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Be Successful With Your Decisions

Uday

I got a better offer now. But, my current company is not ready to accept resignation and relieve me. They want me to continue.

The new company is after me to join them immediately. Even, I want to join them.

How do I come out of this situation amicably?

Naran

Chant “SCLERANTHUS, THANKS DIVINE ORDER”

Uday 

Thanks you to your divine advices, my life becomes easier to manage.

I decided to continue with my current organization and I would like to be successful with my decision.

Naran 

Chant “HONEY SUCKLE, TOGETHER DIVINE”.

Start the day with THANKS and end the day with THANKS

Explanation

When one is confused between two options, the Bach Flower SCLERANTHUS helps us to come out of confusion.

Not to regret after taking a decision, HONEY SUCKLE is the remedy.

Our future is not determined

Naran

Let me give an example to make you understand that our future is not determined

In a typical office there is a conflict and arguments between office manager and the staff.

A staff member will have two options.

Either he can straightaway throw his job by getting angry and argumentative.

Many a time we succumb to our emotions and they guide your actions. We all know that. If you are able to be only like this, then the result is determined as what we expect to happen.

Or you can do the following, based on NLP:

Step One: Identify the emotion.

Let us say, we get angry. 

It’s ok. If we say then, “This is my anger”, it will be automatically gets reduced. This is one way of handling your emotions.

Step Two: Create the outcome you want.

Now ask the question, “What do I want from this situation”.

Analyze, “What’s my present state”. 

Then ask the question, “What do I want” or “What is the desired outcome I want here”.

Now we are forming a strategy here.

For example, if the strategy to create a situation is formed by the staff member then he won’t resign.

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