of the person who disagrees and the like of the person who agrees create conflicts in life.

  • Both are born from our controlling tendency – desire to control or change.  Release your desire to control and change others.

You have the power to heal him

What your husband needs attention, love and tolerance. Understand that he is mentally deranged, unlike we who are sane. The sane people are supposed to protect and understand such people.

When you ignore, chide, or send your husband away, who will take care of him?

The God has sent him to you, because you know Reiki.

God has sent him to you, because you know forgiving exercise and you know how to release your karma.

God has sent him to you because you know how to change yourself through flower remedies.

Heal him. This is how god has made him. One drop of love will change him. One iota of kindness can change.

Heal him from the heart. Sympathize with him. If he is the cause of your mental agony, how much he is suffering within mentally. Just help a man who needs help. Pray for him.

He is not a curse to you. He has not become your husband because of your bad karma.

He has come to you for healing. He is a grace for you.

Through him you spiritual journey starts! I hope you will start the Journey!!

Business is Safe

Vasanth asked his friend to do SAFE and SECURE Mudra to increase his business in his shop for 15-30 minutes a day.

His friend who doesn’t have a clue about Mudras and who was desperate to improve his business did it for a week.

He reported that new customers have started coming and they are giving good business to his departmental store.

Naran

This Mudra improves our connection with Mother earth and activates the Hara Chakra.

When our connection with earth increases our life will become more stable and settled. So do this Mudra before going to sleep for at least 30 minutes a day.

You can also chant, “FIND WHY I sleep very well in the night and get 1000 (fill up whatever you want) rupees in the morning” while doing the Mudra.

The front side of the Hara Chakra (one inch below the navel) represents our physical well-being and giving attitude. The back side of the Hara Chakra represents our emotional side and receiving attitude about life.

Magic can happen!!!

Varsha P

I came across SWITCH WORD concept in August 2013. I was very much amused and fascinated by this.

And specially after reading knowledgeable and useful blogs of Naran, I believed though there are miseries, unwanted situations, fear in our life, we can definitely CHANGE them with such wonderful gifts of nature – BACH FLOWERS and ANIMAL SPIRITS.

There are many day-to–day life situations and events, where I and my family members are using and applying Switch words, mantra and Bach flower remedy.

In my case, success was not 100%, but still I very much believe in this knowledge.

Magical Experience

In February’2014, I was travelling to Bangalore with my friend. Our flight was in morning and got delayed for 3 times.

We were having breakfast at Coffee shop (CCD) that is at another extreme end, very far from our terminal gate. As flight got delayed again, we were relaxed.

I was feeling very drowsy as I had got up very early to reach the airport. And other friend was busy on her phone. Somehow, we totally forgot to check time.

And when we checked our watch, we just ran!! We saw, our boarding gate was closed.

We requested them, to open it but they were not authorized to do so. We could see our flight in front of us, but couldn’t get in.

In that panic moment, I called up WOLF and FOX (I recalled this suddenly, while dealing with officials and airport staff call Fox). Then next thing was rescheduling of our flight and taking our luggage back.

All the time I was talking to WOLF. We knew that there will be a great price hike for current Ticket and we were upset about that.

I was in complete hopeless stage, as for this trip my Husband was in a denial mood. Since morning he kept talking, “You are going to miss your flight.”

My friends said that she can bear hike up to Rs. 5000 or so. I didn’t think about any amount. Somehow there was faith that some magic is going to happen.

Even I asked my friend, not to produce any intentions/ vibrations regarding money.

While waiting to claim baggage and cancellation of tickets, I called up Shobana Madam.

She told me to chant, and write these flower names on paper, and to keep it in hand while dealing with authorities, “WATER VIOLET, ROCK WATER, GENTIAN, WILD ROSE”

Immediately, I prepared 2 chits of paper for both of us. I told my friend, not to talk any money part at all. But she keeps on saying that she can bear 5000 Rs. and I kept chanting.

1st magic moment – we got our luggage very soon. Girl at counter exclaimed with wonder that how we got our luggage so early n fast!

2nd magical moment – at ticket counter, we went to reissue next ticket for afternoon flight. We gave our old tickets, to subtract that much amount from current fare.

And to my wonder, I couldn’t believe this, when they said, “You need not to pay anything!”  I got ZERO hikes for next flight, and my friend paid 5600 Rs hike. There was a sigh of relief!!

I thanked everything – Bach flowers, Animal guide, Shobanaji, airport staff, Cell phone – thru which I made calls, and many more things and thanked that SITUATION, which taught me many lessons.

Last but not least, after arrival at Bangalore, we got few co-passengers till our destination, which again saved our excess expenditure on Taxi.

I don’t know what MAGIC was behind this. But YES, Magic does happen! Only you need to trust it, deep within your heart.

Basic Thing to Improve a Relationship

Is forgiving the concerned person(s)…

Mona

My problem is my love relationship.

I am in a relationship for the past 3 years. From the beginning only we use to fight a lot but there is immense love and care also for each other.

But, few months ago he said that his family is not accepting our relationship due to inter-caste issues.

He is also fed up of my suspicious and fighting nature. In addition, he is not ready for commitment.

We tried to end up this relationship, yet still we are in talking terms.

Taking help from your blog, I started writing the affirmation, “TOGETHER I thank the divine for getting me <his name> as a life partner NOW DONE” for 21 times daily along with writing 58 for 58 times.

Also, I’m continuously chanting, “CONCEDE CLEAR CENTRE FIND DIVINE <his name> PARTNER HOLE”.

I have also kept the power symbol 47 and 66 with me.

But nothing is helping. Neither things are improving nor are they ending completely.

At times, I feel like its divine wish that we should stay together that’s why in spite of deciding to part our ways, somehow we are still in terms.

Pls help me out of this situation – either things should improve or end up completely by divine grace.

Naran

Do the forgiving exercise for him.

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Love thy neighbours even if they are a nuisance: http://reachnaran.com/love-thy-neighbours-even-if-they-are-a-nuisance/

How to deal with negative energy: http://reachnaran.com/how-to-deal-with-negative-energy/

Messages from God

Naran

God gives us messages through nature. Every day god is with us and sends messages continuously. When you get the messages, don’t consider the whole line, but consider the words.

Condition the mind by thinking about god, read stories, and meditate. They will make you realize that god is everything.

Listen dispassionately without judgment for example in a busy place like a railway station. Watch what is happening around you and listen.

Maintain a journal and then after a week all the messages will make sense to you.

Related Posted

Art of reading divine messages: http://findlifeanswers.wordpress.com/2013/03/15/art-of-reading-divine-messages/

Handful of messages from our body: http://healbymindbodymessages.wordpress.com/2011/09/29/handful-of-messages-from-our-body/

Messages from Animal Spirit Guides: http://reachnaran.com/messages-from-animal-spirit-guides/

Chicory

The Bach Flower Remedy Chicory

Key words

Possessiveness, Self-Love, Self-Pity, Always Demanding, Noticeable, Attracting Attention

Indications

  • They try to attract others attention: for example, infants attract attention by crying when you leave them alone or we try to impress others sometimes by flattery.
  • Will be overeager to help.
  • They get angry, if they find no gratitude from the person benefited by them.
  • Their possessive nature can make the opposite person as a Centaury. Please note here, fear of rejection indicates a Centaury, while the person who instils a fear of rejection on others is Chicory.
  • Chicory will not give anything free – there is a hidden agenda behind every transaction he makes.
  • A Chicory person always attracts the attention of others.
  • Always demanding and expects a great deal from others.
  • He is possessive, extremely interfering, secretly manipulating and easily hurt.
  • He has a feeling of unwanted.
  • Over protection and too much parenting.
  • Constantly concerned with the affairs of the family, always interfering.
  • Behind all Chicory type, there lies a deep lack of fulfilment, often a feeling of not being loved.
  • Desires for company for his selfish ends.
  • He is a stingy person.
  • Easily offended or hurt – self-pity.
  • Pretending illness to attract others pity.
  • Always speaks about what others owe her.
  • Extremely nagging – the in-laws remedy.
  • Thinks, feels that everyone is there for his help.
  • Goes to the extent of weeping or pretending to be ill to get his things done.
  • There is constant fear of loss.
  • Emotional demanding always.
  • Behind the Chicory state, an internal emptiness is more.
  • Watching over the needs, wishes and progress of family and friends.
  • Always ready to comment, to correct others or to advise others.
  • The emotional control is subtle, making others dependent.
  • He will manipulate to impose his will.
  • The Chicory finds it hard to let go, feels easily offended or hurt; becomes ill to gain sympathy, always expecting others to live in the feeling of gratitude to her.
  • Chicory children throw temper tantrums.
  • The Chicory child will weep and get things done.
  • If weeping doesn’t pay, he will indulge in flattery or helps you in house hold work.
  • Always demanding, tries to seek attention.
  • The Chicory baby always wants her to be held in the lap all the time.
  • The Chicory child likes to be carried always.
  • Would weep if said anything.
  • Over care and over concern for hurt feelings.
  • Always seeks company.
  • Heart Chakra is closed for Chicory people.  Pray to Chicory to be active in the Heart Chakra.

Chicory says

  • Threatening: “I will do homework, but I will not go to the music class.  If you agree for my condition, then I will finish up all my homework now”.
  • “I am angry at his ingratitude, and he cheated me. I have done so much to him” – Chicory + Chestnut bud.
  • Chicory person makes others feel guilty by saying, “You have just used me.”
  • “After all that I have done for you, this is how you treat me”.
  • “I have given her a sari on her birthday and all that I get from her on my birth day is a card.”
  • Emotional black mailing – “How can I live without you?”
  • “Think of what I have done for you” and then bursting in to tears.
  • “My dear son, I miss you so much, the house is vacant.”
  • He sometimes become ill, he may resort to black mail. “I will study after this, if you allow me to browse the Internet.”
  • “People should respect me.”

Ailments

  • Eating disorders
  • Hysterical Neurosis  – convulsion type
  • Histrionic personality disorder

Usage

  • “Live and let live” is the positive Chicory.
  • Chicory + Walnut – when the child starts schooling
  • Chicory + Walnut – for a second wife
  • Chicory + Star of Bethlehem – if a person whom you love is dead
  • Chicory – for separation.
  • Chicory: I want love and attention
  • Chicory: I feel that nobody recognises my importance
  • Chicory: I have a fear of loneliness
  • Chicory: I feel I am neglected
  • Chicory: I feel unloved by my loved ones
  • Chicory: Others say that I am of a highly interfering type
  • Chicory: I can’t be alone; I always need company
  • Chicory: I often enjoy giving my opinions and advice to others; but I feel hurt/offended when they reject my advice
  • Mimulus, Chicory: My child stays close to my side; rarely goes alone; does nothing alone
  • Chicory: Cries a lot when starting for the school
  • Chicory, Mimulus: The child becomes upset even if mildly criticized
  • Mimulus, Chicory: Burst into tears for no apparent reason
  • Chicory: The child clings to mother

Program Your Life – Part I

Letting GO is the Nature of LIFE

Naran

When you look at the whole world you will understand we only are holding on to mind.

What is the opposite of letting go? “Holding on to” is the opposite word. Holding will restrict us. Letting go expands us.

By letting go you are discharging from yourself what is not required by you, like Water putting out the Fire. Body and Nature Follows this rule 100%.

Watch the body. What it does?

Whatever is inhaled, lungs have to exhale out. Lungs cannot keep the air even for one second.

Heart – what does it do? It takes in blood and sends it out immediately. Blood enters the heart through Auricles and let out through Ventricles.

Whatever you take in, has to be let it out. It is the natural process of the body.

Lungs contract to let go, kidneys contract to let go urine, intestines peristaltically (downward movement) contract to let go the faeces and skin lets go by sweat.

The mouth lets go whatever you eat to the stomach. Stomach lets it go to the intestine. Intestine and kidneys let go as excretion.

Morning lets go to the noon, the noon lets go and becomes afternoon. Afternoon lets go and become the evening, and then evening to night. Each and every second gives way to the next.

Let go before taking the action. Then let go the emotions and thoughts attached to results.

Ask the questions:

  • What do you expect to achieve?
  • What is the driver desire or wanting behind each emotion and thought?
  • Wanting to control or change?
  • Wanting appreciation, recognition? (Desire for Approval)
  • Wanting more security? (fearful)

With this technique, you are not prevented from doing anything. Let go emotions as well as thoughts, and then Act.

“You are only entitled to Act. Don’t think about the result while doing” – says Lord Krishna in Bhagavat Gita.

The theory, we propose here is a new dimension to Bhagavat Gita and a new understanding of the Gita.

Read the 2nd part of the article here: http://reachnaran.com/program-your-life-part-ii/

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