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Have no pressure at work

Vijay

I am currently into Banking and working for an IT company.

I am unable to cope up the pressure and to understand a concept properly. I am also lacking confidence and interest.

I need help to have courage and work properly to achieve results and be happy.

Naran 

You can take flower remedies MUSTARD, OAK, LARCH, CHESTNUT BUD and RESCUE REMEDY.

Take 2 pills of each three times a day. Take the pills one by one. Don’t touch by hands.

RESCUE REMEDY alone you put 10 pills in a water bottle and keep it in the office. Sip small quantity every one hour. You can take RESCUE REMEDY water in the night also before sleeping.

Explanation

To understand the concept: MUSTARD

Not to struggle: OAK

To have confidence: LARCH

To learn faster: CHESTNUT BUD

To overcome tension: RESCUE REMEDY

Learn to Drive Safely

Srinivas

With Car driving I have following problems:

  • While driving I have fear that I may hit or some other will hit me.
  • While driving at junctions, taking turns or while stopping, instead of pressing Clutch  and Break, I may press accelerator due to some nervousness or tension.
  • Sometimes I am unable to concentrate on all sides i.e. if I am looking straight, I may not look at left side where I may hit some object.
  • In fact, I have strong desire to master Car Driving. However, when I look at my performance, it is very slow, it appears so.

Naran

Chant “MIMULUS, IMPATIENS, CHESTNUT BUD, SLOW CARE”, while driving or before you start driving.

Explanation

The Bach Flower combination I give for riding any vehicle is MIMULUS, IMPATIENS and CHESTNUT BUD.

While driving I have fear that I may hit or some other will hit me: Mimulus

While driving at junctions, taking turns or while stopping, instead of pressing Clutch and Break, I may press accelerator due to some nervousness or tension: Impatiens

Sometimes I am unable to concentrate on all sides i.e. if I am looking straight, I may not look at left side where I may hit some object: Chestnut Bud

To learn and master anything the switch words SLOW CARE is a must.

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Trying hard to build our house

AVI

I and my husband have been trying hard to build our house since last year. Because of insufficient money we are unable to complete the house till now.

My husband works very hard and has to work many night and days consecutively.

Naran

  1. Take the flower remedies MUSTARD, OAK and HORNBEAM – 3 doses of 2 pills each.
  2. Have a picture of CORAL in the pocket.

Explanation

No solution in sight to find source of funds: MUSTARD

Working hard but with no favorable results: OAK and HORNBEAM

Gem remedy CORAL belongs to earth element. Anything concerned with land and building can be healed by Coral.

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Progress in finding a job

DKS

My present company is on a verge of closing. I am unable to find a suitable job and also suffering from bad back pain for last 3 years.

Naran

Chant “VALLABAM GAJAANANAM EKA DHANTHAM”

DKS

I have been chanting this for last one month but I don’t see any positive reply. Please help me overcome my present problem.

Naran

Chant “RELEASE RESISTANCE, FIND DIVINE ORDER COUNT NOW DONE”.

Write “VALLABAM GAJAANANAM EKA DHANTHAM” 51 times daily

Explanation

When you are unsuccessful in getting something done, it means there is a resistance to do it. So “RELEASE RESISTANCE” was added to the basic mantra for job finding “FIND DIVINE ORDER COUNT NOW DONE”.

Vallabam mantra is given in the first place for back pain as well as job. When a person is jobless, he may feel insecure, and this could cause a back pain.

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Solving mathematical problems

AA

What should a student do who gets disturbed if he is not able to solve one sum out of 10 sums in practical papers? He also gets one step wrong in each sum.

Do you have some solutions to deal with practical exam papers?

Naran

What for you want remedies? Not to get disturbed? Or for putting sums rightly?

AA

In practical exams like Maths, if 10 sums are asked, the student solves 9 sums but at least one step he does wrong in each sum and then one sum he lefts totally.

Finally, he gets depressed or disturbed by that thinking he has not given 100% in paper.

Naran

If one does not understand the basics of Maths MUSTARD flower remedy will help him understand the subject well.

Unable to learn from the mistakes is CHESTNUTBUD.

The combination of Mustard and Chestnut bud will make any one understand and learn the subject well.

Any student will regret the mistakes he committed in the exam. Not to regret, is HONEY SUCKLE.

Roles People Play

Reddy

Quite often, we are required to play different roles with respect to the same person. In the process lot of misunderstandings occur due to perception at both ends.

At work, we have a subordinate who is also a friend. This friend does not play his role in the office as required.

In the role of a friend, you try to protect him in various ways besides telling him / her about the problems in a friendly manner.

However, if it is not adhered to, it may go the extreme end that you may even need to terminate him/her. It is a very difficult choice. You are torn between both the roles.

In the earlier days, we could take a very dharmic stand and take decisions.

However, now we are required to play a role negotiating happiness for various people in the name of Professionalism / Management etc and suffer.

At home, we have to act as a Parent, Friend, Teacher, friend to your kids.

Often a role is over played by each of the participant resulting in clashes and misunderstanding. Each forgets that they are over stepping on the other role due to inherent flair for one.

Thus, a parent who is generally has a strong Vasanas of a Teacher in making, preaches more and is not able to know when to cut off and act as a friend.

Please give your recommendation to solve the above by way of flower remedy.

Naran

Whatever the role we play, let us ask a simple question.

What is that we lack in any role?

Basically, every relationship is based on communication. How do we communicate? What do we communicate? What do we want to communicate?

The objective of any communication is to reach out to the other person.

BEECH is the remedy for improving our communication.

What are the negative mental states of Beech?

  • Unable to understand other man’s point of view
  • Unable to appreciate other man’s priorities
  • Intolerance
  • Fault-finding
  • Desire to control or change the other person

If one is in one of the above mental states, right communication will not take place. Here, how Beech can help us?

BEECH can bridge the gap between two persons and makes one understand other man’s point of view.

WALNUT should be taken along with Beech. Walnut can bring in change in the mind. A changed outlook and a changed view will give a different communication tool.

For you Mr. Reddy, in addition to taking BEECH and WALNUT, you take CENTAURY also, while communicating in the office.

“What would my friend think? Will he be hurt, if I say this?” These expressions belong to negative mental state of Centaury.

Rushrush

Wonderfully explained….your site is a healthy addiction.

I feel the need to read it like a holy book everyday…sorting out life’s many questions and seeking the right answer….

I follow so many remedies you advice, go through the topics so many times, sometimes apply my 2 cents worth as well….analyse life’s situation from a different angle….

I have changed so much in my mind and heart…..all because of being a part of this wonderful site and your guidance!!!!

Thank you ever so much…….Naran….THERE’s still so much to absorb from you……..regards……

Program Your Life Part II

Read the first part of the article here: http://reachnaran.com/program-your-life-part-i/

Be with your feelings

Naran

Focus on the feeling, with Adi Mudra.

Say, “Yes, there is … (mention the feeling here, for example, a feeling of sadness)”

“I welcome this … (feeling)”. But, can I let go this feeling?

If you get the answer “yes”, then just say, “I let go of this … (feeling)”

Is the feeling is still there? Ask the mind, “Can I let go just 10% of the feeling?” If the answer is yes, then proceed further and let go another 10%.

Still you are unable to come out of stagnation.

Now, observe your thoughts.

Can I release this thought?

If the answer is yes then say, “I release … (thought)”

If the answer is “no”, then ask another question, “Is this thought useful to me?”

“No.” means you need to let go of the thoughts. Release all the thoughts one by one.

Find out which desire is behind the emotions.

Is it the desire to control or change the person or event, or the desire for approval or the desire to feel more secure? Ask the mind again.

If there is desire to control or change ask, “Can I release the desire to control?”

Yes means, “I accept my desire to control but I let go this desire to control”.

Is there any desire for approval? (Desiring for praise, recognition)

If yes means, “I just release this desire for approval.”

Is there any desire to feel more secure? or is there is any fear?

If yes means, “I release this desire to feel more secure; or i release my lack of trust ”

After some time, there will not be any feeling or thought. Peace dawns. Now take the required action. 

Read the final part of the article here: http://reachnaran.com/exercises-for-program-your-life/

Rude Boss becomes Appreciating Boss

Swarna

Sometimes things seem to get worse before it gets better. But in getting worse the situation tests us and strengthens us in ways we cannot imagine or know.

All we need to learn is to sit still and watch our mind as the fluid situation morphs, and shifts.

We learn to see our fear, guilt, and our negative tendencies.

We learn to be watchful, not restful. We understand that growth, life, is characterized by changes.

Situations morph rapidly. We realize that there is really no beginning or end, it is our mind that creates the illusion.

We learned these from our own experience detailed below:

One man, thirty machines and endless working hours

Last year, we contacted Naran when my husband was going through lot of challenges at work. He had been in the new job for two years and doing very well.

Then, the supervisor began adding new machines to the lab. It was one man and 15 machines to begin with. It was manageable.

Each machine was specialized and the chemicals cost a lot of money. If experiments failed, it would be difficult to make up for the loss of valuable samples and the wastage of time and money. It was challenging to finish jobs that were lined up on all of the machines.

The lab ended up with 30 machines and one man. Working continuously made my husband tired and unable to think. And he began to work on weekends too. To make the situation worse, his supervisor began to shout at him. 

My husband was threatened that he will be fired

In May last year, the Director called my husband and threatened to remove him. No reasons were given and he was shouted at him for 30 minutes.

My husband was shaken and could not understand what had happened. Naran asked us to chant “I AM A BEING OF VIOLET FIRE. I AM PURITY OF GOD DESIRES.”

Naran also asked us to chant and write— “OM GAM GANAPATHAYE NAMAHA”.

We have continued to do it every day from then on. 

The director apologized

Within a week of this chanting, the Director came and apologized to my husband for his outburst. He told my husband that he hope that my husband would not quit because of the outburst.

We were surprised and grateful at the turn of events. We continued to write the Ganesh mantra and be relaxed.

Surprise became Shock

In June, my husband was called again and the Director said he would put him on probation for the job. This really disturbed my husband and he couldn’t sleep or eat.

Naran advised us to write (the Bach Flower Remedies) – “ELM, WATER VIOLET, HOLLY, VINE, HORNBEAM” in a piece of paper and keep it in my husband’s pocket and do the same in another paper and keep it under the pillow. And Naran asked me to chant (Bach Flower Remedies) “RED CHESTNUT, VINE”.

And to improve the working atmosphere, Naran advised my husband to chant the switch words, “LOVE, THANK, TOGETHER DIVINE”. My husband began to juggle these new responsibilities. His job was reduced to 75% time from 100%. However, he had to work for 100% of the time.

Now comes a big surprise

Six months later, we had a surprise when the administrators asked people to submit their job descriptions and responsibilities for comparing it with what people were getting paid for across the nation.  My husband’s position was also called for reclassification.  Naran asked us to chant:GENTIAN, LARCH, THANK, TOGETHER DIVINE ORDER COUNT NOW DONE”.

Back to square one – problems started again

On December 10th, we returned to the same critical situation when, my husband’s Director called him and made him sign a memorandum saying he would fix all machines within December 20th. My husband had been working with the companies for months and nothing had been resolved. The Director was aware of all this.  

Naran advised us to download a picture of MUSTARD (Bach flower) and PINK TOURMALINE (gem remedy) and paste both on the name of my husband. And also chant the switch words “TOGETHER CHANGE NOW”.

Everything went smoothly like a whistle

Thanks to these divine interventions, the deadline passed off smoothly without an incident.

But the biggest challenge was negotiating the annual review that was due at the end of the month.  The annual review would determine if he would stay or go. In the current economic market, it was very hard to land another job. Living in the US without citizenship meant that we had to show continuous employment status. We continued to chant TOGETHER CHANGE NOW and write the Ganapathi mantra daily.

Annual review came on the right time 

The annual review was postponed to January. It so happened that Divine took care of everything so beautifully. On Thursday, his immediate supervisor completed my husband’s annual review and gave him glowing references. They also discussed about my husband getting more help in the lab, and reinstating his job to 100% from 75% that he is currently on.

Three days later, the Director who was shouting at him all the time, said that there was no need for another review and he had nothing to add or change to the review already performed, and he agreed with everything. Everyone who knows the Director says this is nothing short of a miracle!

 The director accepted his failings openly

Last week, the Director called my husband privately and told him that his personality was that of a person who magnified the negative. From his interactions with my husband he is realizing that he had to appreciate everything positive and not pay so much importance to the negative.

My husband said he politely thanked him and left, but inside he was shouting ‘Together Divine’ in a deafening crescendo. He felt so happy that he didn’t have to say a word for this change to come over! The flowers, gems, the switch words are so beautiful and so powerful!

We successfully sailed through the stressful phase

We are grateful for the divine to have helped us through this difficult and stressful phase. The chants helped us stay focused and positive and not panic. We found time daily to chant ‘Together Divine’ and write ‘Om Gam Ganapathayae Namaha.’

 Lessons learned

We understand and are grateful that our future unfolds in small clear steps.

We have the opportunity to be watchful, present and steer the direction of our life.

Naran taught us patiently and gently to keep our mind open to the gifts that every situation brings in and not be carry our old patterns with us.

We are continuing to learn.

Naran

Thank you for sharing. What we need is trust in divinity. Yours has vindicated that. Best of luck!!!

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No regrets about exam results

Radha Rani

I have given 2nd time exam. This is my 2nd & last chance.

I need at least 95% (more is required). Chances of getting 95% are less.

Also, I want to give my best for coming exams. I also feel low sometimes and unable to concentrate on my studies.

Naran

Chant “GENITAN, HONEYSUCKLE”.

Write “TOGETHER BRING DIVINE WORD” and keep it under the pillow.

Explanation

To feel happy and successful about the results: GENTIAN, HONEY SUCKLE

To get the desired result: TOGETHER BRING DIVINE WORD

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Be Happy and Energetic

Client

Many thanks for all your help to me it has made a difference.

I am unable to overcome my sadness and crying.  I realize I have to accept the situation. I also need to be happy and joyful.

My husband is coming home on 13th for the time my sons visit. My son is coming home on 14th and a family holiday has been planned from 22nd to May 2nd.

I need to be able to handle the situation with a happy disposition and with energy. However, I am very tired all the time.

I wish we could be reconciled and a happy family with love and trust.  

I wish my son is happy-safe, free of addictions, and desire and will to study well. 

I am also starting a business. I wish the energy to carry it through and make it a success.

I am presently at Prashant for a two week of Yoga Ayurveda Therapy.  

I am looking forward to your advice.

Naran

Take the flower remedies CENTAURY, WALNUT, OLIVE, WILD ROSE and HORNBEAM to feel energetic and tonified.

In addition, do as per the instructions in “Becoming Happy is in Your Hands”: http://reachnaran.com/becoming-happy-is-in-your-hands/

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