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Groom is picky
Client
My brother is picky that he will marry only beautiful looking girls, though he doesn’t look smart. How to change his attitude?
Naran
Give him SWEET CHESTNUT and BEECH.
A BEECH person is picky. Even if he doesn’t look smart, he will expect his wife to be smart.
Related Posts
Not getting appreciation: http://reachnaran.com/not-getting-appreciation/
Clear the confusion about marriage: http://reachnaran.com/clear-the-confusion-about-marriage/
Program Your Life – Part I
Letting GO is the Nature of LIFE
Naran
When you look at the whole world you will understand we only are holding on to mind.
What is the opposite of letting go? “Holding on to” is the opposite word. Holding will restrict us. Letting go expands us.
By letting go you are discharging from yourself what is not required by you, like Water putting out the Fire. Body and Nature Follows this rule 100%.
Watch the body. What it does?
Whatever is inhaled, lungs have to exhale out. Lungs cannot keep the air even for one second.
Heart – what does it do? It takes in blood and sends it out immediately. Blood enters the heart through Auricles and let out through Ventricles.
Whatever you take in, has to be let it out. It is the natural process of the body.
Lungs contract to let go, kidneys contract to let go urine, intestines peristaltically (downward movement) contract to let go the faeces and skin lets go by sweat.
The mouth lets go whatever you eat to the stomach. Stomach lets it go to the intestine. Intestine and kidneys let go as excretion.
Morning lets go to the noon, the noon lets go and becomes afternoon. Afternoon lets go and become the evening, and then evening to night. Each and every second gives way to the next.
Let go before taking the action. Then let go the emotions and thoughts attached to results.
Ask the questions:
- What do you expect to achieve?
- What is the driver desire or wanting behind each emotion and thought?
- Wanting to control or change?
- Wanting appreciation, recognition? (Desire for Approval)
- Wanting more security? (fearful)
With this technique, you are not prevented from doing anything. Let go emotions as well as thoughts, and then Act.
“You are only entitled to Act. Don’t think about the result while doing” – says Lord Krishna in Bhagavat Gita.
The theory, we propose here is a new dimension to Bhagavat Gita and a new understanding of the Gita.
Read the 2nd part of the article here: http://reachnaran.com/program-your-life-part-ii/
Delay in Marriage and Job
Dr. Preethi G
Thank you so much for services which you are rendering to the people. I have purchased many CDs from your center. Every day, I use to listen to them.
I am trying for abroad education and job. I want to qualify in my process.
I am a hard worker at my work place, but not getting proper appreciation.
Also, I am in love with a Muslim guy. Marriage is getting delayed. Even my parents know about my issues. There is no response from them. They are not replying.
I want to get married to him. My future-in-laws are good to this issue. They are fine with this matter.
Naran
Chant “SWEET CHESTNUT, TOGETHER FIND DIVINE ORDER”
For both the questions this will work.
Explanation
Desperate situations needs divine intervention: SWEET CHESTNUT
Everything has to happen in unison: TOGETHER
To FIND what is in store for you: DIVINE ORDER
Related Posts
Power to Achieve: http://healbybachflowers.wordpress.com/2012/04/08/power-to-achieve/
Job position is on hold: http://joboneoone.wordpress.com/2013/08/04/job-position-is-on-hold/
Why something never happens in our lives: http://reachnaran.com/why-something-never-happens-in-our-lives/
Benefits of Healing Throat Chakra
Naran
This is the fifth chakra. It is also called as the Communication Chakra.
This chakra is connected with our lungs, larynx and throat. It is our communication channel. It takes care of our communication and determines how we relate to this world.
If I speak with love, then others will speak with love
When we hear good things, it will expand. That’s why Satsang (group of good thinkers) is important.Speak well and hear good things are the messages of this chakra.
Keep silent as when you open your mouth only bad stuff come out. Though, when there is love – thanks to good functioning of Heart Chakra, only good and kind words will come out.
When we talk, more energy is lost. The best way to get energy for the Throat Chakra is to do listening.
Only when we listen, we will know which is divine and which is not. While listening we will know the power of divine. Therefore, ‘listen properly’ is the message from Throat Chakra.
More silence more energy
There is a saying, ‘Mounam Sarvartha Sadhagam’, which means silence is a big tool. In silence, we get more energy. Guru is silent. Through silence we communicate so many things.
To know divinity and to know what to do we have to remain silent. It also means silence in thoughts. There is no point in having continuous thoughts in your head and say “we are practicing silence”.
When I need to communicate then?
While remaining silent if it still creates problems, then if we open our mouth there will be more problems. Communicate appropriately is the message from Throat Chakra.
You told your son one hundred times to study well. Yet he did not listen.
Therefore, your communication has failed to serve its objective, which is to make him understand. If he hasn’t, then why should we keep advising?
Right communication should be preceded by silence. Therefore, practice it!
Your talents will be known to the world
Throat and Hara Chakras are connected.
When our talents are not known to the world then it shows the Throat Chakra is not functioning well.
When you want the world to know about it, give Reiki to the Throat Chakra as well as Hara Chakra (keep one hand in Hara and another in Throat).
Then your talent will be exposed, recognition in office (in outside world) will improve.
To get the right appreciation, give Reiki to your Throat Chakra.
Thanks to throat we will communicate better. Our lives also get better, for all our relationships get spoiled because of miscommunication – in all misunderstandings, we need to balance the Throat Chakra.
Related Posts
Benefits of Healing Basic Chakra: http://reachnaran.com/benefits-of-healing-basic-chakra/
Benefits of Healing Hara Chakra: http://reachnaran.com/benefits-of-healing-hara-chakra/
Benefits of Chakra Balancing: http://healbyreiki.wordpress.com/2009/05/15/chakra-balancing-%E2%80%93-benefits-and-instructions/
Seeing ray of hope
Anita
I am facing challenges in my career for the last 4 years – no recognition from my managers/higher authorities.
Could you please recommend a mantra for me to get the due appreciation for my hard work from my current managers?
And though I am trying to find another job in a different company I just face a lot of obstacles and do not get any results from my job hunt.
Suggest a mantra /switch words I can use for attracting the right job where I will be successful and happy?
Naran
Write “WATER VIOLET, CLEMATIS, WILLOW” daily for 51 times
Chant “AMBIKA ANADHINIDHANA, ASHWAROODAA, APARAAJITHAA”
Anita
I am doing the same for last 10 days. Day by day, I am becoming very desperate, frustrated and feeling all alone with stagnation in life. As I am seeing nothing is working for me. I’m doing Reiki as you have suggested in one of your blog for long standing problems.
But still all areas of my life are closed for me and not seeing ray of hope.
Naran
Do the forgiving exercise for all the persons in your life.
Thank also all the persons in your life.
Anita
As I was doing everything as u have suggested and unable to get any results.
No sooner I started forgiving and thanking exercise 3 times a day, very next day I got call from my previous boss to come and join on same post.
Thank you so much.
Related Posts
Not getting appreciation: http://reachnaran.com/not-getting-appreciation/
To get married dress up as married: http://healbyrule.wordpress.com/2009/06/14/dress-up-as-married/
Not getting appreciation
Ambika
Even though my husband is working hard, he is not getting appreciation. He doesn’t have job satisfaction. Because of office politics he is suffering a lot. His colleagues and manager are trying to spoil his name.
Naran
Write the names of flowers “HOLLY, BEECH, WILLOW, WALNUT” in a piece of paper and keep it in his pocket.
Keep HORSE picture also in his pocket – to assert oneself in one’s place.
Related Blogs
Reduce your victim mentality: http://lifsez.wordpress.com/2013/11/26/reduce-your-victim-mentality/
Forgiving mind: http://divineshakthi.wordpress.com/2013/12/24/forgiving-mind/
Don’t beg from the divine
Lakshmi
You have asked me to write “release resistance find divine order count now” for 51 times daily. I do that. I chant Ambika Sloka like mad, beg wolf every day and still no job interviews.
I ask loads of people but no one helps me–what more should I do? I need a job as soon as possible and am helpless. I beg divine so much and what more can I do?
Naran
Don’t beg from the divine. Take it from the Divine.
Daily in the morning say three times,” I thank divine for giving me a job of my choice. Then forget about it.
Lakshmi
Why is this happening to me? The only thing I ever ask god for myself is a job. I help loads of people and never I think ill of others and genuinely pray for people – why am I being punished?
Naran
You will definitely get a job. Instead of having a victim feeling, have the attitude of gratitude.
Instead of “why me” question, understand God is doing everything perfect. He will do everything at the right time.
What is the right time? Think and thank the divine that you have had already right time.
Every day, morning, say, three times, “I open up all parts of my mind and align them to resonate to the Divine grace of money. I thank the Divine for providing me the job of my choice now. I release this intention to the all providing divine field.”
Forget about this and concentrate on something else.
Daily in the night think back and thank god for everything that happened in your life. Each and every incident leads to the other. Nothing is unwanted or not needed.
Whatever happened – bad or good – thank the divine for that.
Shed tears of gratitude towards your parents, your friends, relatives, your house and your environment, the air you breathe, the dress you wear, the food you take, the water you drink.
Do you know how many, how many persons are behind your one day food? Thank all those persons – right from vegetable grower, seller, his storage place, vendor, and his cart – so many are there.
Think about the link of the persons to your one day food and thank everyone.
Why not this internet which connects you and me? Thank the Internet too.
Build up the energy of love in your heart and start living with contentment. You will get the job.
If your victim feeling can help you to get the job, be in that state. Otherwise be in a state of gratitude.
You are not helping anybody. You are privileged – you are selected by god – to help those people. You are indebted to them.
Help them with full heart. But don’t expect anything from them. If you do the help without expecting any appreciation, you will advance the Time.
- FORGIVE LOVE THANK is the mantra for your life.
- To come out of victim feeling, take Bach flower remedies WILLOW and PINE each two pills two times a day for one month.
Best of luck
Related Blogs:
When Jobless: http://joboneoone.wordpress.com/2013/05/26/when-jobless/
Thank you for the Divine Help: http://naranonline.wordpress.com/2012/05/29/thank-you-for-the-divine-help-during-this-time-of-my-life/
Winning Presentations
Raju
I had to make a presentation to a delegation that came from Europe. The presentation was an overview and update of our business. At the end of the meeting / presentation, we were looking for investment from the European / Global division of the visiting company.
The night before the presentation I spoke to R Mohan and asked him for some tips. He asked me to draw two sets of concentric circles:
- One with my name in the centre and WATER VIOLET, LARCH, GENTIAN and WILD ROSE in the outer circles in that order and
- Another one with my name in the centre along with the person I was making the presentation to, date and location and ELM, GORSE and HEATHER in the outer circles in that order.
I drew these circles on two sheets of paper and took them along with me in to the meeting room. The meeting started at 10 a.m. and my turn came at around 4 p.m.
What I observed during the day was that the main person in the visiting team was someone who did not smile through the day and did not really give away any of his emotions / views. When I started presenting, I suddenly felt very comfortable and at ease and I actually smiled during my presentation. This, in a way, forced a smile on that person who was tight-lipped and was on guard. In fact, he said a few words in appreciation of the work we are doing too.
Explanation
WATER VIOLET, LARCH, GENTIAN and WILD ROSE: a good combination for any interviews including Visa Interviews, and for meeting with big bosses
ELM, GORSE and HEATHER: Heather will make people listen to you, while Elm and Gorse will increase your capacity / skill