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Release the mental drama going on inside the mind (using IEIT/tapping for example) and do what you want to do.
An action is taken without judgment, without any emotion or without any desire.
Action is never prevented or you are not prevented to take a decision to your will.
Keep the mind free before taking any action and after taking the action.
A decision is taken after releasing everything of the mind, so that a state of equanimity is achieved.
For example, a child may not listen to the parent. Then the parent may get angry and try to advise the child. She has to release all her anger and her desire to control or change the person and then advise.
Release the mental drama before saying anything or doing anything. In action for the mind and action for the body is the need.
One drop of love will change him:
Rhythm of Love:
“LALITHAM SRINIVASAM LALITHAM PADMANABHAM LALITHAM DAMODARAM”
This mantra can be chanted by pregnant women, so that they will give birth to good children.
It will build up the relationship between the mother and child.
Thus, for child-bearing, for good foetus growth and for development of good mother-child relationship this mantra is very useful.
Whoever wants to get pregnant can chant this mantra too. It will develop the relationship between mother and child. Especially for single parent, this mantra will be useful.
Mantras Discussed on 4th Sep 2010: http://healbymeditation.wordpress.com/2010/09/13/mantras-discussed-on-4th-sep-2010/
Open up to Abundant Love, Life: http://theflowerangels.wordpress.com/2013/07/30/open-up-to-abundant-love-life/
Quite often, we are required to play different roles with respect to the same person. In the process lot of misunderstandings occur due to perception at both ends.
At work, we have a subordinate who is also a friend. This friend does not play his role in the office as required.
In the role of a friend, you try to protect him in various ways besides telling him / her about the problems in a friendly manner.
However, if it is not adhered to, it may go the extreme end that you may even need to terminate him/her. It is a very difficult choice. You are torn between both the roles.
In the earlier days, we could take a very dharmic stand and take decisions.
However, now we are required to play a role negotiating happiness for various people in the name of Professionalism / Management etc and suffer.
At home, we have to act as a Parent, Friend, Teacher, friend to your kids.
Often a role is over played by each of the participant resulting in clashes and misunderstanding. Each forgets that they are over stepping on the other role due to inherent flair for one.
Thus, a parent who is generally has a strong Vasanas of a Teacher in making, preaches more and is not able to know when to cut off and act as a friend.
Please give your recommendation to solve the above by way of flower remedy.
Whatever the role we play, let us ask a simple question.
What is that we lack in any role?
Basically, every relationship is based on communication. How do we communicate? What do we communicate? What do we want to communicate?
The objective of any communication is to reach out to the other person.
BEECH is the remedy for improving our communication.
What are the negative mental states of Beech?
- Unable to understand other man’s point of view
- Unable to appreciate other man’s priorities
- Desire to control or change the other person
If one is in one of the above mental states, right communication will not take place. Here, how Beech can help us?
BEECH can bridge the gap between two persons and makes one understand other man’s point of view.
WALNUT should be taken along with Beech. Walnut can bring in change in the mind. A changed outlook and a changed view will give a different communication tool.
For you Mr. Reddy, in addition to taking BEECH and WALNUT, you take CENTAURY also, while communicating in the office.
“What would my friend think? Will he be hurt, if I say this?” These expressions belong to negative mental state of Centaury.
Wonderfully explained….your site is a healthy addiction.
I feel the need to read it like a holy book everyday…sorting out life’s many questions and seeking the right answer….
I follow so many remedies you advice, go through the topics so many times, sometimes apply my 2 cents worth as well….analyse life’s situation from a different angle….
I have changed so much in my mind and heart…..all because of being a part of this wonderful site and your guidance!!!!
Thank you ever so much…….Naran….THERE’s still so much to absorb from you……..regards……
It’s been two months without salary.
Company’s operations are very slow due to unavailable operating cost, shareholders are fighting, though they have assets but to liquidate them is a long process, huge pile of debts in market and nil credibility with banks.
Seems company is going to close down in near future unless DIVINE INTERVENTION takes place. I even heard they are planning to retrench 70% of staff soon.
Please advise any chanting for company’s regular business so salaries are not delayed further…
Chant “SWEET CHESTNUT, WALNUT, STAR OF BETHLEHEM, CHESTNUT BUD, DIVINE ORDER”
After I senta mail to you, my senior messaged me that I need to travel to Singapore to look for apartment and school for the kids. The thing which is worrying me is I relocate and what if reaching there such delays in salary happens! How will I survive?
Sorry Naran, if it’s annoying you but being single parent Ineed to assure financial assurance for me and my kids. Besides chanting the above, do I need to chant anything else?
Continue the same.
Thanks to You and Divine light… New investors are coming in hopefully. Really wish company grows and flourish with these new changes.
Salaries are released and all pending payments are settled… Thank God!
I am so glad that my boss is now allowing me to work couple of days to work from home when he is not in town. This way I can spend more quality time with kids and I pray Divine light to help me getting some tuition for evening, as additional source of income.
Divine order is a switch word, while Sweet Chestnut, Star of Bethlehem and Chestnut Bud are Bach flower remedies.
For divine intervention: Sweet chestnut
Outside, unhelpful environment over which one has no control: Walnut
Total break-down because of the company: Star of Bethlehem
To get free from the bad situation: Chestnut bud
The Happiness Factor: http://reachnaran.com/the-happiness-factor/
Regained My Faith: http://reachnaran.com/regained-my-faith/
Desperate Situations Needs a Divine Intervention: http://reachnaran.com/desperate-situations-needs-a-divine-intervention/