Posts tagged confusion
Groom is picky
Client
My brother is picky that he will marry only beautiful looking girls, though he doesn’t look smart. How to change his attitude?
Naran
Give him SWEET CHESTNUT and BEECH.
A BEECH person is picky. Even if he doesn’t look smart, he will expect his wife to be smart.
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Does karma theory says murderer can go scot free
GA
Thanks for your reply to my previous question. You have advised me to surrender before the ultimate reality. I am trying to do so.
I think you are not from this universe. You are a divine personality. Your words are very powerful – even magical, having a deep impact on my mind and soul.
I am a little bit confused about the theory of karma. As we know, we all are facing good or bad in our lives due to our own good or bad karmas and we should not blame others for our sufferings.
The point at which I am confused is that if someone does some harm to us then we say this is result of our own karma and the person is just a medium.
For an example, somebody kills a man then the man should have definitely done such type of karmic account with the murderer or have done something wrong in the past, for which he has to be punished like this by divine forces.
If it is just the previous account which is settling down now and the murderer is just a medium then murderer should not be punished anywhere not here or not in another world.
And as you say that divine forces compel us to do specific karma as per our nature or prakriti then in this case divine wants the killed man to be punished like this and the murderer is just a divine helper or a medium.
So my question is this that the person who becomes the medium (who is apparently doing wrong karma) in another person’s suffering (as my suffering is due to my own bad karma) will be punished for this by divinity?
If no, is it because he is just a medium? I hope you will show me some light.
Naran
Karma theory is just an explanation put forward. If you want to justify karma theory, it leads you to confusion.
Karma will act upon one, who does not think that he is the tool of divine.
All our reactions and views are happening at the outer mind – the mind that looks outside and assesses. Nothing that affects the outer mind affects the inner mind at all.
Whenever you want an answer, just ask the questions and go inside. Stop analyzing. Be silent. Silence alone will bring the answer.
The inner mind sees what the outer mind does not see. It also does not see what the outer mind sees.
Stop reading books on spiritualism or karma etc.
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Karma Vs Free Will: http://findlifeanswers.wordpress.com/2012/08/10/karma-vs-free-will/
How to Handle Your Karma: http://findlifeanswers.wordpress.com/2009/07/17/how-to-handle-your-karma/
Bed-time Ritual: http://reachnaran.com/bed-time-ritual/
White Hibiscus
Naran
Spirit is always free and in search of truth. When there is confusion, think about WHITE HIBISCUS, become that flower affirming, “LET ME ALIGN WITH THE DIVINE WILL”.
Then take any course of action. After taking the action, do not doubt that.
Doubt and Confusion happen when we deviate from surrender.
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Power to Achieve: http://healbybachflowers.wordpress.com/2012/04/08/power-to-achieve/
Clear the confusion about marriage
Prachi
I am in love with a guy since two years and he is confused whether to marry or not and my family members are seeing proposals for me.
Please give me guidance to make his mind firm and avoid confusion for our marriage.
Naran
Write “SCLERANTHUS, WALNUT” daily 108 times
Explanation
Clear the confusion: SCLERANTHUS
Transition from singlehood to getting married: WALNUT
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Confused about right answers
Radha Rani
This competitive exam consists of negative marking. It also confuses student. I usually get confused and got low marks.
Within specific time you have to score high. I am unable to complete it in time and got panic and try to guessing at last moment.
Naran
On the date of exam, take the flower remedies MIMULUS, LARCH, RESCUE REMEDY and SCLERANTHUS.
Explanation
Getting panic: RESCUE REMEDY
Not to have confusion: SCLERANTHUS
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Confused about going back
Archi
After six years of divorce, he suddenly contacted me, and said sorry for his behaviour, and asking me to come back.
Four to five days back his mother got heart attack. She is in hospital now. She is recovering (I too prayed for her recovery).
Now I’m very much confused. I am feared to go back to him.
Please suggest solution – a remedy for me, to take a firm decision, which will be good for both of us and our families.
Naran
Take the flower remedies SCLERANTHUS, SWEETCHESTNUT and WALNUT each 3 pills, one after the other for three times a day.
Explanation
Confusion: SCLERANTHUS
To know what the divine wills: SWEET CHESTNUT
To break the old pattern: WALNUT
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Stagnation in Marriage: http://praisedivinelife.wordpress.com/2013/08/07/stagnation-in-marriage/
Break from the past
Madhu
I am chanting as you say for my relationship. But he is still not talking or feeling as before.
I know love is for giving not for receiving but after losing my 3rd relationship, I have lost my confidence.
This guy again created faith and love in my life but don’t know why suddenly he changed his mind.
So, this time, I don’t want to lose him.
By the way he is a Muslim and lives outside India.
Naran
Chant “SCLERANTHUS, WALNUT, FIND DIVINE LOVE THANKS”
Explanation
SCLERANTHUS and WALNUT are Bach Flower Remedies
To come out of this confusing situation: SCLERANTHUS (confusion) and WALNUT (come out of the past and create something new)
THANKS: gratitude is necessary to make your desires come true
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Benefits of Lalitham Bhaskaram
Naran
It’s a good coinage of mantra. If you chant them, you will get the following benefits:
There will not be any turning back life situations. Always you will move forward in life.
Like Bach Flower Remedy GENTIAN, there won’t be any regression or setbacks, whether it’s your life or your career.
Demotion and degradation affects the basic chakra. Then you become fearful. This mantra works on (balances) the BASIC CHAKRA.
Lalitham Baskaram works on the SOLAR PLEXUS chakra as well. Therefore, confidence will be built.
When a person is promoted, confidence will be built up in them. In turn, when you have confidence you will get promoted.
We will get clarity.
You can get out of any confusion.
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No motive to do something
Commenting on: http://findlifeanswers.wordpress.com/2013/09/03/i-love-to-take-control-of-my-life/
Kalika
I also have an issue, although the article is insightful, when we say that divine is the doer, I am not the doer. It does give a freedom from all the burdens.
But, in this case are we not being deprived of the motive to do something, which comes when we accept that we are totally responsible for the entire situation in which we are.
Would the human being not loose motive to move ahead in life, if he believes that divine is the doer.
I am not, then why should he care if he is doing something right or wrong because then also divine is responsible.
Can you please throw some light on this confusion?
I know I am sounding vague here, but I do loose motive to do something right and become lazy when I remember of this statement.
Naran
When one fully accepts the divine doer concept, one aligns with the higher mind – totally submitting oneself to the will of the divine.
When you do the work on hand as given by the divine, you will do reverentially. Your total concentration is on work. Extend this ownership and you will find others as divine.
Work is divine. Doer of the work is divine. Done for what / the result is divine. Done for whom? That person is divine.
There is only love in the heart. There is only joy in the heart. There is only peace in the mind.
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Never divorce your husband: http://healbymindbodymessages.wordpress.com/2012/12/16/never-divorce-your-husband/