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My husband stopped drinking
Discussion
Raji: I am married for 8 years. I have a daughter who is 7yrs old. When I became pregnant, I got separated from my husband.
Naran: Are you still separated?
Raji: No. We are living together for the last one year.
Naran: What is your problem since you had been together?
Raji: My husband is an alcoholic. Once in 3 or 4 days, he gets drunk as well as daily consuming Pan Parag (a tobacco product).
Naran: Since how long he has been an alcoholic?
Raji: According to my in laws he started drinking from his graduation days.
Naran: Explain his behavior after he gets drunk?
Raji: He will get angry at me and my daughter; will shout.
Naran: What does he shout about?
Raji: He will say, “Nobody respects me. There is no respect for me even in my own house. My daughter does not respect me. My friends, my employees, and my parents don’t respect me either. I will teach all of them a lesson”.
After the outburst, he will start weeping.
Naran’s Analysis
To be respected is the key word for ROCK WATER.
He is weeping. By losing control of himself, he weeps. Therefore, add CHERRY PLUM.
Rock Water will ultimately turn into either CHESTNUT BUD or VINE.
Discussion (cont…)
Naran: How is his behavior when he is not under the influence of alcohol?
Raji: His behavior is quite normal only. He shows his love for his daughter. In fact he sincerely made efforts for our reunion.
(Naran questioned further about her husband’s profession)
Naran: What is he doing?
Raji: He is running a Screen Printing unit. But it is not doing well.
Naran: How does he manage to pay his workers and take care of the family then?
Raji: He is honest in paying out the dues. Somehow, he will manage to pay the workers first, and then gives me money once a week.
Naran’s Analysis
Honesty – ROCK WATER
When one tries to be honest, in spite of adverse circumstances, self-control is employed to the maximum in one area.
He is so self-controlled in the area of finance that he loses self-control in some other area. Thus when he drinks, he loses his control and starts weeping.
Discussion (cont…)
Naran: Suppose if he can’t pay his dues, then how does he manage?
Raji: Naran, one more thing, I have forgotten to tell you. Every month before paying the rent, he would abscond.
Naran: Why?
Raji: He cannot pay the house rent by first of every month. Therefore, he feels ashamed to meet the house owner. So he would not stay in the house during the first week of the month.
Instead, he would stay with his parents for 4 or 5 days, arrange for the money, and will return back home after paying the rent. He has been doing this for a long time. Though, he would never cheat anybody.
Naran’s Analysis
Honest and at the same time an escapist. This is the case of a ROCK WATER person turning into CHESTNUT BUD character. On the due date, he would abscond (Chestnut Bud).
Key Words for Rock Water
To be respected: Ego and pride; self control, honesty.
Self controlled, honest person expects self respect. As a principle, he would never cheat.
Here the husband doesn’t get respect. His ego is hurt when he is insulted. He loses his control when he drinks.
One more interesting point is Rock Water father will face a Cherry Plum daughter.
Prescription
ROCK WATER, CHERRY PLUM, CHESTNUT BUD and WALNUT (to break the habit)
Put the combination in the common drinking water, so that everybody will get the healing effect.
Feedback after 15 days
Raji: From the second day onwards, he stopped Pan Parag, and after a week he has stopped drinking.
Solution to get back money given to others
Richard
I run a naturopath in UK. Could you please advise me about Bach flower remedy for getting the money back, which we had given to others.
Naran
- Take CENTAURY, CHICORY, ROCK WATER and CHESTNUT BUD, 3 pills each three times a day.
- Take MUSTARD + AVENTURINE separately one dose in the morning and one dose in the night.
Explanation
When the other person says, “I will give the money tomorrow or later”, he is not in a position to resist him and say anything against what he says. He cannot antagonize him at any point of time. Such a person needs CENTAURY.
Now you wanted the money back (CHICORY). They dodge paying you (CHESTNUT BUD). The opposite person to such a person will be a ROCK WATER person.
To find a solution to this problem: MUSTARD.
The gem remedy AVENTURINE activates the heart center. It is available at the Centre.
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Generate more business
Naran
Ravi is a teacher for accounts.
He had two students, while he needed a minimum of at least 20 students to manage the show.
Of course, a 50 of them will help him to do well and more than 100 to be a successful businessman.
To get more students, he was asked to visualize as though he has employed a few teachers, taking the classes– as he won’t be able to handle 100 students by himself.
In addition, he had to visualize paying them their salary.
He had to visualize him taking class without worrying about collecting money from the students.
Within a week of visualization, a batch of 10 students joined and in a month 10 more.
“Don’t visualize about receiving money, instead visualize giving them” – is the New Rule of Abundance – NARAN.
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Choosing from two actions
Naran
When you want to do two things at the same time and you want to decide which one to do.
Find both positive and minus points for both the actions. Release them two days before doing them
Then you will be able to come to a decision.
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Court Cases
Find Life Answers
Let us say in the court proceedings, you want fairness in favor of you. You can directly talk to Dharma and Satyam and ask them, “Please be with me for next eight hrs”. They will be with you and will get the verdict in favor of you.
When Satyam and Dharma accompanies a person nothing can go against the person. Call Dharma and Satyam and affirm, “As it prevailed with Lord Rama, please be with us”.
Bach Flower Remedies
For any nagging problems like court cases and adjournments take OAK with WALNUT and HORNBEAM.
Take WILD ROSE, when a person does not know where to go, what to do and whom to approach.
Don’t want to share
A Mullah Story – father left one house, 10 gold coins and 1 goat before passing away. Both brothers fought in court, spending lots of money on lawyers.
By the time the judgment was given, only the goat remained. Judge told them to cut the goat in half and take half each. If one desires money for themselves, this is what will happen.
It does not matter even other person incurs a loss but it is enough if he gets a profit. That is the attitude of CHICORY. He will not share.
Lawyers can’t be liars
The opposite lawyer was telling lies and a patient of mine did not know how to handle him. Before going to the court, he visualized the court and affirmed “CHESTNUT BUD be in the court hall and sustain there for next 8 hrs”.
Interestingly, during the court proceedings, the judge told the opposite lawyer, “Yesterday you were lying throughout the day. If you lie one more time, I will give the judgment against your client”.
The lawyer kept quite as he could not tell the truth.
Mind-Body
How does body guide us? It guides us through pains. A pain is an indication that a part our life has to be mended.
We may be fair in fighting a court case. We may be fighting for justice. But the body, if it pains, we have to withdraw the case.
Mantra Healing
For land-related disputes, chant NAMASHIVAYAM.
Unwanted court cases
Vikram: I want to avoid the financial crisis going on now a day with 2 unwanted court cases against us.
Naran: For court cases, chant “SRINIVASA ARAVINDHALOCHANA” – as many number of times as possible. To get money – “FIND COUNT NOW”.
Switch words
The meaning of CHANGE DIVINE ORDER is “change to divine order”. That means restore justice.
Stuck in a Court Case: “FIND DIVINE ON”
Your in-laws are your parents
JEY
I am married a few months ago and have problems with my mother-in-law. She is the possessive type.
When my husband, she and I go out, she wants to sit in front in the car. Whenever my husband and I go out for a vacation, she would call him and ask him to come back.
She decides everything for us and we have no freedom as husband and wife. My husband follows her blindly without questioning.
How am I to solve this problem? I want my MIL to leave us to enjoy our marriage life.
I love my parents very much and I want my parents to stay near me and I want to take care of them forever.
At the moment my dad is jobless and he is always sad because of that. I hope he can get a job somewhere near my place so that my family will always be next to me. And, I want my parents to live long.
Naran
Write your parents name. Draw a circle around the names. Draw one more circle around the first one. Write in the gap, “SWEET CHESTNUT, WALNUT, GREEN TOURMALINE”.
Love your mother-in-law as much as you love your parents. What all you want to do for your parents, do for your mother-in-law.
Change your thinking and stop resenting. Do this for one month.
Thank her for allowing you to be with your husband. Daily thank her like this.
In the night, chant “TOGETHER CHANGE NOW” till you sleep.
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