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Sheela was doing business with a company. They owe her 4.5 lakhs. She made a commitment to her supplier based on that.
But as the customer didn’t give the money, she couldn’t meet her supplier and therefore she was afraid to see him.
“I am afraid” she said, being afraid of the supplier: MIMULUS was given.
After one week she opened up. “All of my problems are due to my inability to say no”. I gave her CENTAURY.
After ten days, she met me again and said that her sister is the root cause of all the problems. Therefore, she took WILLOW for blaming others for her life situation.
She got payment from her customer soon afterwards.
Here we could have analyzed how to handle non-payment of dues owed to you. It will not work here.
Find out what’s the expression of the patient? Treat it. Heal it. Solution will appear automatically.
Don’t be Sympathetic Be Empathetic: https://healbyreiki.wordpress.com/2010/07/19/don%E2%80%99t-be-sympathetic-be-empathetic/
Don’t let others use your goodwill: https://healbyreiki.wordpress.com/2011/02/22/don%E2%80%99t-let-others-use-your-goodwill/
Read the first part of the article, “Increase Your Energy Levels” here: http://reachnaran.com/increase-your-energy-levels/
Anger and worry will reduce the Prana inside us. If Prana is reduced, then your physical vitality will also be reduced.
Within worry, there is fear and sadness. Anger has jealousy, envy, likes and dislikes behind it.
What will increase Prana then?
When you do yoga for example, it will and due to that, it stabilizes the physical stuff.
Prana also can be increased by having certain states of mind.
What are those mental states that increase the Prana and thus our degree of vitality levels?
According to Dr. Mikao Usui – the founder of Reiki, the following principles do that:
- Be honest
You should act with your conscience;
- Be kind to others – express kindness and love to others.
Even if you see a cockroach struggling to get up from its upside down position, you should help it, to regain its position. This single act alone can increase your Pranic energy thousand fold.
- Have an Attitude of Gratitude
For anything good done to us, we have to say thanks; especially for parents we have to keep on say love and thanks as we owe so much to them.
- Also say thanks to others – even to your enemy. He will become your friend then. Don’t have vengeance and hatred. They not only will sustain the enmity but will reduce Prana as well.
Even inanimate things like the house you live in – say thanks to them.
I want to inculcate the values of politeness and self-control in my 8-year-old daughter.
She keeps getting angry for every small thing and loses self-control. She gets very tempted with all material possessions and never really wants to share with others until forced to.
I am worried that she might land up in trouble with this kind of an attitude in future.
Don’t teach her anything.
She will come up well. Allow the child to be a child.
He is very aggressive: http://reachchildcare.wordpress.com/2013/09/04/aggressive-child/
Deep inside a hole: http://praisedivinelife.wordpress.com/2013/07/10/deep-inside-a-hole/
Visualize all are talking with you in love and kindness.
Visualize everyone you meet and greet you with love.
Before attending a wedding (or any function), visualize all the people in the marriage hall greeting you with love and talking to you with loving words.
Affirm, “Divine Love Manifests in My Life” – from ‘I love myself’ CD
Love follows without fail: https://healbyanimalspirits.wordpress.com/2012/12/10/love-follows-without-fail/
Relationship with Your Parents = Relationship with Others: https://healbybachflowers.wordpress.com/2012/07/30/relationship-with-your-parents-relationship-with-others/
In the ancient days, there were lot of clairvoyants and healers around.
The moment they see other person’s aura, any unwanted black energy in the aura can be found by them.
They used pranic healing to do the necessary cleansing and clearing of that unwanted energy in the auric field.
If you don’t clear this black energy, you will be affected by them. No need to have doubt about that.
The ancient healers said, once you see the black energy (any negative element) then the black energy also sees you. Then there will be a contamination of your energy field.
Is there is any technique to remove that darkness and the black energy inside you?
Yes there is one:
- When you see the darkness in an auric field, visualize the sun in the mind of the person, which will burn any possible contamination in the energy field.
- Once you see the darkness, there will be an energy reaction from us. Mother Earth can transform us. Direct that energy to the earth. Thank her.
- After that visualize a cow.
This is not only for healers but for every one of us. Whenever we see darkness – mother earth and cow can remove our energy reaction.
Do you know how much darkness has been transmuted by Mother Earth so far?
Doing it the Right Way: http://naranhealingproducts.wordpress.com/2011/02/09/doing-it-the-right-way/
Confrontation No More: http://togetherrelationship.wordpress.com/2013/10/19/confrontation-no-more/
This is common for both Self-Reiki and Healing Others.
Draw the symbols: On the problem area, Nearest related chakra, Solar plexus Chakra and 3rd eye Chakra.
Healing Knee – example one
Let us say you have pain on the right knee.
Give Reiki as follows: to Knee (the part that is suffering), to Basic Chakra (the nearest and related chakra to the part), to Solar Plexus Chakra and to Third eye Chakra.
Let us say your spouse has diabetes. Then write the name of the person, and the words Liver, Solar plexus and Third eye on a piece of paper and give Reiki to it.
Healing Eyes Swelling – example two
Give Reiki as follows: over your eyes (the part that is suffering), to Third Eye Chakra (the nearest related chakra to the part), to Solar Plexus, and again to the Third Eye Chakra
Fever: give Reiki to whole body, especially back of the head, on the back of the head behind your mouth.
For any issues with Ear, Nose, Throat (ENT): the nearest chakra is throat Chakra
Eyes: Third Eye Chakra, Solar plexus Chakra and Third Eye again
For Healing Others
Take a toy, decide some part of the toy as the part of your friend, and give Reiki to it.
On left hand, visualize as though you are bringing each organ, give it Reiki, after healing, affirm, “Organ go back to your place of my friend”.
On paper write the problem and heal it with Reiki. For example, if your friend has leg pain, write the affirmation, “His leg pain has totally healed”. Thus, write it as though it has happened.
Many faces of Healing: http://reachnaran.com/many-faces-of-healing/
Goals Achievement through Reiki Part II: http://reachnaran.com/goals-achievement-through-reiki-part-ii/
Kindly explain that all of them are our projections means what?
The unfinished and unresolved parts of me e.g. my anger or my judgment about others are coming out in the form of other persons.
When you see them you get angry you dislike them you start criticizing them as if they were not yours.
In other words, your own anger takes the human form reminding you about the past unresolved conflicts.
Instead of repeating what we did in the past, giving Reiki is breaking the pattern.
First of all thank you for all the help extended.
With regular chanting of “FIND COUNT DIVINE ORDER NOW”, I was able to arrange money for a site that I have been allotted.
I was short of 1.5 lakhs and the money got arranged without taking external loan. Things flowed easily to me.
Thank the switch word, divine and you for all this.
Don’t let others use your goodwill: https://healbyreiki.wordpress.com/2011/02/22/don%E2%80%99t-let-others-use-your-goodwill/
You inherit not just your ancestral property: https://healbymeditation.wordpress.com/2012/08/30/you-inherit-not-just-your-ancestral-property/
By nature I am very candid and not diplomatic.
Also, I am very open to negative feedback too, when someone is giving me a feedback – at home or at work.
However, at home (mine is a joint family), everyone dislikes me since I am very frank. Although, I am very efficient with house work and do not compromise on my duties.
One of my boss (I have 2 bosses) was very good to me and appreciated my work etc, until a while ago when I was frank in expressing some work-related issue.
Now one boss is still ok, since he knows that I am good at work and I am very frank – that is my nature.
Another boss is all angry with me and at every meeting makes sure that he puts me down or talks negatively when it comes to my work.
Can I chant something please, especially that both my husband and my boss should start appreciating me?
If you want to maintain your candidness, you can get these only.
You do not point out the mistake only. You point out the good points also. If you want to point the mistake then do it with love.
Others will criticize me: http://studyforsuccess.wordpress.com/2013/03/13/afraid-people-will-criticize-me/
I feel small, when he criticizes me: https://healbyrule.wordpress.com/2010/01/19/i-feel-small-when-he-criticizes-me-%E2%80%93-a-case-history/
A patient of Naran remarked about her spouse. He gave the following reply to her. These exercises however can be done anybody who wants to live harmoniously and be happy with them.
Look at oneself first
This is Drama of Life and if one understands, we will come to know, realize and understand that we have to bring in change in ourselves only.
We have to direct the mind towards oneself and then towards others. This is the basis of all healing modalities.
The nature always expects us to move towards perfection.
In this process, one understands not only the DIVINE ORDER, but also realizes that one has to rise above the mind and its tantrums, and become spiritual.
All healing methods help a person to understand his/her own potentials.
Others are mirrors of yourself
Before trying to change the other person do this exercise on you first.
Take a piece of paper and write about him first. Whatever you wanted to say about him write it.
- Insert the word ‘I’ wherever you have put ‘He’.
For example, “He never takes the treatment properly and he escapes”, should be rewritten as “I never take the treatment properly. I escape.”
Change what all you have written about him Into I.
- Now affirm, “I never take the treatment properly. I escape. In spite of this, I accept myself totally”.
Do three rounds of tapping for each sentence.
- Do the forgiving exercise for them. “I forgive you …. (Name) you please forgive me and release me”.
- Send Reiki to him daily.
Problem is the source of solution
Whoever is causing problem to you, can only give you solution.
Whoever irritates or angers you, can only give you peace.
You cannot change your husband. You want him for your status and security. Then you have to heal yourself. Forgive.
- You only have to make your life peaceful. For getting peace with such a person, you have to shed your ego and heal yourself.
Heal your controlling tendencies
Heal your anger and controlling tendency.
We always like people who comply or who just listen to us or obey us implicitly. That is why we want all the people to do this and that as well as agree with us, whatever we say.
When there is slight disagreement, dissent or difference of opinion, we may not like the person.
This dislike of the person who disagrees and the like of the person who agrees create conflicts in life.
- Both are born from our controlling tendency – desire to control or change. Release your desire to control and change others.
You have the power to heal him
What your husband needs attention, love and tolerance. Understand that he is mentally deranged, unlike we who are sane. The sane people are supposed to protect and understand such people.
When you ignore, chide, or send your husband away, who will take care of him?
The God has sent him to you, because you know Reiki.
God has sent him to you, because you know forgiving exercise and you know how to release your karma.
God has sent him to you because you know how to change yourself through flower remedies.
Heal him. This is how god has made him. One drop of love will change him. One iota of kindness can change.
Heal him from the heart. Sympathize with him. If he is the cause of your mental agony, how much he is suffering within mentally. Just help a man who needs help. Pray for him.
He is not a curse to you. He has not become your husband because of your bad karma.
He has come to you for healing. He is a grace for you.
Through him you spiritual journey starts! I hope you will start the Journey!!