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You want to sell something. You always come across people who bargain with you.
If you take AGRIMONY, whatever price you ask for, they will pay it.
You expect a quarrel during property distribution in the family. You do not want any quarrel or face conflicts.
If you don’t want any fights, then take AGRIMONY with you as Agrimony is a peacemaker.
My husband is a great fault-finder:
Accomplish your goals:
The aged people can chant the switch words “CARE DIVINE”.
The problem for aged people is that youngsters will not talk to them as they are taken for granted. Particularly those who are aged 70 – 75, children will not share much with them.
Even for small things – medicine or for a blade, which they need, they have to tell 10 times to their children to get it for them.
Such elders can chant “LOVE CARE DIVINE”.
CARE is very important here. Here, CARE means not to be ignored. If one thinks that he is ignored then he has to chant “CARE”.
Ceremoniously do it:
Become Normal! Become Healthy:
Let us see an example
“My husband is not good. He is irritating too”, says the wife.
She is blaming her husband here.
If she has to handle this situation, then what resource (quality) she needs to handle it?
Does she needs to be courageous, be more loving and caring, or be bold?
When there is a problem, you need to ask yourself, “What one resource will enrich me and will help me to handle this life situation”.
This way you are healing yourself. Instead, if some person is angry and you also get angry, then you are gone.
So what do we need here?
People would say she needs patience and tolerance.
Patience is the quality or ability to withstand a situation without getting angry or upset.
If that’s the case, then the Bach Flower IMPATIENS is the remedy. Impatiens will create patience inside you.
You need tolerance also. BEECH is the remedy for it.
Beech and Impatiens go together in cultivating tolerance and patience.
Developing a Life Strategy
Quality of patience, without getting upset or angry about the other person, is waiting inside us, waiting for the right opportunity.
We all need it. If I have it, then I will be striking at the right moment. It’s a Life Strategy.
If we have this quality, we will have more consideration and caring for other people. To develop this strategy, take the flower remedy IMPATIENS.
If I cultivate patience and tolerance (Beech and Impatiens), then I will become more considerate.
Consideration means, there is more love and affection for other person. Then we will become accommodative.
To be more caring, after being considerate, HOLLY is the remedy.
Audit your thoughts:
The Universal Lover:
This is a feedback on using a time tested method of Naran S Balakumar for lost/found item(s).
Last week, a colleague at work within a span of one and half hour saw the cabin room keys were missing from the table where it was kept.
As it was quite early, people who had access was narrow but it was also a sensitive issue to take up before being sure.
Also, due to some construction work quite a few outside laborers and other students etc were moving in the area.
Chanting “REACH” and “FIND” all day was of no avail.
For weekend the security duplicate was used.
This morning, I wrote on a paper, “CERATO, CHESTNUT BUD, ROCK WATER, REACH cabin keys” and asked Wolf (who else?) to help.
In less than an hour, the head called and said that there is a set of keys found by the electrician and asking for verification if it was the one that was lost? It was indeed!
The staff electrician said some student found it fallen in corridor. How and when etc no idea as it was also a Sunday Yesterday.
The person who took it with the purpose of making a duplicate set was a possibility. However, the matter was not pursued further!
Due to the divine flower remedies the matter did not take any serious turn and one more instance of amazing results in managing life problems!
Divine thanks to Naran, his methods as well as his students and followers who encourage others with their experiences and stories!
My Sister Lost a Baggage: https://healbybachflowers.wordpress.com/2012/02/27/my-sister-lost-a-baggage/
I am very happy to come across your website on Bach Flower Remedies and Switch words.
I am independently using some of the switch words and they have really worked wonders for me.
Recently, I was in need of finance quite a large sum but I did not know from which source I will get them.
I just started to chant every now and then the switch words “COUNT DIVINE FIND NOW” and miraculously I got the required money within 2 days.
So, my big big thanks to you! I have no words to convey my gratitude.
Please continue to help people like us! I pray the almighty always grants you happiness and good health.
Find the money source: http://praisedivinelife.wordpress.com/2013/10/01/find-the-money-source/
Thank the borrower: https://abundancein.wordpress.com/2013/08/04/thank-the-borrower/
Visualize all are talking with you in love and kindness.
Visualize everyone you meet and greet you with love.
Before attending a wedding (or any function), visualize all the people in the marriage hall greeting you with love and talking to you with loving words.
Affirm, “Divine Love Manifests in My Life” – from ‘I love myself’ CD
Love follows without fail: https://healbyanimalspirits.wordpress.com/2012/12/10/love-follows-without-fail/
Relationship with Your Parents = Relationship with Others: https://healbybachflowers.wordpress.com/2012/07/30/relationship-with-your-parents-relationship-with-others/
Kindly explain that all of them are our projections means what?
The unfinished and unresolved parts of me e.g. my anger or my judgment about others are coming out in the form of other persons.
When you see them you get angry you dislike them you start criticizing them as if they were not yours.
In other words, your own anger takes the human form reminding you about the past unresolved conflicts.
Instead of repeating what we did in the past, giving Reiki is breaking the pattern.
Whenever I find any overwhelming emotions in the form of anger or hurt, I find saying the switch words, “TOGETHER BOW CONCEDE ADJUST FORGIVE PRAISE THANKS” very useful.
If I simply look at the feeling and say those words, the emotions simply vanish away.
Look at the emotions and say, “I release that part of my mind that is angry. I activate that part of mind that forgives”.
Another example is, “I release that part of me that vomits. I activate that part of mind that stops vomiting”.
You can also do this with whomever you are having problems.
For example, “I release the part which is resisting being harmonious with. I activate the part that brings in harmony, peace and love with so and so”.
This way you can do for any aspect of life. The reason it works is, we have several parts operating– each part taking us in a different direction.
The moment we become aware of it, the healing happens faster.
After employing the technique for a while, one thing I notice however is a sense of fear.
When one skin (emotion) is peeled off, another skin (another emotion) appears. Affirm, “I align the fearing mind with my fearless consciousness”.
Post-Script (R Mohan)
While I was getting help from Naran (for my anger), during the same time, I provided the same suggestions to M (for her hurt): http://healbyanimalspirits.wordpress.com/2013/07/28/entwined-in-love/#comment-2057
Naran says that we come across people with the same problems as we are facing then.
So, we should not worry whether we are providing right solutions to them or not as our solutions apply to them as well.
If someone is angry against you, the FIRE element is more inside you.
To pacify it, you have to react in a different way. If you activate WATER and EARTH elements, then you will become patient and relaxed.
The PRAN MUDRA – little and ring fingers touching the tip on both the hands, will activate your earth and water elements.
When such an unusual response is given – instead of reacting with other person angrily, you treat him in a peaceful manner, then the opposite person don’t have a choice but to react in a different way.
We can also reduce our Anger.
A patient of Naran remarked about her spouse. He gave the following reply to her. These exercises however can be done anybody who wants to live harmoniously and be happy with them.
Look at oneself first
This is Drama of Life and if one understands, we will come to know, realize and understand that we have to bring in change in ourselves only.
We have to direct the mind towards oneself and then towards others. This is the basis of all healing modalities.
The nature always expects us to move towards perfection.
In this process, one understands not only the DIVINE ORDER, but also realizes that one has to rise above the mind and its tantrums, and become spiritual.
All healing methods help a person to understand his/her own potentials.
Others are mirrors of yourself
Before trying to change the other person do this exercise on you first.
Take a piece of paper and write about him first. Whatever you wanted to say about him write it.
- Insert the word ‘I’ wherever you have put ‘He’.
For example, “He never takes the treatment properly and he escapes”, should be rewritten as “I never take the treatment properly. I escape.”
Change what all you have written about him Into I.
- Now affirm, “I never take the treatment properly. I escape. In spite of this, I accept myself totally”.
Do three rounds of tapping for each sentence.
- Do the forgiving exercise for them. “I forgive you …. (Name) you please forgive me and release me”.
- Send Reiki to him daily.
Problem is the source of solution
Whoever is causing problem to you, can only give you solution.
Whoever irritates or angers you, can only give you peace.
You cannot change your husband. You want him for your status and security. Then you have to heal yourself. Forgive.
- You only have to make your life peaceful. For getting peace with such a person, you have to shed your ego and heal yourself.
Heal your controlling tendencies
Heal your anger and controlling tendency.
We always like people who comply or who just listen to us or obey us implicitly. That is why we want all the people to do this and that as well as agree with us, whatever we say.
When there is slight disagreement, dissent or difference of opinion, we may not like the person.
This dislike of the person who disagrees and the like of the person who agrees create conflicts in life.
- Both are born from our controlling tendency – desire to control or change. Release your desire to control and change others.
You have the power to heal him
What your husband needs attention, love and tolerance. Understand that he is mentally deranged, unlike we who are sane. The sane people are supposed to protect and understand such people.
When you ignore, chide, or send your husband away, who will take care of him?
The God has sent him to you, because you know Reiki.
God has sent him to you, because you know forgiving exercise and you know how to release your karma.
God has sent him to you because you know how to change yourself through flower remedies.
Heal him. This is how god has made him. One drop of love will change him. One iota of kindness can change.
Heal him from the heart. Sympathize with him. If he is the cause of your mental agony, how much he is suffering within mentally. Just help a man who needs help. Pray for him.
He is not a curse to you. He has not become your husband because of your bad karma.
He has come to you for healing. He is a grace for you.
Through him you spiritual journey starts! I hope you will start the Journey!!