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Create positives out of a situation
Naran
Let us see an example
“My husband is not good. He is irritating too”, says the wife.
She is blaming her husband here.
If she has to handle this situation, then what resource (quality) she needs to handle it?
Does she needs to be courageous, be more loving and caring, or be bold?
When there is a problem, you need to ask yourself, “What one resource will enrich me and will help me to handle this life situation”.
This way you are healing yourself. Instead, if some person is angry and you also get angry, then you are gone.
So what do we need here?
People would say she needs patience and tolerance.
What’s patience?
Patience is the quality or ability to withstand a situation without getting angry or upset.
If that’s the case, then the Bach Flower IMPATIENS is the remedy. Impatiens will create patience inside you.
You need tolerance also. BEECH is the remedy for it.
Beech and Impatiens go together in cultivating tolerance and patience.
Developing a Life Strategy
Quality of patience, without getting upset or angry about the other person, is waiting inside us, waiting for the right opportunity.
We all need it. If I have it, then I will be striking at the right moment. It’s a Life Strategy.
If we have this quality, we will have more consideration and caring for other people. To develop this strategy, take the flower remedy IMPATIENS.
If I cultivate patience and tolerance (Beech and Impatiens), then I will become more considerate.
Consideration means, there is more love and affection for other person. Then we will become accommodative.
To be more caring, after being considerate, HOLLY is the remedy.
Related Posts
Audit your thoughts:
https://healbyrule.wordpress.com/2013/09/19/audit-your-thoughts/
The Universal Lover:
https://theflowerangels.wordpress.com/2013/09/05/the-universal-lover/
How to handle people who are angry?
Naran
If someone is angry against you, the FIRE element is more inside you.
To pacify it, you have to react in a different way. If you activate WATER and EARTH elements, then you will become patient and relaxed.
The PRAN MUDRA – little and ring fingers touching the tip on both the hands, will activate your earth and water elements.
When such an unusual response is given – instead of reacting with other person angrily, you treat him in a peaceful manner, then the opposite person don’t have a choice but to react in a different way.
We can also reduce our Anger.
Healing your womb state
Naran
On the date of (our) conception, we don’t know the state of our parents.
Let us see how to make them (at that time) into light and love. Then we will also become light and love – I mean we will become good.
We don’t know when we got conceived. So we will take one year before our date of birth and put our parents into light and love.
Healing steps
Form a silver triangle in front of you
All the unaligned non-divine memory frequencies of my past-life, my conception, and my parents that were carried in my womb state are released and kept in the silver triangle.
Other general steps…
Reiki open the green triangles, open my womb state, fill it up with light and love, align and resonate it with grace and rays of wealth and prosperity.
My womb state is open, aligning, and resonating with grace of joy and happiness.
My womb state is open, aligning, and resonating with grace of purity and peace.
My womb state is open, aligning and resonating with the grace of detachment and righteousness
My womb state is open, aligning and resonating with the grace of divine love, gratitude and forgiveness.
My womb state is open, aligning and resonating with the grace of intelligence and creativity, removing the ignorance.
My womb state is open, integrated with physical, mental and spiritual energies of light and love.
My womb state is filled up the grace of purity, peace, divine love, gratitude and forgiveness.
Divine light and love fills up the whole my womb state making it whole and complete.
My womb state is whole and complete with the help of Reiki light and love.
Post-healing
You are re-born. Very good!!
Womb changes into child. Did you feel your own womb state?
Mother is the first person to recognize us.
Mother is the first person to give us love, the taste of first love.
Mother is the first person to approve us and we want approval only. The moment we are born mother approves us.
Sometimes the mother may have different thoughts – for example they would have preferred a boy but a girl was born. Such thoughts were made complete by the meditation we had done now.
How can we complete this further? (Additional steps)
From the state of birth, to the current age divided by three, whatever we had experienced put it in the triangle. Let us say you are 45, do the healing from your date of birth till 15 years.
Healing using Violet Flame
The above techniques can be applied using Violet Flame and you don’t need to know Reiki to do the same. To know how to use Violet Flame healing for our past, please attend workshop on Violet Flame Past-Life Healing.
Basic Thing to Improve a Relationship
Is forgiving the concerned person(s)…
Mona
My problem is my love relationship.
I am in a relationship for the past 3 years. From the beginning only we use to fight a lot but there is immense love and care also for each other.
But, few months ago he said that his family is not accepting our relationship due to inter-caste issues.
He is also fed up of my suspicious and fighting nature. In addition, he is not ready for commitment.
We tried to end up this relationship, yet still we are in talking terms.
Taking help from your blog, I started writing the affirmation, “TOGETHER I thank the divine for getting me <his name> as a life partner NOW DONE” for 21 times daily along with writing 58 for 58 times.
Also, I’m continuously chanting, “CONCEDE CLEAR CENTRE FIND DIVINE <his name> PARTNER HOLE”.
I have also kept the power symbol 47 and 66 with me.
But nothing is helping. Neither things are improving nor are they ending completely.
At times, I feel like its divine wish that we should stay together that’s why in spite of deciding to part our ways, somehow we are still in terms.
Pls help me out of this situation – either things should improve or end up completely by divine grace.
Naran
Do the forgiving exercise for him.
Related Posts
Love thy neighbours even if they are a nuisance: http://reachnaran.com/love-thy-neighbours-even-if-they-are-a-nuisance/
How to deal with negative energy: http://reachnaran.com/how-to-deal-with-negative-energy/
Do you know why she doesn’t appreciate?
Patient: My wife loves me a lot. She is a very considerate person. At the same time, when it comes to my way of doing, she is highly intolerant. Surprisingly, she tolerates others’ mistakes to a greater extent – this includes my parent’s actions too.
Naran
One part of her is tolerant, while the other part of her is intolerant – especially to you. It shows, somehow you trigger the other – unwanted part in her.
Do you have a similar behavior in yourself?
Patient: Yeah! In general, I always tend to correct the way of others and not just one person. I believe everything has to be done correctly, with the right people, and at the right time.
Naran
I will teach you a simple method here.
Affirm as many times as possible:
“I RELEASE the PART of ME that is criticized by me”.
“I OPEN ALIGN WITH the PART of ME that evokes her tolerance to PRAISE me”.
You can write them too.
The letters in UPPER CASE is fixed. The rest of the statement, you can fill with whatever you want. This way, you are releasing the behavior you don’t want and activating the behavior you want in others.
Roles People Play
Reddy
Quite often, we are required to play different roles with respect to the same person. In the process lot of misunderstandings occur due to perception at both ends.
At work, we have a subordinate who is also a friend. This friend does not play his role in the office as required.
In the role of a friend, you try to protect him in various ways besides telling him / her about the problems in a friendly manner.
However, if it is not adhered to, it may go the extreme end that you may even need to terminate him/her. It is a very difficult choice. You are torn between both the roles.
In the earlier days, we could take a very dharmic stand and take decisions.
However, now we are required to play a role negotiating happiness for various people in the name of Professionalism / Management etc and suffer.
At home, we have to act as a Parent, Friend, Teacher, friend to your kids.
Often a role is over played by each of the participant resulting in clashes and misunderstanding. Each forgets that they are over stepping on the other role due to inherent flair for one.
Thus, a parent who is generally has a strong Vasanas of a Teacher in making, preaches more and is not able to know when to cut off and act as a friend.
Please give your recommendation to solve the above by way of flower remedy.
Naran
Whatever the role we play, let us ask a simple question.
What is that we lack in any role?
Basically, every relationship is based on communication. How do we communicate? What do we communicate? What do we want to communicate?
The objective of any communication is to reach out to the other person.
BEECH is the remedy for improving our communication.
What are the negative mental states of Beech?
- Unable to understand other man’s point of view
- Unable to appreciate other man’s priorities
- Intolerance
- Fault-finding
- Desire to control or change the other person
If one is in one of the above mental states, right communication will not take place. Here, how Beech can help us?
BEECH can bridge the gap between two persons and makes one understand other man’s point of view.
WALNUT should be taken along with Beech. Walnut can bring in change in the mind. A changed outlook and a changed view will give a different communication tool.
For you Mr. Reddy, in addition to taking BEECH and WALNUT, you take CENTAURY also, while communicating in the office.
“What would my friend think? Will he be hurt, if I say this?” These expressions belong to negative mental state of Centaury.
Rushrush
Wonderfully explained….your site is a healthy addiction.
I feel the need to read it like a holy book everyday…sorting out life’s many questions and seeking the right answer….
I follow so many remedies you advice, go through the topics so many times, sometimes apply my 2 cents worth as well….analyse life’s situation from a different angle….
I have changed so much in my mind and heart…..all because of being a part of this wonderful site and your guidance!!!!
Thank you ever so much…….Naran….THERE’s still so much to absorb from you……..regards……