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Mantra for a Happy Married Life
Minee
I heard a lot about you from my friends.
I’m facing a lot of problems as I’m in love with a guy since past 8 years. He also loves me a lot.
My family has agreed regarding our marriage issues but his family is totally against it as our horoscopes are not matching as I have KAL SARP YOG in my horoscope.
What should I chant in order to remove all these obstacles and his family agrees?
Anu
As suggested by you, I am chanting (switching words) “CLIMB ADJUST TOGETHER CHANGE DIVINE” daily 200 times, for removing little fighting in between me and my would-be husband.
Just 25 days are left for our marriage but there is daily fight between us on phone. I want a loveable and harmonious relation between us.
We get normal after 2 days. I want that nobody can put finger on our fighting as ours is a love marriage.
I want these fights to far away from my both families so that there should be peace and love between us.
Naran
(For both Minee and Anu…the following answer)
Whether the horoscope matches or not, all the couples should understand each other, trust that both live to love each other, shed the ego which is the cause of all conflict, reach harmony somehow, praising each other instead of finding fault, and understanding to communicate after listening.
Chant “BOW PRAISE TOGETHER REACH DIVINE LOVE LISTEN BETWEEN” is the mantra for your happy married life.
Anu
I am really feeling glad for your response. Every answer and solution suggested by you really gives us message and lesson!
Thank you Naran!!
Related Posts
Marriage got fixed after a long period of waiting: https://healbymeditation.wordpress.com/2010/03/16/marriage-got-fixed-after-a-long-period-of-waiting/
Raining clouds: https://marriagemantri.wordpress.com/2013/08/27/raining-clouds/
Program Your Life – Part I
Letting GO is the Nature of LIFE
Naran
When you look at the whole world you will understand we only are holding on to mind.
What is the opposite of letting go? “Holding on to” is the opposite word. Holding will restrict us. Letting go expands us.
By letting go you are discharging from yourself what is not required by you, like Water putting out the Fire. Body and Nature Follows this rule 100%.
Watch the body. What it does?
Whatever is inhaled, lungs have to exhale out. Lungs cannot keep the air even for one second.
Heart – what does it do? It takes in blood and sends it out immediately. Blood enters the heart through Auricles and let out through Ventricles.
Whatever you take in, has to be let it out. It is the natural process of the body.
Lungs contract to let go, kidneys contract to let go urine, intestines peristaltically (downward movement) contract to let go the faeces and skin lets go by sweat.
The mouth lets go whatever you eat to the stomach. Stomach lets it go to the intestine. Intestine and kidneys let go as excretion.
Morning lets go to the noon, the noon lets go and becomes afternoon. Afternoon lets go and become the evening, and then evening to night. Each and every second gives way to the next.
Let go before taking the action. Then let go the emotions and thoughts attached to results.
Ask the questions:
- What do you expect to achieve?
- What is the driver desire or wanting behind each emotion and thought?
- Wanting to control or change?
- Wanting appreciation, recognition? (Desire for Approval)
- Wanting more security? (fearful)
With this technique, you are not prevented from doing anything. Let go emotions as well as thoughts, and then Act.
“You are only entitled to Act. Don’t think about the result while doing” – says Lord Krishna in Bhagavat Gita.
The theory, we propose here is a new dimension to Bhagavat Gita and a new understanding of the Gita.
Read the 2nd part of the article here: http://reachnaran.com/program-your-life-part-ii/
Lock Jaw
Paresh
Can you give me Bach flowers remedy for lock jaw, and to improve my speech and communication skills?
Naran
Take two pills of WHITE CHESTNUT, SCLERANTHUS and LARCH
Related Posts
Good Communication and Understanding: http://healbyanimalspirits.wordpress.com/2012/05/18/good-communication-and-understanding/
Develop language speaking skills: http://reachnaran.com/develop-language-speaking-skills/
Fear manifests what we do not want
Madhu
There is always a saying that marriages are made in heaven. Is that true?
And if so then why there is negativity like divorce, extramarital, and even more than that?
I am very much afraid of this issue as it’s a lifelong decision and relationship.
Is there any switch word which all can chant to have a successful, happy and respected marital life either love or arranged.
Any switch words that can keep harmony not only in couple but also between two families because sometimes we see that due to family distances, fights arise.
And also anything after which there should not be any regression about marriage decision?
I know you are the only one who can clear my questions and hope so many people wants know it.
Naran
Fear is hallucination.
Fearing about something is happening in the mind only.
The mind is unable to perceive the future and therefore indulges in thoughts that produce fear.
Instead of becoming inquisitive, the mind pushes you in fear or in darkness.
What is this fear? Fear manifests the very same event which we do not want.
Understand that every emotion has got individual consciousness.
Fear is born because future is unknown. Anything unknown is darkness. Darkness – fear – will be no more, when there is light.
When the fear appears, think that it needs light. Say, “Fear SET FREE, OPEN, ALIGN yourself with the LIGHT and RELAX me.”
Read again and again all the answers and blog postings and meditate on each and every answer.
You will know everything that you need to know.
Too much of thoughts – unwanted thoughts – obsess you and you have forgotten to listen. Listening happens when we become silent and Truth will reveal itself when we introspect.
It is not my reply but your understanding is more important.