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Blissful Office Atmosphere
GA
I am facing many problems in office such as missing of files and important documents.
Some of my colleagues are not talking to me without any reason. Some colleagues talk to me very rudely.
Work distribution is on partial basis. My seat is overburdened than other seats. Sometimes I feel politics all around.
If there is any strong and effective switch word to overcome all these problems and for smooth and secure running of job under a blissful and light atmosphere.
Naran
Chant “BEECH WILLOW PINE”
GA
As you advised me, I chanted it.
Today’s day was better than other recent passing days.
Thanks a lot.
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Do you know why she doesn’t appreciate?
Patient: My wife loves me a lot. She is a very considerate person. At the same time, when it comes to my way of doing, she is highly intolerant. Surprisingly, she tolerates others’ mistakes to a greater extent – this includes my parent’s actions too.
Naran
One part of her is tolerant, while the other part of her is intolerant – especially to you. It shows, somehow you trigger the other – unwanted part in her.
Do you have a similar behavior in yourself?
Patient: Yeah! In general, I always tend to correct the way of others and not just one person. I believe everything has to be done correctly, with the right people, and at the right time.
Naran
I will teach you a simple method here.
Affirm as many times as possible:
“I RELEASE the PART of ME that is criticized by me”.
“I OPEN ALIGN WITH the PART of ME that evokes her tolerance to PRAISE me”.
You can write them too.
The letters in UPPER CASE is fixed. The rest of the statement, you can fill with whatever you want. This way, you are releasing the behavior you don’t want and activating the behavior you want in others.
Fixing Machines is No Problem Whatsoever
Fixing TV
R Mohan
My Samsung TV has stopped working. I had been using it for nearly four years. Until now, it hasn’t given me any problems at all. I consulted few technicians, who couldn’t fix the problem at all.
Naran
Write “OAK” in a piece of paper and paste it on the TV.
When you try something many times and if the solution is not found then “OAK” is the remedy. Oak will make you a smart worker. It will find the right tools to solve the problem.
R Mohan
Within 10 minutes of pasting the paper, my sister called me and said she has a spare TV. I could keep it for a while until I buy a new one. Funny thing is she knew the problem all along and never got this idea.
Fixing Laptop
R Mohan
After 3 long years of working, the display screen of my laptop started flickering. Sometimes, the keyboard got stuck. I guess I have to buy a new laptop.
Naran
When you fall sick, you try to fix your problem.
You have used the laptop for several years and it has served you well, by all means. Try to fix it, even if there are no chances of fixing it. In addition, you offer your thanks to it.
Chant “BEECH, OAK”.
The Bach Flower Remedy BEECH is like the universe working in perfect precision.
R Mohan
I chanted the same and after a couple of days figured out that if I stopped using it continuously and shut it off after using it for an hour or two, for a period of 10-20 minutes, then it works without any problem.
Last five months, the problem never happened again.
Fixing Gas Regulator
R Mohan
Bought a new gas stove. The new regulator couldn’t be fixed properly. A couple of technicians tried, failed and asked me to contact the gas authorities.
Then the third one came. While he was about to fix it, I chanted “OAK” few times. And he was able to fix it without any trouble.
Roles People Play
Reddy
Quite often, we are required to play different roles with respect to the same person. In the process lot of misunderstandings occur due to perception at both ends.
At work, we have a subordinate who is also a friend. This friend does not play his role in the office as required.
In the role of a friend, you try to protect him in various ways besides telling him / her about the problems in a friendly manner.
However, if it is not adhered to, it may go the extreme end that you may even need to terminate him/her. It is a very difficult choice. You are torn between both the roles.
In the earlier days, we could take a very dharmic stand and take decisions.
However, now we are required to play a role negotiating happiness for various people in the name of Professionalism / Management etc and suffer.
At home, we have to act as a Parent, Friend, Teacher, friend to your kids.
Often a role is over played by each of the participant resulting in clashes and misunderstanding. Each forgets that they are over stepping on the other role due to inherent flair for one.
Thus, a parent who is generally has a strong Vasanas of a Teacher in making, preaches more and is not able to know when to cut off and act as a friend.
Please give your recommendation to solve the above by way of flower remedy.
Naran
Whatever the role we play, let us ask a simple question.
What is that we lack in any role?
Basically, every relationship is based on communication. How do we communicate? What do we communicate? What do we want to communicate?
The objective of any communication is to reach out to the other person.
BEECH is the remedy for improving our communication.
What are the negative mental states of Beech?
- Unable to understand other man’s point of view
- Unable to appreciate other man’s priorities
- Intolerance
- Fault-finding
- Desire to control or change the other person
If one is in one of the above mental states, right communication will not take place. Here, how Beech can help us?
BEECH can bridge the gap between two persons and makes one understand other man’s point of view.
WALNUT should be taken along with Beech. Walnut can bring in change in the mind. A changed outlook and a changed view will give a different communication tool.
For you Mr. Reddy, in addition to taking BEECH and WALNUT, you take CENTAURY also, while communicating in the office.
“What would my friend think? Will he be hurt, if I say this?” These expressions belong to negative mental state of Centaury.
Rushrush
Wonderfully explained….your site is a healthy addiction.
I feel the need to read it like a holy book everyday…sorting out life’s many questions and seeking the right answer….
I follow so many remedies you advice, go through the topics so many times, sometimes apply my 2 cents worth as well….analyse life’s situation from a different angle….
I have changed so much in my mind and heart…..all because of being a part of this wonderful site and your guidance!!!!
Thank you ever so much…….Naran….THERE’s still so much to absorb from you……..regards……