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Protect daughter studying abroad

9 years ago
by admin in

Tilotuma

What do we chant for our daughter’s going abroad for higher studies, especially if they are young and impressionable and easily influenced, while we have fear in our hearts as we let them go?

Naran

Take the flower remedy RED CHESTNUT daily two pills three times.

Chant “DURGA DURGAMA DOSHAVARJITHA DURACHAARA SHAMANI”, thinking about your daughter.

Do the concentric circle method and write “AGRIMONY WALNUT CHERRY PLUM”.

Explanation

Come out of your fearful concern: RED CHESTNUT

The Durga mantra will protect your daughter.

The Bach Flower combination WALNUT and CHERRY PLUM will help your daughter not to be wrongly influenced, out of teenage temptation.

Agrimony: not to be secretive in one’s affair.

How to love parents who are cruel

9 years ago
by admin in

Grace

My parents have been cruel to each other and to me in various ways. How to love them?

Naran

The irony is we know how to get angry or how to blame. Who taught this? How does it come to us so naturally?

While learning to live from childhood, we have been learning wrongly. Unfortunately, there is no teacher. We observe, understand and form a thought, conclusion and start believing.

We should understand that when by being in resentment, resentment only grows.

By being in a state of anger, anger only grows.

In spite of our knowing that anger and resentment cannot achieve what we want, yet we will be in that state.

You may not love them. Can you not help yourself by getting away from resentment?

See what you cannot see. Don’t see what you see.

When you stop judging, you start observing. When you observe, you understand what you have not so far understood.

Any feeling that blocks our progress can be released. Get any feeling that can enhance your life progress.

Grace

Thank you for such a complete answer. I am grateful.

I know intellectually that holding on to my judgment of them is causing me problems. I will try to do EFT or something to reduce my resentment (although I never call it that!).

Some part of me thinks it would be wrong to allow them to just be who they are. As if the judgment will save me from becoming like them.

Naran

Don’t drag them into your life now.

Unite all the parts.

Forget what happened and treat them as new persons and be neutral first. Even the slightest resentment against them, will bring the same type of persons in your life.

Related Posts

There are no accidents only incidents: http://reachnaran.com/there-are-no-accidents-only-incidents/

Relationship with Parents equals Relationship with others: http://healbybachflowers.wordpress.com/2012/07/30/relationship-with-your-parents-relationship-with-others/

Remove the plasters inside the mind: http://reachchildcare.wordpress.com/2013/10/13/remove-the-plasters-inside-the-mind/

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