Married Life

My spouse gets angry very easily

5 years ago
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Client

My husband gets angry very easily. What I am to do?

Naran S Balakumar

It means the FIRE element in your partner is more.

If the FIRE element is more in one partner then the other partner has to increase their WATER element. Calmness will prevail in the situation.

You need to keep the little fingers touching the thumb on both the hands.

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Harmony for Newly Married Couple

5 years ago
by admin in

Case History

There was a newly married couple.

Marriage means change of lifestyle, relationships and atmosphere. Adjustments are the order of the day. The couple instead of understanding this, they were always arguing.

The husband approached Naran S Balakumar. He asked the husband to put BEECH, WALNUT and CHICORY in the common drinking water.

The couple started developing a rapport and found harmony in their married life.

Naran S Balakumar

Harmony Pack contains BEECH, WILLOW, CHERRY PLUM, CHICORY, AGRIMONY and WALNUT.

When these flowers are present then we can bring 100% harmony in the family or between two people.

You may find no harmony in your family. Put 10 to 15 pills of Harmony pack in the common drinking water.

The fight may disappear. Your family members might wonder why the fight is not there anymore.

Please note here, that no harmony within us has resulted in lack of harmony within the family. Of course, we do not find the fault with us but only on others.

Use CHICORY if you find your spouse possessive.

WALNUT opens up doors to love, joy, money, jobs etc. Drop a few pills of Walnut in your water container/tank.

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How to Get Commitment from Your Partner

7 years ago
by admin in

Naran S Balakumar

Seek the help of (Animal Spirit Guide) JACKAL for commitment to the partner.

The picture can be pasted against the person who has extra marital affairs. It makes the person committed to the family.

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Spouse behaved properly

7 years ago
by admin in

Naran S Balakumar

One woman gets beaten up by her husband, who is an addict.  Every day, she will get the beatings. Naran advised her to chant “SHARK”.

The woman chanted for a week. The opposite flat was vacant. After 10 days, an IPS officer moved to the flat.

From that day onwards, her husband started to treat her properly.

Make my spouse love me

8 years ago
by admin in

Keerthana

Read your articles and you have simply created miracles.

I recently got married.

My husband suspects me a lot. He does not trust me at all. For everything he finds a mistake in me. If I try to convince him, he finds mistake in it.

He suspects me so much, that if we go out he even says that I should into even look at other guy.

He restricts me in wearing modern dresses. He misunderstands for everything. Totally, he fights with me every day.

Please help me by making him to Love, Trust and believe me. Please help me in getting his Love completely.

Naran

Buy Bach flower remedies: HOLLY, VINE, CHICORY, BEECH and WALNUT.

Put the drops or pills (2 drops of each; or 4 pills of each) in water. Boil it. Cool it and then pour the warm water in common drinking water. If the water is drunk by both of you, harmony can be achieved.

Daily do the forgiving statement: “I Keerthana forgive you…. (Insert husband’s name). You please forgive me and release me”. Say this statement daily for 200 times.

Keep an AQUAMARINE (gemstone) picture with you.

Download a picture of JELLY FISH and paste it on your and husband’s photograph.

Chant the mantra (for good relationships): “OM HUM NAMAHA, OM YUM NAMAHA, OM RUM NAMAHA, OM VUM NAMAHA, OM LUM NAMAHA” constantly and continuously within your mind.

Explanation

Remove suspicion: Holly

Dominating others: Vine

Possessiveness: Chicory

Improve communications: Beech, Walnut

To enable one to love others: Aquamarine

Establish Harmony: Jelly Fish

The Bija Mantras chanted in the way mentioned is good to heal relationships.

 

Get a confession from your spouse

8 years ago
by admin in

Client
My husband is coming late for the last few weeks. He hasn’t given me any money to manage the household expenses either.

I have a suspicion that he has affairs with a girl, who proposed to him when he was in college.

I confronted him, but he denies everything.

We have a 1.5 years old daughter and I am afraid how I am going to manage this situation.

Naran
Chant “BOW CONCEDE CLEAR CONFESS TOGETHER DIVINE”

Explanation
Remove the ego, as this can only spoil a situation: BOW CONCEDE

To get clarity about the situation: CLEAR

Get the truth: CONFESS

TOGETHER DIVINE is for harmony

Mantra for a Happy Married Life

9 years ago
by admin in

Minee

I heard a lot about you from my friends.

I’m facing a lot of problems as I’m in love with a guy since past 8 years. He also loves me a lot.

My family has agreed regarding our marriage issues but his family is totally against it as our horoscopes are not matching as I have KAL SARP YOG in my horoscope.

What should I chant in order to remove all these obstacles and his family agrees?

Anu

As suggested by you, I am chanting (switching words) “CLIMB ADJUST TOGETHER CHANGE DIVINE” daily 200 times, for removing little fighting in between me and my would-be husband.

Just 25 days are left for our marriage but there is daily fight between us on phone. I want a loveable and harmonious relation between us.

We get normal after 2 days. I want that nobody can put finger on our fighting as ours is a love marriage.

I want these fights to far away from my both families so that there should be peace and love between us.

Naran

(For both Minee and Anu…the following answer)

Whether the horoscope matches or not, all the couples should understand each other, trust that both live to love each other, shed the ego which is the cause of all conflict, reach harmony somehow, praising each other instead of finding fault, and understanding to communicate after listening.

Chant “BOW PRAISE TOGETHER REACH DIVINE LOVE LISTEN BETWEEN” is the mantra for your happy married life.

Anu

I am really feeling glad for your response. Every answer and solution suggested by you really gives us message and lesson!

Thank you Naran!!

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Manage a negative-minded spouse

9 years ago
by admin in

MONI

My brother has lost all hope as his wife is not co-operative, negative-minded, and selfish, blaming personally and never satisfied how much you do for her.

Tell some remedy or mantra for my brother so that he can handle the situation. My brother just wants to give divorce to his wife.

It’s really difficult for him to control the situation as she blames him for everything but then when he asks her for divorce, she doesn’t want to give to him.

Naran

Ask your brother to take flower remedies CHICORY, CRAB APPLE and CHERRY PLUM, 2 pills of each, one after the other, three times a day. He has to keep himself cool.

Ask him to chant “TOGETHER DIVINE”.

Explanation

To remain calm and composed: Cherry Plum

To get the problem out of one’s life: Crab Apple.

The wife does not want the husband; at the same time denying to get separated from him: Chicory

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Create positives out of a situation

9 years ago
by admin in

Naran

Let us see an example

“My husband is not good. He is irritating too”, says the wife.

She is blaming her husband here.

If she has to handle this situation, then what resource (quality) she needs to handle it?

Does she needs to be courageous, be more loving and caring, or be bold?

When there is a problem, you need to ask yourself, “What one resource will enrich me and will help me to handle this life situation”.

This way you are healing yourself. Instead, if some person is angry and you also get angry, then you are gone.

So what do we need here?

People would say she needs patience and tolerance.

What’s patience?

Patience is the quality or ability to withstand a situation without getting angry or upset.

If that’s the case, then the Bach Flower IMPATIENS is the remedy. Impatiens will create patience inside you.

You need tolerance also. BEECH is the remedy for it.

Beech and Impatiens go together in cultivating tolerance and patience.

Developing a Life Strategy

Quality of patience, without getting upset or angry about the other person, is waiting inside us, waiting for the right opportunity.

We all need it. If I have it, then I will be striking at the right moment. It’s a Life Strategy.

If we have this quality, we will have more consideration and caring for other people. To develop this strategy, take the flower remedy IMPATIENS.

If I cultivate patience and tolerance (Beech and Impatiens), then I will become more considerate.

Consideration means, there is more love and affection for other person. Then we will become accommodative.

To be more caring, after being considerate, HOLLY is the remedy.

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One drop of love will change him

9 years ago
by admin in

A patient of Naran remarked about her spouse. He gave the following reply to her. These exercises however can be done anybody who wants to live harmoniously and be happy with them.

Naran

Look at oneself first

This is Drama of Life and if one understands, we will come to know, realize and understand that we have to bring in change in ourselves only.

We have to direct the mind towards oneself and then towards others. This is the basis of all healing modalities.

The nature always expects us to move towards perfection.

In this process, one understands not only the DIVINE ORDER, but also realizes that one has to rise above the mind and its tantrums, and become spiritual.

All healing methods help a person to understand his/her own potentials.

Others are mirrors of yourself

Before trying to change the other person do this exercise on you first.

Take a piece of paper and write about him first. Whatever you wanted to say about him write it.

  • Insert the word ‘I’ wherever you have put ‘He’.

For example, “He never takes the treatment properly and he escapes”, should be rewritten as “I never take the treatment properly. I escape.”

Change what all you have written about him Into I.

  • Now affirm, “I never take the treatment properly. I escape. In spite of this, I accept myself totally”.

Do three rounds of tapping for each sentence.

  • Do the forgiving exercise for them. “I forgive you …. (Name) you please forgive me and release me”.
  • Send Reiki to him daily.

Problem is the source of solution

Whoever is causing problem to you, can only give you solution.

Whoever irritates or angers you, can only give you peace. 

You cannot change your husband. You want him for your status and security. Then you have to heal yourself. Forgive.

  • You only have to make your life peaceful. For getting peace with such a person, you have to shed your ego and heal yourself.

Heal your controlling tendencies

Heal your anger and controlling tendency.

We always like people who comply or who just listen to us or obey us implicitly. That is why we want all the people to do this and that as well as agree with us, whatever we say.

When there is slight disagreement, dissent or difference of opinion, we may not like the person.

This dislike of the person who disagrees and the like of the person who agrees create conflicts in life.

  • Both are born from our controlling tendency – desire to control or change.  Release your desire to control and change others.

You have the power to heal him

What your husband needs attention, love and tolerance. Understand that he is mentally deranged, unlike we who are sane. The sane people are supposed to protect and understand such people.

When you ignore, chide, or send your husband away, who will take care of him?

The God has sent him to you, because you know Reiki.

God has sent him to you, because you know forgiving exercise and you know how to release your karma.

God has sent him to you because you know how to change yourself through flower remedies.

Heal him. This is how god has made him. One drop of love will change him. One iota of kindness can change.

Heal him from the heart. Sympathize with him. If he is the cause of your mental agony, how much he is suffering within mentally. Just help a man who needs help. Pray for him.

He is not a curse to you. He has not become your husband because of your bad karma.

He has come to you for healing. He is a grace for you.

Through him you spiritual journey starts! I hope you will start the Journey!!

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