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Mantra for a Happy Married Life

Minee

I heard a lot about you from my friends.

I’m facing a lot of problems as I’m in love with a guy since past 8 years. He also loves me a lot.

My family has agreed regarding our marriage issues but his family is totally against it as our horoscopes are not matching as I have KAL SARP YOG in my horoscope.

What should I chant in order to remove all these obstacles and his family agrees?

Anu

As suggested by you, I am chanting (switching words) “CLIMB ADJUST TOGETHER CHANGE DIVINE” daily 200 times, for removing little fighting in between me and my would-be husband.

Just 25 days are left for our marriage but there is daily fight between us on phone. I want a loveable and harmonious relation between us.

We get normal after 2 days. I want that nobody can put finger on our fighting as ours is a love marriage.

I want these fights to far away from my both families so that there should be peace and love between us.

Naran

(For both Minee and Anu…the following answer)

Whether the horoscope matches or not, all the couples should understand each other, trust that both live to love each other, shed the ego which is the cause of all conflict, reach harmony somehow, praising each other instead of finding fault, and understanding to communicate after listening.

Chant “BOW PRAISE TOGETHER REACH DIVINE LOVE LISTEN BETWEEN” is the mantra for your happy married life.

Anu

I am really feeling glad for your response. Every answer and solution suggested by you really gives us message and lesson!

Thank you Naran!!

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Release the Enemy Within

R Mohan

Whenever I find any overwhelming emotions in the form of anger or hurt, I find saying the switch words, “TOGETHER BOW CONCEDE ADJUST FORGIVE PRAISE THANKS” very useful.

If I simply look at the feeling and say those words, the emotions simply vanish away.

Naran

Look at the emotions and say, “I release that part of my mind that is angry. I activate that part of mind that forgives”.

Another example is, “I release that part of me that vomits. I activate that part of mind that stops vomiting”.

You can also do this with whomever you are having problems.

For example, “I release the part which is resisting being harmonious with. I activate the part that brings in harmony, peace and love with so and so”.

This way you can do for any aspect of life. The reason it works is, we have several parts operating– each part taking us in a different direction.

The moment we become aware of it, the healing happens faster.

R Mohan

After employing the technique for a while, one thing I notice however is a sense of fear.

Naran

When one skin (emotion) is peeled off, another skin (another emotion) appears. Affirm, “I align the fearing mind with my fearless consciousness”.

Post-Script (R Mohan)

While I was getting help from Naran (for my anger), during the same time, I provided the same suggestions to M (for her hurt): http://healbyanimalspirits.wordpress.com/2013/07/28/entwined-in-love/#comment-2057

Naran says that we come across people with the same problems as we are facing then.

So, we should not worry whether we are providing right solutions to them or not as our solutions apply to them as well.

In-laws are separating us

MALS

I have been chanting “BE TINY BOW CONCEDE TOGETHER PRAISE DIVINE”, but no response yet.

Please help as everybody from my in-laws side are doing everything to separate us and are also not allowing me to come back home.

My husband has also not communicated to me since past 5 months.

They had sent us notice 5 months back and are also not ready to talk to any of my family members to sort things.

I love him lot and want to save our marriage.

Naran

Do the forgiving exercise for your in-laws.

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Do you know why she doesn’t appreciate?

Patient: My wife loves me a lot. She is a very considerate person. At the same time, when it comes to my way of doing, she is highly intolerant. Surprisingly, she tolerates others’ mistakes to a greater extent – this includes my parent’s actions too.

Naran

One part of her is tolerant, while the other part of her is intolerant – especially to you. It shows, somehow you trigger the other – unwanted part in her.

Do you have a similar behavior in yourself?

Patient: Yeah! In general, I always tend to correct the way of others and not just one person. I believe everything has to be done correctly, with the right people, and at the right time.

Naran

I will teach you a simple method here.  

Affirm as many times as possible:

 “I RELEASE the PART of ME that is criticized by me”. 

“I OPEN ALIGN WITH the PART of ME that evokes her tolerance to PRAISE me”.

You can write them too.

The letters in UPPER CASE is fixed. The rest of the statement, you can fill with whatever you want. This way, you are releasing the behavior you don’t want and activating the behavior you want in others.

Program Your Life Part II

Read the first part of the article here: http://reachnaran.com/program-your-life-part-i/

Be with your feelings

Naran

Focus on the feeling, with Adi Mudra.

Say, “Yes, there is … (mention the feeling here, for example, a feeling of sadness)”

“I welcome this … (feeling)”. But, can I let go this feeling?

If you get the answer “yes”, then just say, “I let go of this … (feeling)”

Is the feeling is still there? Ask the mind, “Can I let go just 10% of the feeling?” If the answer is yes, then proceed further and let go another 10%.

Still you are unable to come out of stagnation.

Now, observe your thoughts.

Can I release this thought?

If the answer is yes then say, “I release … (thought)”

If the answer is “no”, then ask another question, “Is this thought useful to me?”

“No.” means you need to let go of the thoughts. Release all the thoughts one by one.

Find out which desire is behind the emotions.

Is it the desire to control or change the person or event, or the desire for approval or the desire to feel more secure? Ask the mind again.

If there is desire to control or change ask, “Can I release the desire to control?”

Yes means, “I accept my desire to control but I let go this desire to control”.

Is there any desire for approval? (Desiring for praise, recognition)

If yes means, “I just release this desire for approval.”

Is there any desire to feel more secure? or is there is any fear?

If yes means, “I release this desire to feel more secure; or i release my lack of trust ”

After some time, there will not be any feeling or thought. Peace dawns. Now take the required action. 

Read the final part of the article here: http://reachnaran.com/exercises-for-program-your-life/

12-Praise

12 Praise

When the child behaves badly and not listening to you, energize the symbol of PRAISE () so that the child behaves laudably, worthy of other’s love.

This word contains the energy of “THANKS” within.

Write the child’s name in the blank circle.

Chant the switch word PRAISE looking at the symbol.

Take Care of Your Career

Monica

I want to ask you some remedies for my son Aryan. He is very lazy and keeps procrastinating important things like studies.

I am worried about his career as he is very childish at times. He is soon going to give entrance exams. I am bit worried about him.

Naran

Give him SCLERANTHUS, WILD OAT and WALNUT.

Chant “SLOW CARE BRING PRAISE DIVINE”

Explanation

Procrastinating studies: SCLERANTHUS

Develop career: WILD OAT

Develop the habit of studying well: WALNUT

Make the child do praise-worthy things: BRING PRAISE DIVINE

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When troubles pass we forget the blessings

Jay

Dear Naran,

Today, I visited your website after many days and was pleasantly surprised to see the blog back. I looked at some of old mails to you and the way you have responded in my times of need.

It is amazing!! What all experiences and times you have been there with me!!! I have confided in you at times more than anybody else in the world. How much you have given me!!! I love you!!!

I am so deeply grateful for all love and support in the face of the perpetual troubles – big and small. 

Ever since I found your blog, my life has almost invisibly and gently improved for the better. I have had many miracles, many blessings, many glorious experiences and I am so grateful for every one of them until this point.

I look forward by your blessings, the blessings of all compassionate beings, enlightened beings and gods. When troubles pass, we forget the blessings. It’s an eternal human frailty.

So, when I feel a moment of pure gratitude, I want to thank you and not leave in unsaid…god bless you!!

I look forward again to read your blogs. I wish you happiness, health and love.

Do keep your love and blessings on me and my loved ones. LOVE THANKS PRAISE DIVINE

Get a promotion and find harmony as well

Ms. Rita

I’m a science teacher in Haryana govt. (TGT Grade). Last month, department asked for promotion case for Biology lecturer and the eligibility required was M.Sc., B.Ed. I send my case.

But know in yesterday’s letter they have put condition of Haryana Teacher Eligibility Test qualification certificate, which was never a condition beforeor earlier. Candidates are required to submit their forms within a week.

I think it is only my hard luck that this condition has been put as TGT’s were not required to pass this test earlier.

I have lost my sleep as this time, all the vacancies will be filled in 2 months for lecturers and there will be no further scope for promotion in coming next 10-15 years.

Plz suggest me some mantra or anything to help me to get promotion.

Naran

Chant “CRYSTAL GORSE WOLF REACH HELP DONE”

Write in a paper, “398 SLOW CARE” and keep it under the pillow.

If there is resentment and anger then release that.

Ms. Rita

Thanks to Mr. Naran. Thanks to Gorse. Thanks to Wolf.

It really worked.

I don’t from where last page of notice has appeared in which it is mentioned that for promotion case HTET passing certificate is not required!

Now, I’m eligible to fill promotion form.

Now further should I continue to chant the same switch words to ensure my promotion or you would like to suggest something else?

Naran

Chant, “CRYSTAL GORSE WOLF REACH HELP DIVINE promotion DONE”

In your life, find one positive quality in each and every member of your family, friends, teachers or colleagues.

Think about them chant TOGETHER PRAISE DIVINE.

Find a positive quality of anyone whom you criticized or blamed and chant TOGETHER PRAISE DIVINE.

Write in a notebook TOGETHER PRAISE DIVINE daily 51 times.

Write TOGETHER PRAISE DIVINE in a paper and keep it under the pillow

Ms. Rita

Since you suggested I’m chanting TOGETHER PRAISE DIVINE daily.

Though, I could not write it in notebook for 3-4 days as I was out of station but later I finished those pending pages also.

I am observing a slight change in my staff member’s attitude towards me. They are softer to me.

Although, they have not given me a king’s throne, without any clash they  are trying to finish their answer sheet marking, assessment of children in school, which otherwise a govt. teacher do with a very slow pace causing delay in result preparation.

I hope this chanting will make my colleagues more honest to their work and bring harmony at my workplace.

Thanks a lot for such beautiful and easy remedies which can heal difficult situations.

Naran

Add the word LINK to the phrase (TOGETHER PRAISE LINK DIVINE)

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Conflicts Inside Out

Madhu

What can I do when I feel that my future is not good or happy? Should I chant release?

Why this type of thought comes on mind…..is it any signal?

Naran

The mind is not one. It is a union of various parts – accumulation of all surviving emotions. Each works in a different and opposite ways.

This thought comes from that part of mind which is fearful. Don’t get yourself bogged down by this thought. Treat this as a doubt asking by some part of the mind.

Think that somebody is asking you. Give a reply to that part as another person like this, “Don’t be afraid. Release your fear. You are safe and secured”.

That part (of the mind) for the time being will keep quite. After sometime it may again raise the doubt. Every time give the same answer and escape.

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