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Manage a negative-minded spouse


My brother has lost all hope as his wife is not co-operative, negative-minded, and selfish, blaming personally and never satisfied how much you do for her.

Tell some remedy or mantra for my brother so that he can handle the situation. My brother just wants to give divorce to his wife.

It’s really difficult for him to control the situation as she blames him for everything but then when he asks her for divorce, she doesn’t want to give to him.


Ask your brother to take flower remedies CHICORY, CRAB APPLE and CHERRY PLUM, 2 pills of each, one after the other, three times a day. He has to keep himself cool.

Ask him to chant “TOGETHER DIVINE”.


To remain calm and composed: Cherry Plum

To get the problem out of one’s life: Crab Apple.

The wife does not want the husband; at the same time denying to get separated from him: Chicory

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Case History

The marriage was fixed for Priya. 

The boy was working out of London.  They used to keep talking for long hours on the phone for almost three months. 

One fine day, the boy says that his father might oppose to his wedding as Priya belongs to a different sub-sect, even though from the same caste. 

This made the girl and the mother doubtful about the boy and consulted Naran S Balakumar. 

He told them to keep the Bach Flower Remedy SWEET CHESTNUT in the North East corner of the house and advised her to take it also. 

Three days later there was a phone call from London saying that it is the boy’s wife who is talking.

She told Priya not to agree for the wedding. The boy is a cheater. He has done this to many girls and she is one of his victims. 

After this telephone conversation, they verified and found out that it was true. 

Sweet chestnut saved the life of Priya.

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Case History

Ram was about to attend a wedding along with his wife. Naran gave him (Bach Flower remedy) SWEET CHESTNUT.

He was travelling by Train to Tirunelveli. The train was nearing Trichy.

He remembered his professor then, who was staying in a village close to Trichy. His professor, who has no children, sponsored Ram’s education as Ram couldn’t find money for his higher studies.

Ram then went to USA. Even though he wanted to return the money his professor vehemently refused to take the money.

Ram thought as there was some more time before attending the wedding he told his wife that they will pay a short visit to his teacher’s place.

When he reached his professor’s house, he found that he had died the day before.

As there was nobody to perform the funeral rites for the professor, Ram took over the ceremony and later attended the wedding too.


Divine in the form of SWEET CHESTNUT wanted Ram to do the funeral rites of his professor. 

Need Not Go Through Dialysis

TV Ramesh

I wish to place on record the following facts.

My mother is 81 years old. She was diagnosed as a case of Chronic Renal Failure 17 years back.

Since then, she has been under the care of a leading nephrologist in Chennai. She has been on regular medication since 17 years. 

About two months back, during her regular check-up it was found that her creatinine and blood urea levels were raised.

Her nephrologist informed us that she is heading to a stage when she has to be on dialysis, may be beginning from a month or so.

As he had predicted, in about a month’s time she had to start on dialysis. She underwent 7 sittings of dialysis.

As far as I know, once a person becomes dependent on dialysis, then he/she has to undergo dialysis for a lifetime.

It was then that my wife suggested that we consult Naran S Balakumar on this.

Accordingly, I met him. He had given a flower remedy, which he said is a combination of certain flower extracts.

He suggested that my mother should take this for a month and that I should apprise him of the effect the remedy has on her.

My mother has been taking the remedy regularly since a little more than a month.

During this period she has been regularly undergoing blood tests and the creatinine and blood urea levels have come down and stabilized at reasonably acceptable levels.

The doctor has also indicated that she need not go through any dialysis right now. Since her vital parameters are stable.

We believe that it is the remedy given by Naran Balakumar that has done the trick! Our sincere and heartfelt thanks to him!!

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Create positives out of a situation


Let us see an example

“My husband is not good. He is irritating too”, says the wife.

She is blaming her husband here.

If she has to handle this situation, then what resource (quality) she needs to handle it?

Does she needs to be courageous, be more loving and caring, or be bold?

When there is a problem, you need to ask yourself, “What one resource will enrich me and will help me to handle this life situation”.

This way you are healing yourself. Instead, if some person is angry and you also get angry, then you are gone.

So what do we need here?

People would say she needs patience and tolerance.

What’s patience?

Patience is the quality or ability to withstand a situation without getting angry or upset.

If that’s the case, then the Bach Flower IMPATIENS is the remedy. Impatiens will create patience inside you.

You need tolerance also. BEECH is the remedy for it.

Beech and Impatiens go together in cultivating tolerance and patience.

Developing a Life Strategy

Quality of patience, without getting upset or angry about the other person, is waiting inside us, waiting for the right opportunity.

We all need it. If I have it, then I will be striking at the right moment. It’s a Life Strategy.

If we have this quality, we will have more consideration and caring for other people. To develop this strategy, take the flower remedy IMPATIENS.

If I cultivate patience and tolerance (Beech and Impatiens), then I will become more considerate.

Consideration means, there is more love and affection for other person. Then we will become accommodative.

To be more caring, after being considerate, HOLLY is the remedy.

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Husband wants to marry again


I was married for 16 yrs and got 3 girls. Ours is a middle-class family. Mine was a love marriage

Initially, everything was very well. He took good care of me and family but for the past 6 yrs there’s a lot of change in his attitude and behavior.

He yelled at me and kids in front of everyone, treating us very badly.

Last month, he brought one lady home and told us that he’s going to marry her.

My girls and parents launched a police complaint and with the help of a police officer that marriage was stopped.

He did not want to divorce but want to lead a new life with that lady. I told him that I will not agree for that.

After this he stopped coming home and eating from home. He will come as and when he wished but will not eat anything.

He gives money for the home expenses. I want to lead a happy married life with him. I want him to be genuine and truthful to our family.

Recently, he started hatred towards me. Pls help me to change this and lead me a happy life.


Take the flower remedies CHICORY, HOLLY, and ASPEN.

Put each 5 pills in a glass of water and have small sips from that water, every one or two hours, from morning to evening.

In the night, take the flower remedies WHITE CHESTNUT and WALNUT before going to sleep, 5 pills each.



A CHICORY person turns easily into HOLLY. Husband is the shadow-self of wife and hence, and therefore, his remedies are given to her.

Every day, she has to lead her life with the constant fear of what will happen, for which ASPEN will help.

To come out of persistent, constant worry: WHITE CHESTNUT and WALNUT

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Senior citizens need not be alone


Rajan became a widow at the age of 65. Both his sons were away. So he felt lonely and disturbed.

He took the remedies CHICORY, WILD ROSE and GENTIAN for four months.

Then his younger son’s assignment got over and his company asked him to come back to Chennai. So, he brought his family – wife, son and daughter, along with him.

He decided to stay with his father, who started enjoying the company of his young grand-children.

I found the above-mentioned combination helps one to manage the old age comfortably.

CHICORY helps you to get help at the right time, which is a must for senior citizens.

Found My Gold Earring

Biswasri Datta, Mar 6th

My wife has lost a gold earring today and two months back she had lost a gold locket during traveling.

Naran, Mar 5th

You will not get (the gold locket). Chant “GORSE, SLOW CARE” daily.

Biswasri Datta, Mar 6th

I got back my wife’s earring with in a night after chanting “CERATO, CHESTNUT BUD, ROCK WATER” as mentioned in the blog, “Secret to Find the Lost Objects”:

This is really a miracle only because of you.


If Mr. Datta is not to get it back than why he should chant?


The switch words (SLOW CARE) will help him to be careful in the future. The Bach Flower GORSE is suggested for the hopeless situation of not getting back the ornament.

Idea is to come out of the current mental state, so that we will not be in the same situation in the future.

Groom is picky


My brother is picky that he will marry only beautiful looking girls, though he doesn’t look smart. How to change his attitude?



A BEECH person is picky. Even if he doesn’t look smart, he will expect his wife to be smart.

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Remove your uncertainty getting jobs


During my visit to the centre a few months back I asked your advice for a job for my younger son and his wife.

As per your advice I have been chanting ‘”ADJUST TOGETHER CHANGE DIVINE ORDER”.

There  is  some delay  in my  son  getting a  job  which  is of  great  concern to all of  us. 

I sought your guidance in his success on Monday.

Is there any chant that could remove this uncertainty and be successful in getting a job offer? Currently, he has now been interviewed in two companies.


I  am pleased to  inform you  that  my  son has got a job  offer from  both the companies and  he has  chosen  one. He reported to work today.   

I   had been chanting as per your guidance and am very grateful to you.

Thanking you

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