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Nobody talks to us

Naran

The aged people can chant the switch words “CARE DIVINE”.

The problem for aged people is that youngsters will not talk to them as they are taken for granted.  Particularly those who are aged 70 – 75, children will not share much with them.

Even for small things – medicine or for a blade, which they need, they have to tell 10 times to their children to get it for them.

Such elders can chant “LOVE CARE DIVINE”.

CARE is very important here. Here, CARE means not to be ignored. If one thinks that he is ignored then he has to chant “CARE”.

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Learning many things from my daughter

M

http://finddivinehome.wordpress.com/2013/10/21/cookers-like-mother-in-laws-more/

I really like both stories of Girija.

My little daughter also talks to objects, sun, moon, rain, flowers, pigeons, Ganapati and even to her body parts.

Today doctor cut her plaster. So she was telling to her left hand, “Hey left hand! Pls take care of right hand” (as there is pain in her right hand after cutting the plaster).

When I told her that we have to teach right hand again – how to eat and write, she was encouraging her right hand “You can do it”.

Thus, I’m learning many things from my daughter.

How to criticize others?

SD

By nature I am very candid and not diplomatic.

Also, I am very open to negative feedback too, when someone is giving me a feedback – at home or at work.

However, at home (mine is a joint family), everyone dislikes me since I am very frank. Although, I am very efficient with house work and do not compromise on my duties.

One of my boss (I have 2 bosses) was very good to me and appreciated my work etc, until a while ago when I was frank in expressing some work-related issue.

Now one boss is still ok, since he knows that I am good at work and I am very frank – that is my nature.

Another boss is all angry with me and at every meeting makes sure that he puts me down or talks negatively when it comes to my work.

Can I chant something please, especially that both my husband and my boss should start appreciating me?

Naran 

If you want to maintain your candidness, you can get these only.

You do not point out the mistake only. You point out the good points also. If you want to point the mistake then do it with love.

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I feel small, when he criticizes me: https://healbyrule.wordpress.com/2010/01/19/i-feel-small-when-he-criticizes-me-%E2%80%93-a-case-history/

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