Posts tagged PEACE
I heard a lot about you from my friends.
I’m facing a lot of problems as I’m in love with a guy since past 8 years. He also loves me a lot.
My family has agreed regarding our marriage issues but his family is totally against it as our horoscopes are not matching as I have KAL SARP YOG in my horoscope.
What should I chant in order to remove all these obstacles and his family agrees?
As suggested by you, I am chanting (switching words) “CLIMB ADJUST TOGETHER CHANGE DIVINE” daily 200 times, for removing little fighting in between me and my would-be husband.
Just 25 days are left for our marriage but there is daily fight between us on phone. I want a loveable and harmonious relation between us.
We get normal after 2 days. I want that nobody can put finger on our fighting as ours is a love marriage.
I want these fights to far away from my both families so that there should be peace and love between us.
(For both Minee and Anu…the following answer)
Whether the horoscope matches or not, all the couples should understand each other, trust that both live to love each other, shed the ego which is the cause of all conflict, reach harmony somehow, praising each other instead of finding fault, and understanding to communicate after listening.
Chant “BOW PRAISE TOGETHER REACH DIVINE LOVE LISTEN BETWEEN” is the mantra for your happy married life.
I am really feeling glad for your response. Every answer and solution suggested by you really gives us message and lesson!
Thank you Naran!!
Marriage got fixed after a long period of waiting: https://healbymeditation.wordpress.com/2010/03/16/marriage-got-fixed-after-a-long-period-of-waiting/
Raining clouds: https://marriagemantri.wordpress.com/2013/08/27/raining-clouds/
I have bought your CD “RELEASE RESISTANCE”. I am listening to it daily at night before sleeping as well as just playing it when the kids are around.
Please let me know if I have to chant anything along with it.
I am terribly insecure about my job though there are no major issues.
When you feel insecure, chant “MIMULUS”.
Buy “RELEASE FEAR” CD.
I am now listening to Release Your Fear CD.
I feel a sense of calmness. Now, I am more at peace. I keep listening to the mp3 even when I am at work.
Best of luck!!!
I can most certainly say that I have been benefited by listening to the CD for releasing fears.
Now, everyday morning I don’t go to office expecting the worst. I am more positive as well as calm.
I wish we all could have a chant to heal the country smooth for political issues and…. surrounding the borders is all enemies. We all Indians pray for quick solution.
Write the place where you want peace. Do the circle method and write AGRIMONY in between the circles.
Chant AGRIMONY by holding the paper on hand daily for 10 minutes.
Or you can download a picture of AGRIMONY (Bach) flower and paste it on the paper, written with the name of the place.
Agrimony is a peacemaker.
Pray daily “Let India and Indians BE OPEN to the LOVE, BEAUTY and GRACE of the DIVINE PEACE”.
The Peacemaker: http://theflowerangels.wordpress.com/2013/07/04/the-peacemaker/
Whenever I find any overwhelming emotions in the form of anger or hurt, I find saying the switch words, “TOGETHER BOW CONCEDE ADJUST FORGIVE PRAISE THANKS” very useful.
If I simply look at the feeling and say those words, the emotions simply vanish away.
Look at the emotions and say, “I release that part of my mind that is angry. I activate that part of mind that forgives”.
Another example is, “I release that part of me that vomits. I activate that part of mind that stops vomiting”.
You can also do this with whomever you are having problems.
For example, “I release the part which is resisting being harmonious with. I activate the part that brings in harmony, peace and love with so and so”.
This way you can do for any aspect of life. The reason it works is, we have several parts operating– each part taking us in a different direction.
The moment we become aware of it, the healing happens faster.
After employing the technique for a while, one thing I notice however is a sense of fear.
When one skin (emotion) is peeled off, another skin (another emotion) appears. Affirm, “I align the fearing mind with my fearless consciousness”.
Post-Script (R Mohan)
While I was getting help from Naran (for my anger), during the same time, I provided the same suggestions to M (for her hurt): http://healbyanimalspirits.wordpress.com/2013/07/28/entwined-in-love/#comment-2057
Naran says that we come across people with the same problems as we are facing then.
So, we should not worry whether we are providing right solutions to them or not as our solutions apply to them as well.
A patient of Naran remarked about her spouse. He gave the following reply to her. These exercises however can be done anybody who wants to live harmoniously and be happy with them.
Look at oneself first
This is Drama of Life and if one understands, we will come to know, realize and understand that we have to bring in change in ourselves only.
We have to direct the mind towards oneself and then towards others. This is the basis of all healing modalities.
The nature always expects us to move towards perfection.
In this process, one understands not only the DIVINE ORDER, but also realizes that one has to rise above the mind and its tantrums, and become spiritual.
All healing methods help a person to understand his/her own potentials.
Others are mirrors of yourself
Before trying to change the other person do this exercise on you first.
Take a piece of paper and write about him first. Whatever you wanted to say about him write it.
- Insert the word ‘I’ wherever you have put ‘He’.
For example, “He never takes the treatment properly and he escapes”, should be rewritten as “I never take the treatment properly. I escape.”
Change what all you have written about him Into I.
- Now affirm, “I never take the treatment properly. I escape. In spite of this, I accept myself totally”.
Do three rounds of tapping for each sentence.
- Do the forgiving exercise for them. “I forgive you …. (Name) you please forgive me and release me”.
- Send Reiki to him daily.
Problem is the source of solution
Whoever is causing problem to you, can only give you solution.
Whoever irritates or angers you, can only give you peace.
You cannot change your husband. You want him for your status and security. Then you have to heal yourself. Forgive.
- You only have to make your life peaceful. For getting peace with such a person, you have to shed your ego and heal yourself.
Heal your controlling tendencies
Heal your anger and controlling tendency.
We always like people who comply or who just listen to us or obey us implicitly. That is why we want all the people to do this and that as well as agree with us, whatever we say.
When there is slight disagreement, dissent or difference of opinion, we may not like the person.
This dislike of the person who disagrees and the like of the person who agrees create conflicts in life.
- Both are born from our controlling tendency – desire to control or change. Release your desire to control and change others.
You have the power to heal him
What your husband needs attention, love and tolerance. Understand that he is mentally deranged, unlike we who are sane. The sane people are supposed to protect and understand such people.
When you ignore, chide, or send your husband away, who will take care of him?
The God has sent him to you, because you know Reiki.
God has sent him to you, because you know forgiving exercise and you know how to release your karma.
God has sent him to you because you know how to change yourself through flower remedies.
Heal him. This is how god has made him. One drop of love will change him. One iota of kindness can change.
Heal him from the heart. Sympathize with him. If he is the cause of your mental agony, how much he is suffering within mentally. Just help a man who needs help. Pray for him.
He is not a curse to you. He has not become your husband because of your bad karma.
He has come to you for healing. He is a grace for you.
Through him you spiritual journey starts! I hope you will start the Journey!!
On the date of (our) conception, we don’t know the state of our parents.
Let us see how to make them (at that time) into light and love. Then we will also become light and love – I mean we will become good.
We don’t know when we got conceived. So we will take one year before our date of birth and put our parents into light and love.
Form a silver triangle in front of you
All the unaligned non-divine memory frequencies of my past-life, my conception, and my parents that were carried in my womb state are released and kept in the silver triangle.
Other general steps…
Reiki open the green triangles, open my womb state, fill it up with light and love, align and resonate it with grace and rays of wealth and prosperity.
My womb state is open, aligning, and resonating with grace of joy and happiness.
My womb state is open, aligning, and resonating with grace of purity and peace.
My womb state is open, aligning and resonating with the grace of detachment and righteousness
My womb state is open, aligning and resonating with the grace of divine love, gratitude and forgiveness.
My womb state is open, aligning and resonating with the grace of intelligence and creativity, removing the ignorance.
My womb state is open, integrated with physical, mental and spiritual energies of light and love.
My womb state is filled up the grace of purity, peace, divine love, gratitude and forgiveness.
Divine light and love fills up the whole my womb state making it whole and complete.
My womb state is whole and complete with the help of Reiki light and love.
You are re-born. Very good!!
Womb changes into child. Did you feel your own womb state?
Mother is the first person to recognize us.
Mother is the first person to give us love, the taste of first love.
Mother is the first person to approve us and we want approval only. The moment we are born mother approves us.
Sometimes the mother may have different thoughts – for example they would have preferred a boy but a girl was born. Such thoughts were made complete by the meditation we had done now.
How can we complete this further? (Additional steps)
From the state of birth, to the current age divided by three, whatever we had experienced put it in the triangle. Let us say you are 45, do the healing from your date of birth till 15 years.
Healing using Violet Flame
The above techniques can be applied using Violet Flame and you don’t need to know Reiki to do the same. To know how to use Violet Flame healing for our past, please attend workshop on Violet Flame Past-Life Healing.
|On||Not getting stuck up in a situation
Get creative ideas
Stay alert and awake when you work during late nights
|Reach||Find the lost article|
|Reach Divine Order||To come out of long-held negative beliefs|
|Release Resistance||If healing doesn’t happen even after several attempts add these switch words to the healing combination of remedies (during chanting)/ switch words|
|Release Resistance Find Buyer Count Now Done||To find a buyer for your property hasn’t yielded any results even after many efforts.
Buyer is not a switch word.
|Slow Care||Wise people act slowly and carefully, so to become wise these switch words|
|Stretch On||To able to continue doing the task you are currently doing comfortably, especially when you are tired|
|Thanks||To show attitude of gratitude|
|Together||To work out a good relationship with others
Have a balanced mind
Get co-operation from colleagues
To find resolution and resolve conflict with others
|Together Find Centre Divine Love||To find love within and in-turn attract love in your life|
|Together Divine||To improve relationship with your spouse
Bring peace into the family when there is on-going quarrel
|Together Find Divine Love||Attract love and people|
|Together Find Divine Order Count Now On||To get a salary hike
To find money and order out of a situation
|Together Reach Divine Love Centre||Attain Soul Love|
|UP||To manage your depression|
|With||To become compatible with a person|
|Why||It’s an afformation. You ask the brain why something you want has happened. It will find that out for you and make it happen.|
Winning Switch Words Part II: http://reachnaran.com/winning-switch-words-part-ii/
Winning Switch Words Part I: http://reachnaran.com/winning-switch-words-part-i/
Whenever I sit to do mudras before sleeping, my daughter too sits with me but does only Thumb with little and ring fingers (Safe and Secure Mudra).
If I request her to do chin mudra she says no and leaves me. So, I stopped interfering in her meditation techniques. Why is she not doing chin mudra?
She sings with me Namashivayam for 5 times, rhythm with or without CD. Durgama also she sings along with the CD if she is awake by then as I play it by 5.30 am.
I can see the changes in her (touch wood). She listens to me, and obeys me when I request her.
She is completing her homework soon. I allow her to watch cartoon only for 45 minutes and she is okay with it. I am happy with her. I did the accepting exercise for her.
Whenever I try to heal her Solar Plexus and Hara chakras she pulls my hand tightly to her body strongly. Do I need to give more time to heal these chakras?
I am also using harmony pack. I can see the difference.
My husband who used to get irritated for helping me in my daughter’s dressing for school, is now helping me, without me asking or requesting.
The left out harmony water I am pouring to Tulasi plant as we don’t have any other plant. And I can see the plant is healthy and growing tall and fresh.
Thank you, it’s all because of your remedies and your blessing.
Chin Mudra will keep us awake, while Safe and Secure Mudra will make us have a deep sleep.
Children are intuitive enough to know where they need energy. So she is forcing the mother to give Reiki to those areas.
Finding Peace and Harmony at home: http://healbyanimalspirits.wordpress.com/2011/12/29/finding-peace-and-harmony-at-home/
Prayers to ancestors heals the child: http://healyourpastlife.wordpress.com/2013/01/30/prayers-to-ancestors-heals-the-child/
Big thanks for all your replies to my so many questions.
Today, I want to share my experience with two mantras which immediately bestow peace and calmness when chanted with concentration.
First one is “TOGETHER DIVINE” and second is “LALITHAM LAMBODARAM LALITHAM BASKARAM LALITHAM BALACHANDRAM”.
I have tried “TOGETHER DIVINE” three or four times and it never disappointed me.
Today I was feeling sad and I started chanting Lalitham Lambodaram Mantra. Within a few minutes, I found myself in the ocean of peace. It’s amazing!
Best of divine grace!!
TOGETHER is Fine: http://healbyswitchword.wordpress.com/2013/01/01/being-together-is-fine/
Lalitham Lambodaram: http://reachnaran.com/lalitham-lambodaram/
I am facing a lot of problems in marital life. We are on the edge of divorce. I love him and do not want to break this relationship.
Go all out BOW and CONCEDE to make peace.
Write “PEARL, MIMULUS” 100 times
To find the love in your heart and then in life: PEARL
Fear of getting divorced: MIMULUS
BOW and CONCEDE are switch words. You may chant those words too.
Husband said he will never come back, but he did: http://marriagemantri.wordpress.com/2013/04/03/husband-says-he-will-never-come-back/
Make your relationships stronger: http://healbygems.wordpress.com/2012/12/16/make-your-relationships-stronger/
Make your relationship a happy one: http://reachnaran.com/make-your-relationship-a-happy-one/