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Do you know why she doesn’t appreciate?

9 years ago
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Patient: My wife loves me a lot. She is a very considerate person. At the same time, when it comes to my way of doing, she is highly intolerant. Surprisingly, she tolerates others’ mistakes to a greater extent – this includes my parent’s actions too.

Naran

One part of her is tolerant, while the other part of her is intolerant – especially to you. It shows, somehow you trigger the other – unwanted part in her.

Do you have a similar behavior in yourself?

Patient: Yeah! In general, I always tend to correct the way of others and not just one person. I believe everything has to be done correctly, with the right people, and at the right time.

Naran

I will teach you a simple method here.  

Affirm as many times as possible:

 “I RELEASE the PART of ME that is criticized by me”. 

“I OPEN ALIGN WITH the PART of ME that evokes her tolerance to PRAISE me”.

You can write them too.

The letters in UPPER CASE is fixed. The rest of the statement, you can fill with whatever you want. This way, you are releasing the behavior you don’t want and activating the behavior you want in others.

Choosing from two actions

9 years ago
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Naran

When you want to do two things at the same time and you want to decide which one to do.

Find both positive and minus points for both the actions. Release them two days before doing them

Then you will be able to come to a decision.

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Worried About Losing My Friendship

9 years ago
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Client

I have a misunderstanding with a friend of mine. I am not sure, next time when I meet her, whether she will properly talk to me or not.

For the last two days, I have this anxiety. So, I released all my anxiety. Now I feel ok.

However, I am worried, when I meet her next time how she will react and how will I handle it.

Naran

1.       Release the anxiety (worry).

2.       You are having a desire to keep the friendship going. Release this desire too.

You are only releasing the thought, emotions and desires. You are not stopping the actions (to be her friend).

Here, instead of the enacting the usual drama we create, we simply observe what is happening in our mind. We release and observe the whole incident as a third person.

Which is convenient – fearing about something or releasing?

In the end, we keep the mind blank – free from worries, anger and fears.

What are the ultimate results we gain due to this technique?

As long as we are working from a noisy mind, there will not be any solution to the problem. 

By releasing all the emotions (and thoughts and desires) one after another, we are taking one step after another towards a litter-free (mind) zone, where we will be free of our emotions and thoughts.

Then the solution for the problem will be found automatically as that part of the mind (litter free zone) knows how to tackle the problem.

In this technique, we do no prayers.

If my house is full of garbage what will I do?

I will simply clear them isn’t it? When I remove all the clutters in the house it becomes good.

In the same way, I release all the clutters from my mind.

Desire is the motivator behind our actions. For me what is motivating me to seek friendship in my friend? There is a desire for approval operating in it. Release it.

When anything comes inside your mind, Just say, “Can I release? Yes. I release this. I let go this…”

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Opening the chakras with mantras: http://healbymeditation.wordpress.com/2009/07/10/opening-the-chakras-with-mantras/

Plan for Life

9 years ago
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From the workbook on “I Love Myself”

Naran

I know I have a plan for my life and I enjoy fulfilling it

You write your life plan for the next five years.

Keep it under the feet of Divinity.

Weekly have a look at this and take actions accordingly.

Every week you can analyze whether you are moving according to the plan or moving away from the plan.

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Our future is not determined

9 years ago
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Naran

Let me give an example to make you understand that our future is not determined

In a typical office there is a conflict and arguments between office manager and the staff.

A staff member will have two options.

Either he can straightaway throw his job by getting angry and argumentative.

Many a time we succumb to our emotions and they guide your actions. We all know that. If you are able to be only like this, then the result is determined as what we expect to happen.

Or you can do the following, based on NLP:

Step One: Identify the emotion.

Let us say, we get angry. 

It’s ok. If we say then, “This is my anger”, it will be automatically gets reduced. This is one way of handling your emotions.

Step Two: Create the outcome you want.

Now ask the question, “What do I want from this situation”.

Analyze, “What’s my present state”. 

Then ask the question, “What do I want” or “What is the desired outcome I want here”.

Now we are forming a strategy here.

For example, if the strategy to create a situation is formed by the staff member then he won’t resign.

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Maha Saraswathi – Rondeletia Orange

10 years ago
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Maha Saraswathi - Rondeletia OrangeRONDELETIA ORANGE-RED DEEP PINK FLOWERS

The Mother’s Message

Rondeletia flowers represent MAHA SARASWATHI’S perfection in works.

Naran

Who can be benefited with these flowers?

For those people who are careless and negligent in their work.

For students who are careless and negligent in their studies.

For those, who are hasty and impatient in whatever they do – For TYPE ‘A’ personalities.

For those who change jobs frequently.

For those do everything incomplete or half-done.

For those who lack concentration.

How to use it?

Keep the picture of flower on HARA and THROAT centers – 3 minutes at each center.

Keep the picture under the pillow.

Meditate on the flower praying, “Let Supreme Divine order of MAHASARASWATHI fill up all my expressions and actions.”

Related Blogs

Solution Finder: http://healbymeditation.wordpress.com/2013/06/12/solution-finder/

Student of Life: http://theflowerangels.wordpress.com/2013/07/22/student-of-life/

Reaching the top once again: http://studyforsuccess.wordpress.com/2013/11/20/reaching-the-top-once-again/

 

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