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One drop of love will change him

A patient of Naran remarked about her spouse. He gave the following reply to her. These exercises however can be done anybody who wants to live harmoniously and be happy with them.


Look at oneself first

This is Drama of Life and if one understands, we will come to know, realize and understand that we have to bring in change in ourselves only.

We have to direct the mind towards oneself and then towards others. This is the basis of all healing modalities.

The nature always expects us to move towards perfection.

In this process, one understands not only the DIVINE ORDER, but also realizes that one has to rise above the mind and its tantrums, and become spiritual.

All healing methods help a person to understand his/her own potentials.

Others are mirrors of yourself

Before trying to change the other person do this exercise on you first.

Take a piece of paper and write about him first. Whatever you wanted to say about him write it.

  • Insert the word ‘I’ wherever you have put ‘He’.

For example, “He never takes the treatment properly and he escapes”, should be rewritten as “I never take the treatment properly. I escape.”

Change what all you have written about him Into I.

  • Now affirm, “I never take the treatment properly. I escape. In spite of this, I accept myself totally”.

Do three rounds of tapping for each sentence.

  • Do the forgiving exercise for them. “I forgive you …. (Name) you please forgive me and release me”.
  • Send Reiki to him daily.

Problem is the source of solution

Whoever is causing problem to you, can only give you solution.

Whoever irritates or angers you, can only give you peace. 

You cannot change your husband. You want him for your status and security. Then you have to heal yourself. Forgive.

  • You only have to make your life peaceful. For getting peace with such a person, you have to shed your ego and heal yourself.

Heal your controlling tendencies

Heal your anger and controlling tendency.

We always like people who comply or who just listen to us or obey us implicitly. That is why we want all the people to do this and that as well as agree with us, whatever we say.

When there is slight disagreement, dissent or difference of opinion, we may not like the person.

This dislike of the person who disagrees and the like of the person who agrees create conflicts in life.

  • Both are born from our controlling tendency – desire to control or change.  Release your desire to control and change others.

You have the power to heal him

What your husband needs attention, love and tolerance. Understand that he is mentally deranged, unlike we who are sane. The sane people are supposed to protect and understand such people.

When you ignore, chide, or send your husband away, who will take care of him?

The God has sent him to you, because you know Reiki.

God has sent him to you, because you know forgiving exercise and you know how to release your karma.

God has sent him to you because you know how to change yourself through flower remedies.

Heal him. This is how god has made him. One drop of love will change him. One iota of kindness can change.

Heal him from the heart. Sympathize with him. If he is the cause of your mental agony, how much he is suffering within mentally. Just help a man who needs help. Pray for him.

He is not a curse to you. He has not become your husband because of your bad karma.

He has come to you for healing. He is a grace for you.

Through him you spiritual journey starts! I hope you will start the Journey!!

Misled by a fraudulent lawyer

Jayshree Ahuja

I was misled by an erroneous/fraudulent lawyer to take some steps for a court case…However not only did the case fail. It has in fact boomeranged against me…

Now, I am requesting the lawyer to return the fee paid to him as he has worked against me. Kindly share with me the Switch Words to make him realize that I am not at fault.



One thing you should understand is whether the lawyer wins the case or not, he has to be paid for his work.

Jayshree Ahuja

Reason, I am asking him for the money is because he knew that I already had a case running.

I had told him that he shouldn’t be doing another FIR for the same case as it was obvious that it would go against me and I warned him of it…


Do the forgiving exercise and pay him.

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Messages from God


God gives us messages through nature. Every day god is with us and sends messages continuously. When you get the messages, don’t consider the whole line, but consider the words.

Condition the mind by thinking about god, read stories, and meditate. They will make you realize that god is everything.

Listen dispassionately without judgment for example in a busy place like a railway station. Watch what is happening around you and listen.

Maintain a journal and then after a week all the messages will make sense to you.

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Exercises for Program Your Life

Read the 1st part of the article here:

Read the 2nd part of the article here:


For the following imaginary life situations do the releasing techniques mentioned in the articles referred above:

  1. Power cut, when you are having your dinner.
  2. When you leave the house to drive to Airport, you realize your car key is missing.
  3. You are a branch manager of a bank; gave a loan believing that the client would submit the document the next day. For the next three days, he didn’t.
  4. You are invited to lecture on a topic. You prepared well and delivered it. After the event, many in the audience said that they knew the stuff already.
  5. Feelings and thoughts about an unreasonable spouse/co-worker/servant
  6. When a cop demands the driving license, you proudly showed it. The cop retorted, “What is this! You are showing an expired license!”
  7. You have ordered for a takeaway. Friends have arrived, but not the dinner. The caterer phone switched off.

Rude Boss becomes Appreciating Boss


Sometimes things seem to get worse before it gets better. But in getting worse the situation tests us and strengthens us in ways we cannot imagine or know.

All we need to learn is to sit still and watch our mind as the fluid situation morphs, and shifts.

We learn to see our fear, guilt, and our negative tendencies.

We learn to be watchful, not restful. We understand that growth, life, is characterized by changes.

Situations morph rapidly. We realize that there is really no beginning or end, it is our mind that creates the illusion.

We learned these from our own experience detailed below:

One man, thirty machines and endless working hours

Last year, we contacted Naran when my husband was going through lot of challenges at work. He had been in the new job for two years and doing very well.

Then, the supervisor began adding new machines to the lab. It was one man and 15 machines to begin with. It was manageable.

Each machine was specialized and the chemicals cost a lot of money. If experiments failed, it would be difficult to make up for the loss of valuable samples and the wastage of time and money. It was challenging to finish jobs that were lined up on all of the machines.

The lab ended up with 30 machines and one man. Working continuously made my husband tired and unable to think. And he began to work on weekends too. To make the situation worse, his supervisor began to shout at him. 

My husband was threatened that he will be fired

In May last year, the Director called my husband and threatened to remove him. No reasons were given and he was shouted at him for 30 minutes.

My husband was shaken and could not understand what had happened. Naran asked us to chant “I AM A BEING OF VIOLET FIRE. I AM PURITY OF GOD DESIRES.”

Naran also asked us to chant and write— “OM GAM GANAPATHAYE NAMAHA”.

We have continued to do it every day from then on. 

The director apologized

Within a week of this chanting, the Director came and apologized to my husband for his outburst. He told my husband that he hope that my husband would not quit because of the outburst.

We were surprised and grateful at the turn of events. We continued to write the Ganesh mantra and be relaxed.

Surprise became Shock

In June, my husband was called again and the Director said he would put him on probation for the job. This really disturbed my husband and he couldn’t sleep or eat.

Naran advised us to write (the Bach Flower Remedies) – “ELM, WATER VIOLET, HOLLY, VINE, HORNBEAM” in a piece of paper and keep it in my husband’s pocket and do the same in another paper and keep it under the pillow. And Naran asked me to chant (Bach Flower Remedies) “RED CHESTNUT, VINE”.

And to improve the working atmosphere, Naran advised my husband to chant the switch words, “LOVE, THANK, TOGETHER DIVINE”. My husband began to juggle these new responsibilities. His job was reduced to 75% time from 100%. However, he had to work for 100% of the time.

Now comes a big surprise

Six months later, we had a surprise when the administrators asked people to submit their job descriptions and responsibilities for comparing it with what people were getting paid for across the nation.  My husband’s position was also called for reclassification.  Naran asked us to chant:GENTIAN, LARCH, THANK, TOGETHER DIVINE ORDER COUNT NOW DONE”.

Back to square one – problems started again

On December 10th, we returned to the same critical situation when, my husband’s Director called him and made him sign a memorandum saying he would fix all machines within December 20th. My husband had been working with the companies for months and nothing had been resolved. The Director was aware of all this.  

Naran advised us to download a picture of MUSTARD (Bach flower) and PINK TOURMALINE (gem remedy) and paste both on the name of my husband. And also chant the switch words “TOGETHER CHANGE NOW”.

Everything went smoothly like a whistle

Thanks to these divine interventions, the deadline passed off smoothly without an incident.

But the biggest challenge was negotiating the annual review that was due at the end of the month.  The annual review would determine if he would stay or go. In the current economic market, it was very hard to land another job. Living in the US without citizenship meant that we had to show continuous employment status. We continued to chant TOGETHER CHANGE NOW and write the Ganapathi mantra daily.

Annual review came on the right time 

The annual review was postponed to January. It so happened that Divine took care of everything so beautifully. On Thursday, his immediate supervisor completed my husband’s annual review and gave him glowing references. They also discussed about my husband getting more help in the lab, and reinstating his job to 100% from 75% that he is currently on.

Three days later, the Director who was shouting at him all the time, said that there was no need for another review and he had nothing to add or change to the review already performed, and he agreed with everything. Everyone who knows the Director says this is nothing short of a miracle!

 The director accepted his failings openly

Last week, the Director called my husband privately and told him that his personality was that of a person who magnified the negative. From his interactions with my husband he is realizing that he had to appreciate everything positive and not pay so much importance to the negative.

My husband said he politely thanked him and left, but inside he was shouting ‘Together Divine’ in a deafening crescendo. He felt so happy that he didn’t have to say a word for this change to come over! The flowers, gems, the switch words are so beautiful and so powerful!

We successfully sailed through the stressful phase

We are grateful for the divine to have helped us through this difficult and stressful phase. The chants helped us stay focused and positive and not panic. We found time daily to chant ‘Together Divine’ and write ‘Om Gam Ganapathayae Namaha.’

 Lessons learned

We understand and are grateful that our future unfolds in small clear steps.

We have the opportunity to be watchful, present and steer the direction of our life.

Naran taught us patiently and gently to keep our mind open to the gifts that every situation brings in and not be carry our old patterns with us.

We are continuing to learn.


Thank you for sharing. What we need is trust in divinity. Yours has vindicated that. Best of luck!!!

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Many thanks for all your help to me it has made a difference.

I am unable to overcome my sadness and crying.  I realize I have to accept the situation. I also need to be happy and joyful.

My husband is coming home on 13th for the time my sons visit. My son is coming home on 14th and a family holiday has been planned from 22nd to May 2nd.

I need to be able to handle the situation with a happy disposition and with energy. However, I am very tired all the time.

I wish we could be reconciled and a happy family with love and trust.  

I wish my son is happy-safe, free of addictions, and desire and will to study well. 

I am also starting a business. I wish the energy to carry it through and make it a success.

I am presently at Prashant for a two week of Yoga Ayurveda Therapy.  

I am looking forward to your advice.


Take the flower remedies CENTAURY, WALNUT, OLIVE, WILD ROSE and HORNBEAM to feel energetic and tonified.

In addition, do as per the instructions in “Becoming Happy is in Your Hands”:

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We are not excited about each other


It has been 2 years & 6 months since I got married.  Problem is conceiving a baby.  We are trying from past 1 year but we are not able to have. 

One more thing we are becoming a bit lazy in sexual matters.  We have noticed that in a month of 30 days we involve in sex for only 2 or 3 times, which is really bad on our part.

We actually realize this thing. And want to improve.  Please help us out.  I just want to conceive & deliver a baby.


If you are having two or three times, have it ten days after menstruation is over.

Hang a picture of RABBIT in the bedroom. Hang a picture of PIGEON in the dining hall.

You can chant “SWEETCHESTNUT, WALNUT, HORNBEAM” any number of time while retiring to bed.

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Marriage Miracle in a Hurry

Client, June14th

We are in love from 3 years; we are aged 30 yrs; finding hurdles in getting married, though we don’t have any restrictions from both of our families.

He is having a sister of 28 yrs of age. She is not getting any proper proposals. He tells that after sister gets committed, we will marry.

I’m having a brother who is also nearing 29yrs.His life must also be settled. He is torturing my parents like anything because of me. 

Naran, June 15th


Client, June 25th

As per your advice, I’m chanting. The pressure from my family is increasing day by day and my brother is torturing my parents.

Pls give me any switch word so that my boy-friend will agree for the marriage immediately. I’m mentally and physically disturbed. I don’t want to get married to anybody other than him.

My kind request is to save my life; bless us for an early marriage.

Naran, 26th June



Thank you, hoping for the miracle to happen.

Client, June30th

Miracle happened today.

Yesterday, I went near his place and adamantly told him that he should marry me. Finally, after nearly 3 hours he agreed to tie the knot.

I told my parents in the morning that he’s agreed for marrying. All arrangements were made in a hurry and finally along with my parents we married in a temple.


From “Ask Naran” on “BEECH, WILLOW, PINE”:

Understand that every event in every person’s life is happening with mathematical precision- SUPREME DIVINE ORDER. Understand Divine is the doer and thank the divine for anything and everything happening in your life. If you accept the life as it unfolds, everything will happen right. To realize this, chant “BEECH WILLOW PINE” and calmness will surround you.

For her boy-friend not to escape: CHESTNUT BUD

Open Save Divine Delight:  I OPEN up to the DIVINE GRACE, so that I am LIBERATED from the present problem miraculously, to my DELIGHT.

Retired From Government Service


Ramachandran retired from his government services. He got a sum of five lakhs of rupees towards his final settlement.

Ramachandran was always thinking about his office. I gave him WALNUT (for transition) and HONEYSUCKLE (not to think about the office) separately. 

Chandran a friend of Ramachandran asked him to deposit a sum of five lakhs of rupees in a benefit fund, where Chandran is working and he had meet his target.

Ramachandran said yes. He wrote the cheque and asked his friend to collect it in the evening, as the time then is auspicious.

Around 11 am, Ramachandran heard the news that his uncle has passed away. Therefore, he left for Coimbatore.

“Life events happen without asking us. We are always concerned about our children, our environment and us.

However, for divinity, every molecule in this Universe is important. It would have preferred him not to give the cheque.”

He informed Chandran from the bus stand, that he would come back and give the cheque after two days.

Nevertheless, Chandran insisted that he needs it to complete his target ASAP.  Ramachandran pleaded his inability to give the cheque.

Ramachandran came back after 3 days, just to realize the closure of the benefit fund due to lack of funds.

He mentioned to me that one of the flowers has stopped him from paying the money and losing it. 

I told him, “It is Honey Suckle.”

Before taking any important decisions, take HONEYSUCKLE, for example in the case of letting out our homes or leasing it.

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My mind and body is not in coordination



Dear Naran,

Yesterday I had this strange experience.

As I was sleeping in the morning, for some more time, feeling very tired, in spite of my daughter and husband, who had woken up already. My husband told me that it’s ok for me to sleep, for some more time.

After a few minutes, I wanted to wake up, but could not. I yelled my husband’s name and called him, but he did not turn up at all. Nethraa, my daughter, saw me yelling and came near me. In addition, my husband also came, and they tried to make me get up with great difficulty.

And suddenly, I opened my eyes, only to realize that all those five minutes were a dream. But, that dream was pathetic. I got really scared, if I would really be able to get up.

This is not the first time that has happened to me like that.

My mom, when I discussed with her said, that it happens like that when you are really tired. Our body does not get up even though our mind gets up. Naran, could you please explain more on why this happens?


Yes what your mom says is right. There was no co-ordination between mind and body. It is an inner cry for help. Release this.

In addition, take the Bach Flower Remedies ASPEN and CLEMATIS before sleeping.


Aspen: for nightmares

Clematis: when the mind and body is not in co-ordination

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