Posts tagged neighbour
Can’t say ‘NO’
M
I’m a shy person. I think so. But after marriage I think I have improved a lot.
Sometimes I keep myself last….e.g., if my neighbour says something that I don’t like I’ll not oppose or if my neighbour called my maid without asking me I will not say anything, though I feel bad.
It is like that I keep myself always last. Even when I was younger I did the same thing. I will be the last girl standing in the queue, though I was very good student.
I don’t consider myself. I don’t express myself about what I want.
Naran
Take the flower remedies CENTAURY, WILLOW and PINE.
Put each 5 pills in a glass of water and have small sips from that water every one or two hours from morning to evening.
Explanation
A CENTAURY person cannot say ‘No’. Eventually they will develop resentment – WILLOW and feel guilty for saying ‘No’ or for getting angry – PINE.
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Love thy neighbours even if they are a nuisance
LLM
My neighbors are very inconsiderate. We live in apartments. The one on next to me filled the corridor with their own stuffs and smelly shoes, make a lot of noise shouting at one end of corridor to the other, openly criticizes us and do damage to our plant tearing the leaves (we only put one pot of plant and door mat at my door and nothing else not even shoes). We only keep quiet, to maintain peace.
The neighbor above us, throw litter into our house and make a lot of noises (such as jumping in wee hours of the night after 12 am), and also hang wet laundry above our laundry. On one case, we even saw a packet of urine caught on our window.
We really don’t know what to do.
Naran
Chant “BEECH HOLLY WILLOW IMPATIENS” over a glass of water and drink it.
Download a picture of PISCES and paste it on your flat door.
Do the forgiving exercise for them.
In the morning thank them mentally for not disturbing you.
Pray to The Mother for keeping these elementals away from you.
LLM
May I ask how many times do I need to chant the flower remedy each time? Do I have to chant everyday or just once?
Do I do the forgiving exercise and thank them everyday also?
The picture of Pisces can be just the symbols or need to have images of fish?
At the last sentence, you mentioned praying to the mother. ‘The Mother’ refers to?
Naran
When the problem comes, you can chant.
Chanting what is given is just an alignment with the divine. Forget your identity. Just merge with the Grace Words which are nothing but divine. Enjoy chanting. Do it any number of times.
These words do not bring about any result. They want you to surrender. Surrender to the divine and start chanting. While chanting do not think about anything.
Download zodiac picture of Pisces, and paste it on the door facing outside.
The mother means Aurobindo mother. That divine mother only knows how to drive out the unwanted elementals. Just say once to her daily.
LLM (after a month)
I can see improvement on the issues with my neighbor next door, no more torn leaves and cleaner corridor.
How to deal with negative energy?
Kittu
My neighbour is a very good friend of my father. He claims to be very good astrologer with accurate predictions.
Whenever he comes at our home he says that I won’t get married for next one more year, no matter how much efforts we put or good proposals come coz I have debilitated mars and ******.
My parents do not believe much in astrology but that uncle always says something negative regarding my marriage and now whenever any proposal turn down. My parents have also started saying that may be that uncle is right and this in turn affects my thoughts and positivity.
As we have familiar relations with their family, we can’t say directly anything to them. How to deal with this negative energy (thoughts) that he brought as he always discourages me and my parents.
Naran
Do the forgiving exercise for 100 times daily: “I Kittu forgive you … (name of the uncle). You please forgive me and release me”.
Everyday morning when you wake up, say three times, “I thank Mars and ****** for keeping this person away from influencing me”.
Kittu
I am glad to inform you that after doing that forgiving exercise for a week, that uncle have said nothing negative. In fact, he came only twice in this month and both the time I was not at home.
He sent me some sweets and a gift also telling that he treats me like a daughter, so things are at peace.
Should I continue this or anything else?
Naran
Continue.
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