Posts tagged Will
Release the mental drama going on inside the mind (using IEIT/tapping for example) and do what you want to do.
An action is taken without judgment, without any emotion or without any desire.
Action is never prevented or you are not prevented to take a decision to your will.
Keep the mind free before taking any action and after taking the action.
A decision is taken after releasing everything of the mind, so that a state of equanimity is achieved.
For example, a child may not listen to the parent. Then the parent may get angry and try to advise the child. She has to release all her anger and her desire to control or change the person and then advise.
Release the mental drama before saying anything or doing anything. In action for the mind and action for the body is the need.
One drop of love will change him:
Rhythm of Love:
What is switch word to get US green card?
Call Wolf and request it
Wolf actually worked for me.
I got opportunity to go to London on a Business Visa. Thanks a lot! It was my long pending wish.
It will be a welcome change for you: https://naranhealingproducts.wordpress.com/2013/01/16/it-will-be-a-welcome-change-for-you/
Gain and regain your life’s treasures: https://healbyswitchword.wordpress.com/2011/10/10/gain-and-re-gain-your-life%E2%80%99s-treasures/
Visualize all are talking with you in love and kindness.
Visualize everyone you meet and greet you with love.
Before attending a wedding (or any function), visualize all the people in the marriage hall greeting you with love and talking to you with loving words.
Affirm, “Divine Love Manifests in My Life” – from ‘I love myself’ CD
Love follows without fail: https://healbyanimalspirits.wordpress.com/2012/12/10/love-follows-without-fail/
Relationship with Your Parents = Relationship with Others: https://healbybachflowers.wordpress.com/2012/07/30/relationship-with-your-parents-relationship-with-others/
A girl was raped during her teenage.
After marriage she developed depression. She gets mad at her children. That’s not a regular feature though.
At times in a month – periodicity is once a month or week: WHITE CHESTNUT.
Behaviour – she sometimes does nothing: WILD ROSE.
She gets mad at children: CHERRY PLUM.
To heal the traumatic event happened: STAR OF BETHLEHEM.
The above mentioned behavior was there for many years: WALNUT.
I asked her to take Star of Bethlehem separately once a day, for a month and rest of the (Bach Flower) remedies in water and ask her to sip it 6 to 7 times.
Will not indulge in crime: https://divineshakthi.wordpress.com/2013/08/14/will-not-indulge-in-crime/
Self-Defense for Women: http://reachnaran.com/self-defense-for-women/
(Bach Flowers) AGRIMONY, CHERRY PLUM, WALNUT, and LARCH is the base remedy.
Only those in CHERRY PLUM and AGRIMONY will have suicidal thoughts
As the patient what are the pre-dominant thoughts?
Impulsive – CHERRY PLUM
They will close the door – AGRIMONY
We have to study the individual thoughts that were mentioned during counselling session and add appropriate remedies.
By nature I am very candid and not diplomatic.
Also, I am very open to negative feedback too, when someone is giving me a feedback – at home or at work.
However, at home (mine is a joint family), everyone dislikes me since I am very frank. Although, I am very efficient with house work and do not compromise on my duties.
One of my boss (I have 2 bosses) was very good to me and appreciated my work etc, until a while ago when I was frank in expressing some work-related issue.
Now one boss is still ok, since he knows that I am good at work and I am very frank – that is my nature.
Another boss is all angry with me and at every meeting makes sure that he puts me down or talks negatively when it comes to my work.
Can I chant something please, especially that both my husband and my boss should start appreciating me?
If you want to maintain your candidness, you can get these only.
You do not point out the mistake only. You point out the good points also. If you want to point the mistake then do it with love.
Others will criticize me: http://studyforsuccess.wordpress.com/2013/03/13/afraid-people-will-criticize-me/
I feel small, when he criticizes me: https://healbyrule.wordpress.com/2010/01/19/i-feel-small-when-he-criticizes-me-%E2%80%93-a-case-history/
A patient of Naran remarked about her spouse. He gave the following reply to her. These exercises however can be done anybody who wants to live harmoniously and be happy with them.
Look at oneself first
This is Drama of Life and if one understands, we will come to know, realize and understand that we have to bring in change in ourselves only.
We have to direct the mind towards oneself and then towards others. This is the basis of all healing modalities.
The nature always expects us to move towards perfection.
In this process, one understands not only the DIVINE ORDER, but also realizes that one has to rise above the mind and its tantrums, and become spiritual.
All healing methods help a person to understand his/her own potentials.
Others are mirrors of yourself
Before trying to change the other person do this exercise on you first.
Take a piece of paper and write about him first. Whatever you wanted to say about him write it.
- Insert the word ‘I’ wherever you have put ‘He’.
For example, “He never takes the treatment properly and he escapes”, should be rewritten as “I never take the treatment properly. I escape.”
Change what all you have written about him Into I.
- Now affirm, “I never take the treatment properly. I escape. In spite of this, I accept myself totally”.
Do three rounds of tapping for each sentence.
- Do the forgiving exercise for them. “I forgive you …. (Name) you please forgive me and release me”.
- Send Reiki to him daily.
Problem is the source of solution
Whoever is causing problem to you, can only give you solution.
Whoever irritates or angers you, can only give you peace.
You cannot change your husband. You want him for your status and security. Then you have to heal yourself. Forgive.
- You only have to make your life peaceful. For getting peace with such a person, you have to shed your ego and heal yourself.
Heal your controlling tendencies
Heal your anger and controlling tendency.
We always like people who comply or who just listen to us or obey us implicitly. That is why we want all the people to do this and that as well as agree with us, whatever we say.
When there is slight disagreement, dissent or difference of opinion, we may not like the person.
This dislike of the person who disagrees and the like of the person who agrees create conflicts in life.
- Both are born from our controlling tendency – desire to control or change. Release your desire to control and change others.
You have the power to heal him
What your husband needs attention, love and tolerance. Understand that he is mentally deranged, unlike we who are sane. The sane people are supposed to protect and understand such people.
When you ignore, chide, or send your husband away, who will take care of him?
The God has sent him to you, because you know Reiki.
God has sent him to you, because you know forgiving exercise and you know how to release your karma.
God has sent him to you because you know how to change yourself through flower remedies.
Heal him. This is how god has made him. One drop of love will change him. One iota of kindness can change.
Heal him from the heart. Sympathize with him. If he is the cause of your mental agony, how much he is suffering within mentally. Just help a man who needs help. Pray for him.
He is not a curse to you. He has not become your husband because of your bad karma.
He has come to you for healing. He is a grace for you.
Through him you spiritual journey starts! I hope you will start the Journey!!
I want to ask one question. Our scriptures say that each and everything is happening in this universe according to the Will of Supreme Lord.
It means good or bad whatever happens, it happens according to His Absolute Will. This is what I consider as Divine Order.
When everything is already in Divine Order i.e. according to His Will then what is the real meaning, significance of Switch Words “FIND DIVINE ORDER” and “CHANGE DIVINE ORDER”?
There is no good or bad event. It is our judgments which separate any event.
When we think the event is bad, we deviate from the DIVINE ORDER.
Therefore, the mind is instructed to re-align with the divine order by the Switch word CHANGE. When the mind does not accept what is happening, we are commanding the mind to change.
To know what is in store for us, we FIND DIVINE ORDER.
Similarly, there is no bad person. The so called bad person has deviated from the DIVINE CENTER.
Instead of changing him, we have to accept him as he is, for which CHANGE DIVINE ORDER will be helpful.
When we try to change him, we deviate from the CENTER.
By chanting CHANGE DIVINE ORDER, we will change our view towards the other person and re-align with the center divine; we will have a different outlook.
Any how this has to be done for a long period of time, analyzing our behaviour at each and every step.
Read the reply, I gave to Bhavi: http://reachnaran.com/what-is-going-to-happen-will-happen-why-to-chant/
Change for a better offer: https://healbyswitchword.wordpress.com/2012/11/21/change-for-a-better-offer/
How to use Switch Words: https://healbyswitchword.wordpress.com/2011/10/20/how-to-use-switch-words/
During last week, I had been diagnosed with ectopic/tubal pregnancy.
Foetus was healthy and well growing, but growing at wrong place. So, as per doctor’s advice, I had to terminate that pregnancy.
I remained sad for one two days and not only me but whole family was sad.
I know everything is happening for the best and according to all merciful supreme lords’ will. I myself have seen so many worst looking events turning into beneficial ones afterwards.
But, during the moments of emotional trauma all this theoretical and practical knowledge disappears from mind.
Is there any method or technique other than meditation to train our minds to happily and calmly accept all such events, which are beyond our control and purely according to divine will?
And how should we perceive such incidents to feel less or no grief?
Feeling less grief is not to be imposed.
Go through the emotions, which naturally surface and bow to them and come out.
When there is great distress over grief or when there is reason for grieving, weep, weep.
Weeping is easy way of reaching the divine.
Let us not feel shy for weeping. Yes, there was expectation in vain. Feel sad and weep to get over that. Weeping intensely will ultimately relieve you from the burden.
A solace is given by weeping. When you think that you can no more weep, just say, “I bow to this weeping and go beyond this state.”
Repeat within after the weeping episode, the Radha’s prayer:
“Krishna, my lord, whether thou chooses for me life or death, happiness or sorrow , pleasure or suffering, all that comes to me from thee, is always welcome”.
Divinity takes care of you: http://reachnaran.com/divinity-takes-care-of-you/
Reaching for Love: http://reachnaran.com/reaching-for-love/
He is a film producer from Bangalore. He bought the Black Tourmaline gem stone from Naran.
One day, he needed money to the tune of 10 lakh rupees by end of that day. He just wrote that information in a piece of paper as sort of a reminder to himself to organize the money required.
As a paper weight, he kept the Black Tourmaline stoneover the paper. Within next 24 hours, he got 15 lakhs rupees.He was amazed at the result.
Next week, when he wanted money once he again, he tried the same technique. Somehow, he found money the again, without knowing the source of funds in advance.
Angel to remove darkness: https://healbygems.wordpress.com/2013/11/22/angel-to-remove-darkness/
Your life will always be bright: http://reachnaran.com/your-life-will-always-be-bright/